Love Starts Here with Love and Life Coach Melissa Snow

I hear it all the time....ONLINE DATING SUCKS! 

But it doesn't have to be this way!

In this podcast I share my TOP 5 TIPS for how to make online dating suck less...and the last one will definitely surprise you!

After you listen, be sure to CLICK HERE to download my Ultimate Guide to Online Dating for TONS more tips on how to make online dating more fun and more successful than ever before.  Plus, you'll get a link to download my "Pre-Date Playlist"!

We all do it.

Maybe you compare yourself to other women and think you'll never be as pretty or as fit as them...  Maybe you compare your relationship to other people's and think you'll never be as happy as they are...

Whatever the circumstances, comparison is not only the thief of joy, it's the thief of self-confidence too!

In this episode, I share why comparison happens, and how it impacts your self worth and your ability to have the love you want and deserve.  Plus, I share the two steps you can take right now to lessen the impact of comparison in your own life - and the first one might surprise you!

If you want to dive deeper into any of these topics check out www.lovestartsherecoach.com or join the Love Starts Here Facebook Group! 

Mindset might seem like a boring topic when it comes to love and relationships but it's actually the #1 REASON women aren't finding or keeping the love they want and deserve.

In this episode, I explain why mindset matters, why it's NOT just a bunch of woo, and the most important question you can ask yourself when making ANY decision.

If you want to dive deeper into any of the topics we discuss on the podcast, join the Love Starts Here Facebook Group or e-mail me at [email protected]

Today I'm bringing you a replay of one of our MOST POPULAR episodes.  

In this episode, I talk all about emotionally unavailable men, the #1 reason you attract them, and how to change it. 

After this episode aired, I received so much feedback from women who had NO idea that THIS was the reason they were attracting the same kind of man over and over again.  

And even better - once they started to make shifts in their own lives, they noticed they were attracting a total different kind of man.  

This episode is SO powerful that I wanted to make sure you heard it again (or for the first time)!

After you listen, if you want some extra support on your own quest for love, you have a few options:

• Join the Love Starts Here Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovestartshere
• Email me at:  [email protected]
• Book a free consult with me at:  https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=22767534&appointmentType=22449813

Let's talk about SEX, baby!  

On today's episode I'm joined by Relationship and Sex Therapist Leighanna Nordstrom from Pivotal Counseling in Colorado.  

Regardless of your relationship status of your current level of sexual intimacy, this podcast has something important for everyone!

Leighanna explains the Six Principles of Sexual Health, which include:

• Consent
• Non-exploitative
• Honest
• Shared Values
• Protection from STI, HIV and Unwanted Pregnancy
• Pleasure

This is all the stuff they SHOULD have taught you in sex-ed!  

Not only does Leighanna explain the Six Principles in a way that makes sense, but she also explains exactly how we can apply them to our lives and how to talk to our partners or potential partners about each one. 

For more information on today's episode or if you're interested in her counseling services you can e-mail her directly at [email protected] 

You might know you WANT a relationship, but are you really READY for it?

In this episode I share 5 key areas to check in order to know if you're truly prepared for the kind of relationship you want and deserve:

1.  You're happy where you are right now
2.  You're super clear on exactly what you want and what you don't
3.  You've put the past to bed
4.  You know yourself and like yourself
5.  You're willing to take your time

We're diving deep into all five of these areas so you can ask yourself the important questions.  And if you discover that you're not fully prepared?  No problem.  I'm also sharing the 4 areas to focus your work in order to get prepared.

P.S.  In a few weeks, we're doing a 5 Day Challenge in the Love Starts Here Facebook group that's going to help you with all of this.  It's going to be AMAZING, so if you haven't joined yet, get in there!

P.P.S.  You can also go to my website and sign up for my mailing list to make sure you get more info about the challenge sent to you!

No matter what the topic is, your brain has TONS of thoughts about it. 

Most people get stuck on the negative thoughts.  The thoughts that create confusion and doubt and insecurity and anxiety.  The ones that make you feel like crap. 

When you're stuck in this kind of mind drama, it's easy to forget that there are other thoughts you have that you're forgetting to think.  Thoughts that make you feel confident and calm and certain. 

Remembering you have other thoughts you can think and knowing that it's a choice has been a game changer in my life and in my relationships and I know it will be in yours too!

P.S.  Don't forget to join the Love Starts Here Facebook group.  We'll be talking more about this topic  AND I'm giving away lots of prizes soon!

In her new book "Swing" Ashleigh Renard tells the story of how she rehabbed shabby marriage.  But her book is about SO much more than that.

In this episode, Ashleigh joins me to talk about her experience with overcoming perfectionism, people pleasing and constantly worrying about what other people think.

She also shares her insight on action vs. mindset, lovability and how shifting your relationship with yourself can shift everything else in your life. 

To learn more about today's guest, visit www.ashleighrenard.com

To purchase a copy of her book, Swing, CLICK HERE!

Don't forget to join the Love Starts Here Facebook group too!  Ashleigh is in it and we have so much fun in there!

Sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between a situationship and a relationship...

Do you listen to your brain or your gut?  Do you believe what he says or what he does?

Things can get confusing when there are so many mixed signals and you don't know what to believe. 

On today's episode I'm breaking down 5 sure-fire ways to know whether he wants a relationship with you or not - no matter what he says!

For more support, join the Love Starts Here Facebook group or CLICK HERE to schedule your free breakthrough call with Melissa! 

You know those thoughts that say you're not pretty enough, successful enough, smart enough, whatever enough?

Don't worry, it's not just you.  We ALL have these "not enough thoughts."

In this episode, I'll share some of the main reasons these thoughts happen and what you can start doing today to make the transition to "I AM ENOUGH!"

For more support, join the Love Starts Here Facebook group or CLICK HERE to schedule your free breakthrough call with Melissa!