Love Starts Here with Love and Life Coach Melissa Snow

Today I'm bringing you a replay of one of our MOST POPULAR episodes from back in the day (when the podcast was still called Quest for Love). 

In today's episode, I discuss four truths that might be hard for some of you to accept, but you NEED to hear this:

1.  Sex is not love.
2.  Obligation is not love.
3.  Fear is not love.
4.  Comfort is not love.

And I'm going to tell you exactly what to do if your mind gets jumbled up and forgets everything you know about what love is AND what it isn't. 

After this episode originally aired, I received so much feedback from women who had NO idea that they confusing sex, obligation, fear or comfort for love and that THIS is what was keeping them stuck. 

This episode is SO powerful that I wanted to make sure you heard it again (or for the first time)!

If you love the episode, be sure to leave a review and join us in the Love Starts Here Facebook group for exclusive content you won't find anywhere else!

In this episode, I interview Rachel Gordillo, one of my favorite cast members from Married at First Sight Season 13.

Rachel opens up about the ups and downs of her marriage and what ultimately led to her divorce.

She also shares what she learned through the whole process and how she became a woman who was willing to say, "I deserve better" and walk away. 

We also discuss compatibility, non-negotiables, how to know when your relationship is really over.   Of course, I also had to ask her about the infamous night when she got locked out of her apartment and so much more!

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Also mentioned:  Love Starts Here Episode 47 - Compatibility 

In this episode, I interview Myrla Feria, one of my favorite cast members from Married at First Sight Season 13.

Myrla explains how she became so confident and how she remains so unapologetically herself, despite what people say about her.

She explains how the people you surround yourself with impact your self-worth and how to create a life that leaves little room for self doubt. 

We also discuss the importance of speaking up for yourself, why it's important to never compromise on what you want in a relationship and how to not let other people's opinions define you.

And OF COURSE, I had to ask her about her current relationship status, how she handles all the haters and SO much more!

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Also mentioned in this episode:  "Who is in Your Square Squad?" - Brene Brown 

You want to find your person.  You long to find love.  You've waited your whole life for the relationship of your dreams...

But are you really willing to do whatever it takes to have it?

In this episode, we'll explore your answer to that question and the two most likely reasons you might feel like giving up on love sometimes. 

I'll help you identify exactly where your work is so you know exactly what's keeping you from having what you really want.

When you're ready to do that work,   join the Love Starts Here Facebook group or apply for my new 3-month program, The Relationship Reset.

Relationships can be confusing but when you love an alcoholic or an addict things are even more complex.

On today's episode, I'm joined by fellow Life Coach Deanna Marie who works specifically with women who are in a relationship with an addict.

We discuss what to do when you can't get the other person to change their ways and how you can still be happy, live a beautiful life and feel love for him no matter what he does. 

Whether you are now or have been in a relationship with an addict in the past, this episode is full of wisdom that will help you along on your journey.

For more information about Deanna and how to work with her check out www.DeannaMarieLifeCoaching.com 

Woo Hoo!  We're celebrating 50 EPISODES of the Love Starts Here podcast!

In this podcast, I'm counting down the top 5 most downloaded episodes and giving you the highlights from each one. 

Even if you've been a loyal listener from the beginning, this episode is full of good reminders and insights your brain may have forgotten!

To listen to the full episodes, use the links below and don't forget to leave a review!

#5 - Episode 10 - Five Tips For Moving On From Your Ex
#4 - Episode 20 - Self Confidence Secrets
#3 - Episode 33 - How Mindset Impacts Your Life (and Love)
#2 - Episode 14 - What is Love?
#1 - Episode 29 - Perfection, Sex-Clubs and Self-Love w/Ashleigh Renard, Author of Swing 

Single, Dating and "It's Complicated" ladies!  I know it gets frustrating putting yourself out there over and over again and never getting the results you want (and deserve!)

In today's episode, I'm sharing 3 of the most likely reasons you haven't found love yet and I'll tell you exactly what to do about it.

If any of these resonate with you, apply for my new 3-month program, The Relationship Reset today! 

Also, be sure to join the Love Starts Here Facebook group where we dive deeper into these topics and so much more!

This episode is for anyone who has been cheated on, betrayed by or simply lost trust in someone they love. 

It's also for anyone who has ever struggled with the decision whether to stay in your relationship or leave it.

In this episode I'm joined by Andrea Giles, a Life Coach who specializes in helping women recover after their partner's infidelity.

We talk about how you can learn to trust that person again (and whether you should).  We also discuss how hard it can be to trust yourself again and Andrea shares specific strategies for how you can start to gain that trust back. 

Plus, Andrea shares her #1 tip for making a decision whether to stay or go that you can feel good about without second guessing yourself.

For more information about Andrea Giles CLICK HERE.  Also, be sure to check out her podcast, Heal From Infidelity.  

Most people think compatibility means liking the same music, having similar hobbies, making each other laugh, etc. but getting along well with someone and TRULY being compatible in a relationship are very different things.  

In this episode we're talking about what compatibility REALLY means, in terms of:

• Negotiables vs. Non-Negotiables
• Giving Up Parts of Yourself or Your Life
• Shared Values 
• Future Goals 
• Love-Ability 

If you’ve dated in the past or your dating now and you keep ending up in dead-end relationships,  it could very well be that you are missing key signs that you’re not actually compatible for a long term relationship! 

This episode will also help you look at past relationships and see exactly why they didn't work out, so you can avoid making the same mistakes again!

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER for my FREE Masterclass, "Love Doesn't Have to Be So Hard - 5 Powerful Tips to Have More Fun and Success in Dating" 

Do you ever wonder why you do the things you do in relationships?  Want to know how to stop obsessing and ruminating or why you go from hot to cold so quickly?

On today's episode, I'm joined by Life Coach Jennifer Inman to discuss attachment styles - what are they, were do they come from, and how do they impact our relationships?

No matter your relationship status, this episode is a game-changer. 

For more information about Jennifer and to take a quiz to find out YOUR attachment style, visit www.RelationshipIQ.com