It is a challenge everyday to simply focus on just what happens to us. We don't live in a vacuum. There is difficult climate in our world today, with conflict and change affecting individuals and families in the country and beyond. We started this show with a simple yet daunting question. What if the world and life as we know it, ended five days from now. It led to an interesting discussion on the moral and ethical decisions we would make (or not make) as the clock of our existence ticked slowly down to zero. How would you you live your last week as your best, spiritual self? You would be surprised. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

Both Duarte and I do what we can to live a good life, doing the right thing with compassion and kindness. It's a worthy cause and worth the work. However being flawed human beings, there are times when we've slipped. The universe remembers and finds a way to throw us an obstacle or two to teach us a lesson. Is that karma? Do our current actions have a direct result with what happens to us in the future? Is it destiny? in this episode, we look back to wonder what karma will bring, how past events have shaped the karma of others, and the power of our intentional actions that shape our personal karma. Fingers crossed. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

Did you ever really take a step back and look at all the "stuff" you have around you? From gift giving and receiving around the holidays to buying ourselves something to make ourselves feel good, Duarte and I break down what materialism has turned out for us. What are the holes in ourselves that we are trying to fill with all this stuff? Can we be at peace with just the things we already have? Let's find out as we are excited to be back after a long holiday season break and and continue to share our personal discoveries on this mid-life spiritual journey with you. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

We speak a lot on the show about finding your own happiness and that sometimes requires you to peel away from your own conditioning and make a change. You set goals and begin to pursue. Unfortunately for your own protection, the unconscious ego rears its ugly head and starts one of the most impactful obstacles that holds us back. Self-Sabotage. In this episode we lean on Dr. Logan Jones's article "3 Reasons Why We Self-Sabotage Our Own Success" and share moments in our past careers, current entrepreneurship and families where self-sabotage and the fear of success and failure has held us back.  

Read the entire article here: https://drloganjones.com/3-reasons-why-we-self-sabotage-our-own-success/

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

What happens when you die? For both Duarte and me, we've been fed a lot of information on that very thing throughout our lives. Knowing that the life we have on this earth is finite, the mind (with a little conditioning) can create scenarios that best eases the fear that someday we will in fact die. There are so many things that shape our predictions of the after life and beliefs that make that destination a bit more positive. In this episode, we put it all on the table and debate the very thing that everyone on this planet has in common. If we are all going to die, what happens next?

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

To be honest, when I first thought of mindfulness and the universe "having my back", it was a bit alien to me. Deep down I knew I wanted to try something different to get out of my head and be more in the moment each day. Fear. Ego. Was getting tired of it. Then I was handed "partners" that gave me the tips and tools to start practicing getting my mind in check. Now I have partners that I can lean on without the worry of judgement. In this episode we talk about who those partners are and steps to take if you choose to learn a bit more about taking care of your mind and spirit. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

We are all social beings. There are many benefits of connecting with others but have you ever thought about the benefits of taking some time to only be by yourself and disconnecting from the world for a bit? Both Duarte and have grown accustomed to taking time for ourselves. It started back in childhood and we feel it's even more important now as grown adults. In this episode we discuss how the task of "unplugging" and finding time to take part in activities solo can bring both mental and physical benefits, as well as the downtime you may need to recharge. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

We find ourselves every day competing for something. Winning feels good. But does winning come at a price? Does it disrupt the flow we try to achieve by creating even bigger mental and spiritual obstacles? In this episode we break down the facets of competition in our professional and personal lives ands if it's really worth it. When they say winning isn't everything they are on to something. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.

In this episode, Duarte and I get on mic after a bit of summer vacation to talk  about the silver linings that present themselves but are tough to see. Staying positive can be a challenge when our egos just want to convince us that things aren't what they are and blindness takes over. Trust me, with a mind-heavy few weeks up to the show, I've needed some help seeing silver linings I had forgotten about. But as always, this show and every show before it instills a level of clarity that we both are grateful for. Hopefully, it will create some clarity for you as well. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podca

As kids, the word NO is a tool to keep us safe. As we get older, those NO's become YES's and we take responsibility for the consequences. Life becomes a tug of war, of sorts, saying YES and NO along the way. But with conditioning, the YES's dominate and we lose sight that NO is a powerful tool to protect us as it did before. In this episode, we dive into those times when saying NO was essential in being at peace and in flow so when YES's are chosen, those moments become more authentic and genuine. 

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Duarte Monteiro is the the Owner/Head Coach at ZenSport in Mantua, NJ and Nick Goblirsch is the Owner/Painter at I Heart Painting LLC in Hammonton, NJ and former host of The Dependent Independent Podcast.