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When a person tends to give too much in their relationships especially, narcissist relationships, he or she can place others before themselves.  How one tends to think of the narcissist and others might be in a larger-than-life way.  It's how one thinks and not what they think of narcissist relationships than can change the way they choose to relate to others and do relationships in general.

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Feelings of being stuck and obssessed in narcissist relationships have history and origin that are often not very clear until one begins to accept that he or she is outgrowing these relationships.

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Energy matters more than one might think, especially if he or she is recovering after narcissistic abuse.  Thank you for tuning in and stay tuned for more episodes!

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Narcissistic personality often seeks control not connection.  In order for some who have a narcissistic personality to remain in control of their relationships with others, substance and or alcohol usage might result in others who wish connection to fix, save or rescue their narcissist.  There are similar signs of alcoholism and pathological narcissism that might not become apparent until later stages of narcissist relationships.  The attempt to save, fix or rescue the narcissist becomes a way that the narcissist remains in control of his or her relationships.

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Very often the clue that narcissists seem to want control rather than connection can escape others while they are involved with him or her. The crazy-making that occurs in narcissist relationships are often a dance of control and change.  Narcissists often attempt to control while others might attempt to connect with them to no avail.  There are subtle signs of codependency in narcissist relationships such as; rescuing, fixing and or having a strong sense of obligation to save others in order to meet the objective of either being in control of others, or connecting to others.  Unconsciously each might attempt to obtain their objective by using control or change.  In order for some who have a narcissistic personality to remain in control of their relationships with others, substance and or alcohol usage might result in others who wish connection to fix, save or rescue their narcissist.  There are similar signs of alcoholism and pathological narcissism that might not become apparent until later stages of narcissist relationships.  The attempt to save, fix or rescue the narcissist becomes a way that the narcissist remains in control of his or her relationships.

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Narcissistic personality types will often count on your fears in order to influence your making excuses not to thrive.  When a person has accepted that he or she has outgrown narcissist relationships this is very powerful, but not something that narcissists encourage or support.  Thanks for tuning in and stay tuned for more episodes!  

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Very often narcissistic personality types use the tactic of guilt tripping others who show signs of outgrowing the relationship with him or her.  Unfortunately, sometimes this results in those targeted for sourse supply to feel guilty to the point of being the one to carry the weight of the relationship while narcissist walk away without taking accountability for their part of the breakup or mishap.  Finding the value of detachment from narcissist relationships without losing yourself could prove to be a game changer resulting in checkmate instead of a stalemate.

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Echoism in narcissist relationships are not always very apparent to narcissistic personality types and those who have empathetic abilities.  Signs of echoism can also be confused with signs of codependency.  Thanks for tuning in and stay tuned for more episodes!

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Becoming more aware of self and stuck points can help to focus on growing past the narcissist.  Forget attempting to spend time, energy and focus on getting over the narcissist, instead accept that you are more than likely out growing the narcissist relationship.  Try to start giving yourself the permission to come to peace with this reality.

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Narcissistic personality often will avoid closure possibly giving themselves the excuse to dodge responsibility for their actions.  With closure comes clarity often revealing behavior patterns while challenging all involved to take responsibility for their own actions, feelings and choices.  Thank you for tuning in.  Stay tuned for more!

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