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Narcissistic personality types might use priming as a control tactic.  Beware of how narcissists will often rig the priming games for you to lose.  It is encouraged to bring awareness about this topic.  Thanks for sharing, joining, leaving comments and questions.

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Ever wonder why some narcissists will create false narratives, then flip the script?  They have unrealistic terms of an imaginary contract that perhaps you are expected to fufill.  These contractual terms tend to range from emotional, financial, mental to sexual.  When you factor in the emotional roller coster ride of shenanigans that narcissistic personality types often pull, is it any wonder that it eventually takes it's toll on a person?  Narcissistic personality often displays having a hive or herd mentality.  With this type of mentality combined with a dark personality such as narcissistic, you might notice a dr. jekyll/mr. hyde complex, false accusations, curse language, secrets, bad luck, smear campaigning and pulling a telekinesis all being things that narcissistic personality types normalize and justify.  One of the many terms of the imaginary contract that narcissist often draw up for others is to put up with their normalizing such behaviors without protest or challenge.

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There are some narcissists who may ask what someone else will bring to the table?  Regardless, he or she seems not easy to satisfy, yet they continue to play with the heart of others like a lucky 7s slot game.  He or she rather be in the center of your mind and not necessarily your heart which is why narcissists often will roll the dice and bet on the ability to screw with your mind.   Rarely, if ever will the narcissist consider the cost of using and toying with the hearts of others.  As a part of the narcissistic cycle, narcissistic personality types tend to project their perspective of their reality onto others and bring their shame, guilt, addiction, dark secrets and distress to the table.  Then comes the discard.  Your efforts to love, support, appreciate and connect will more than likely go unnoticed, unappreciated and undervalued.  Perhaps it might be time to consider what narcissistic personality types can or would offer, yet alone bring to anyone's table.  Try not to waste time asking why any narcissist should pick you?  Why would they pick you out of their options?  Why be an option?  Once you become hoover resistant verified, the narcissist will not be able to hoover you again and that will be their reality check that you're not an option, but you're a missed opportunity!

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One of the best signs that you are done with the narcissist is that maybe now you are choosing to perceive that narcssistic relationships are not your purpose in life, but something that you once experienced and choose to learn from.  How to move on after the narcissist relationship is over?  When some narcissistic personality types discard and move on to new source supply, one can be left to pick up the pieces while working through chaos and confusion that their narcissist ex is partly responsible for causing.  Perhaps you have experienced this yourself and felt as if you had to find the inner strength to revive yourself back to life again.  There are many narcissists who don't seem to consider the cost of their poor choices, bad behavior and ill-mannered words.  He or she seems to lack foresight, but perhaps you are the one who displays a fortitude that cannot be denied.  Learning how to detach from the narcissist relationship can help you to accept that it's over and that you can move on.

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The network of ongoing third-party situations is only one way that narcissist relationships function for a long period of time other than when narcissists practice clever grooming tactics in order to manipulate situations in his or her favor.  Confusion seems to compound the emotional effect of narcissist relationships, especially if it's a third-party situation.  Third-party situations can take on a vampiric energy and become draining until it takes it toll.  Very often when people are dealing with the narcissistic personality at home or at work, they tend to find that he or she applies various tactics with a wash, rince and repeat fashion to achieve the desired effect.  Unfortunately, these grooming tactics are not very apparent which is why the experience can seem surreal to those emotionally invested, while it can seem unreal to others who are not operating in the third-party situation with a covert narcissist.  Very often the root cause of narcissists engaging or starting a third-party situation is covert narcissism.  Narcissistic personality often thrive on energy harvesting because it allows him or her to dodge experiencing the full extent of consequences from their choices to obtain source supply at the expense of others without regard or remorse.  Third party-situations provide narcissistic personality a covenant or escape for breaking sacred connections such as relationships promising trust, loyalty or commitment.  It's perhaps a covert narcissist's darkest of many secrets.

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The network of ongoing third-party situations is only one way that narcissist relationships function for a long period of time other than when narcissists practice clever grooming tactics in order to manipulate situations in his or her favor.  Confusion seems to compound the emotional effect of narcissist relationships, especially if it's a third-party situation.  Third-party situations can take on a vampiric energy and become draining until it takes it toll.  Very often when people are dealing with the narcissistic personality at home or at work, they tend to find that he or she applies various tactics with a wash, rince and repeat fashion to achieve the desired effect.  Unfortunately, these grooming tactics are not very apparent which is why the experience can seem surreal to those emotionally invested, while it can seem unreal to others who are not operating in the third-party situation with a covert narcissist.  Very often the root cause of narcissists engaging or starting a third-party situation is covert narcissism.  Narcissistic personality often thrive on energy harvesting because it allows him or her to dodge experiencing the full extent of consequences from their choices to obtain source supply at the expense of others without regard or remorse.  Third party-situations provide narcissistic personality a covenant or escape for breaking sacred connections such as relationships promising trust, loyalty or commitment.  It's perhaps a covert narcissist's darkest of many secrets.

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Why is it so challenging to consider giving your narcissist another chance?  There are a few things to consider if you are contemplating on giving your narcissist another chance to redeem themselves.  There's such a thing as priming and then there's grooming.  Narcissists tend to groom or prime people that they target for souce supply.  Usually people don't even know that they are being exposed to something that influences their behavior later on in the narcissist relationship, especially due to possible neural pathways, toxic ties and other inappropriate attachments.  Your knowledge of what it means to detach from the narcissist relationship without disconnecting or losing yourself will more than likely prove to be a powerful advantage over your narcissist.  It's a checkmate not a stalemate!  By asking yourself critical questions as a part of contemplating whether or not to give your narcissist another chance is going to help you to gain clarity about the root cause(s) of having the narcissist relationship in the first place.  Getting down to the nitty gritty or root cause is often the prerequisite of uprooting issues which can prevent another narcissist relationship to take place.

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How do you accept that your narcissist has new source supply?  First, you take steps to take off the rose-colored glasses and begin to seek opportunities to become a person that your narcissist cannot hoover back in, once they have discarded.  Secondly, take steps to accept the reality of the situation without attempting to manipulate the situation out of ego or fear.  It might be best to become cognizant of how narcissists often have a network of third-party situations that keep them busy with juggling various sources of supply, which means that you weren't the only one.  Unfortunately, narcissists tend to threaten to leave for another source supply when afraid that they are losing control in their relationships.  Losing control to a narcissist can mean losing source supply.  Due to fear, he or she more than likely has new source supply in play long before the discard.  Narcissistic personality and other cluster B personality types are often more about the control than the connection in all of their relationships.   

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Has your narcissist threatened you with, "If you don't someone else will?"  Have you ever challenged yourself to become okay with not being the one who the narcissist is overly dependent on for source supply? Who says that you must be primary source supplier? Should your narcissist choose to threaten to abandon the relationship, this can become an excellent opportunity to become hoover resistant.

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Ever wonder why it seems to take a lot of effort to overcome narcissistic abuse, while it seems that the narcissist doesn't suffer at all?  There are spiritual, physical and psychological discomforts of experiencing narcissist relationships.  One of the main reasons why is because the body remembers all experiences, regardless of our efforts to forget.  Some have unfortunately due to adverse childhood experiences succumb to various health issues from post traumatic stress syndrome, diabetes to chronic body aches.  Fear and forgiveness are two dynamics that seem to be the most challenging for those who have had narcissist relationships for long periods of time.  The best signs that you are done with the narcissist is to choose to thrive forward.

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https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/Understanding_Intergenerational_Trauma#:~:text=Intergenerational%20trauma%20(sometimes%20referred%20to,an%20incident%20to%20subsequent%20generations.