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Ever wonder why some become upset or angry when you choose to call judgement out on bull?  When you choose to tell the truth about something that perhaps needs to be dealt with, make no mistake some will not like it.  You might experience disapproval for choosing to be true to yourself and tell the truth to others when they're not ready for it.  Try not to take it personally when people do not validate you for telling the truth that can hurt, but is designed to heal everyone, including yourself involved.  It can be an opportunity to become more creative with telling the truth and getting it off your chest.  Holding on to it can compromise your health.  Just because some might choose to not hear you doesn't mean that choosing to use your voice is not powerful.  Practice using your voice!  

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There are some women who have a good daughter complex with a narcissistic mother are often found to be women who might seem to have an obsession with pleasing her mother, while being a people pleaser rather than a someone who knows how to comfortable with receiving in all of her relationships.  Unfortunately, women who have the good daughter complex with mommie dearest issues tend to end up experiencing multiple narcissist relationships as she struggles with an identity crisis.  Her identity crisis is often reflective of perhaps having a distorted view of herself.  By becoming accustomed to not using her voice, women who have the complex to please narcissistic mom, often experience echoism, codependency and other reoccurring issues that leads to stagnation and possibly a lack of confidence to find out who she is outside of narcissist relationships.  The good daughter complex often comes with mommie dearest issues, especially when she flips the script to suit her false self-images.  It's almost as if narcissistic moms MUST believe that she is victim of having a very difficult daughter.  Unfortunately, narcissistic moms attempt to gaslight others to believe that same about her daughter.  Sometimes, being good to narcissistic mom just doesn't seem good enough.

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There are times that a bully might show disapproval of your choosing to use your voice.  If not careful, you can become accustomed to not using your voice, especially when your inner voice is urging you to do so.  There are two things that narcissists seem to like and detest in others and those are; not having a voice or an identity.  Personal boundaries are not respected or practiced in narcissist relationships.  Becoming familiar with sadness and mismanaged anger can keep you stagnant in the narcissist relationship, while your narcissist might feel confident that they dominate the relationship.  Narcissists will sometimes use intimidation tactics to gain control in the relationship with you and others.  When you start to show signs that you are done with the narcissist and the narcissist relationship, it can be reflective of you accepting that you are outgrowing the relationship.  Giving yourself permission to experience more positive relationships can seem scary at first, but with focus, commitment and using your voice you continue to thrive forward!  

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How does your narcissist make excuses when they venture off seeking new sources of supply?  The laundry list of excuses to discard and dismiss you can seem ridiculous.  Ever wonder if you were already involved in the third-party situation before the discard?  More than likely the narcissist had new source supply before they discarded, ghosted and dismissed while you're the last to know about their latest shenanigan!  Sometimes narcissists will use the old bait and switch if they should decide to attempt to hoover you back.  The new source supply provides your narcissist the excuse needed in order to attempt to justify the diabolical tactics often used to normalize gaslight techniques, smear campaigning and hoover.  Let's talk about it!

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The svengali-like discard can seem extra cruel, especially to women who have narcissistic moms that she is trying to please, along with co-workers, bosses, romantic partners, friends and other relatives.  The good daughter complex often sets her up for a network of third party situationships with those who have a dark personality such as; narcissists and psychopaths.  However; it all seems to begin as a little girl who has mommie dearest issues.  Thanks for visiting and stay tuned for more episodes!

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The good daughter complex often sets her up for a network of third party situationships with those who have a dark personality such as; narcissists and psychopaths.  However; it all seems to begin as a little girl who has mommie dearest issues.  Thanks for visiting and stay tuned for more episodes!

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A new source of supply often gives a person the excuse to not only disregard, but to easily dismiss another person who might find an end to their relationship challenging.  An ex can be left picking up the pieces of broken promises, home and a broken heart.  He or she might wonder if they're thought about or mourned when their ex has seemed to move on.  This is a natural response to a harsh and possibly abrupt ending of a romance.  Perhaps there are many things that were left unsaid and undone when the relationship was discarded.  A new source of supply often provides their ex with the excuse to dismiss and disregard him or her should they seek help with closure.  But don't be fooled the one who does the discard only seems to walk away unscathed.  When relationships end no one is invincible.

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After the relationship is over one can sometimes be challenged with feelings of lonliness and a desire for validation and closure.  When things are left said and undone this can leave the door open for an ex to return only to offer more drama and foolishness, instead of commitment.  The dark seduction of the discard has the potential to have one caught up in a third party situation, unwarranted obsession and the harsh reality that at the end of the day finding closure after a relationship is over is for a party of one.

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If it's love how can they be so cruel and detached?  It's hard to hurt someone when he or she is detached. It's best to accept that you and that person is outgrowing the relationship.  Sometimes it can be challenging to accept that people simply outgrow relationships regardless if it's a dysfunctional relationship or not.  

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The good daughter complex often comes with mommie dearest issues, especially when she flips the script to suit her false self-images.  It's almost as if narcissistic moms MUST believe that she is victim of having a very difficult daughter.  Unfortunately, narcissistic moms attempt to gaslight others to believe that same about her daughter.  Sometimes, being good to narcissistic mom just doesn't seem good enough.

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