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Beware not to burn yourself out in the process of being there for others.
 Being there for others is a great thing, being there for yourself is even greater.
 
 Living your best life every day is also being able to prioritize yourself, your dreams, and aspirations; not neglecting them.
 
 Don't set yourself up for a future filled with bitterness and regrets. Say no when it's still relevant, say yes when you want to, and do you, because you need to.
 Beware.

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We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
Oscar Wilde

Your level of optimism will determine the nature of your narrative. 
Being optimistic means understanding that life can be a bumpy road, but at least it is leading somewhere brighter. Acknowledge the downsides, but focus on the positive.

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Are you investing your time or wasting it?
Now this may come across as a meaningless question, but it's one that makes more sense and give more insight on the use we make of time.
From interacting with others, the jobs we have, to the actions or reactions we may take or have; that question is highly relevant.
 
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Don’t get lobotomized into losing your humanity.
All these people out there preaching and teaching selfishness and bitterness,  that’s not how we are supposed to be. The fact is, if we were, we would be happy but are they / we?

Have you noticed that whenever someone posts or talks about being selfish , self centred and not giving a f*ck about others , their speech is loaded with anger or bitterness?

As relatable as we may perceive such messages, perhaps due to the fact that they happen to pop up when we going through something, does that truly make one happy?
That might in the moment appease us but is that a productive thought process?

What is success without anyone to share it with?
When we speak from pain , it’s very powerful and because we go through  pain sometimes, it even makes sense and we run with it.
That is not the same as speaking from a place of healing, ohh the message is much different and the emotional load within is more edifying and constructive.

Misery loves company , they say. If you preach or teach from a place of pain, then you should refrain for doing so until you reach that place of healing.
Whatever you do, ask yourself what makes you truly feel happy, what brings joy to your heart.

Money can be redeemed, not time nor people.

Beware
–Stephane Dadjo

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We all have a part of our story we don't read out loud.

Regardless of what the reason is, beware of how you tell your story. People are often listening when we think they aren't; what we went through, overcame, and telling today will impact others who are going through the same, or better yet, it will be a light of hope for someone who is still dealing with the trauma of a certain experience.

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You don't have to choose between your looks or your brain.
That's purely a pressure and mindset placed out there by people with insecurities and fears of what they cannot handle.
Don't let anyone make you feel like you have to deem your looks or your genius just so they can feel comfortable around you.
Now don't get it twisted, growth is welcome, people will advise you on what you can work on to better yourself. But that is just that, better yourself rather than changing you into who or what they want you to be for them.

So beware, because not everyone has your best interests at heart, and you don't ever have to choose between your looks and brains, you are a full package and if that's too much for someone, that's theirs to deal with.

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There's this post on LinkedIn that got people all worked up, the level of negativity people have within is really mind-blowing!

If you get to a level where seeing someone happy or being celebrated bothers you, you have to self-reflect and ask yourself why. 
You do not have to personally know someone to celebrate them or learn from their victory; you don't need to be related to someone to show empathy either.

Instead of spreading hatred on positive and motivational posts, give attention to what you have going on that's eating you up from the inside.
Living your best life every day isn't about everything being okay, it's about being your best self, filling your thought process with what is edifying rather than degrading and negative.
It's deciding that no matter what we go through,  there is hope for better days and that starts by holding as much positivity as we can on the way; till we reach where we aim to reach.

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Have you ever felt like you were being cared for based on the idea of you rather than you?
 
 The idea of you isn't what you project, but rather an idealized image of you that someone may construct in their mind and approach you with, care for, and even fall in love with. 
 The downside of that is the eventual realization that you may never live up to that image they have, and once that happens the nature of the interaction has little to no chances to go any further.
 As painful as it is to go through that later phase, things can be worked on should both parties be willing to put in the effort otherwise it's fated.
The idea of someone isn't who they are, it's who you portray them to be, a picture you enforce on them and want them to live up to. That of course never goes anywhere because the moment they act themselves, you will feel a certain kind of way, that perfect image you had in mind will suddenly be shattered to pieces and everything you felt along.
 It's unfortunate we can't predict how people will approach us nor can we be certain of knowing if whether they care for us for who we are or the idea of us.
Beware to watch how people relate to you, compromises are great, betterment of your thought process is great but what's not is trading your identity to fit in the canvas on someone's idea of you.

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Ever asked yourself:  What was I thinking?
Well, I know I sure did and I recall that not much came out of it if not undermining and minimizing my process, my old self, my yesterday self.

Life happens in stages, we manifest and grow likewise. Understanding that helps us get over the regrets or the anger towards the unconscious or ignorant acts of the past. There is no point being mad at your younger self for that is where your thought process was at, the same applies to whoever you may look at and think: What is he/she thinking?

Considering that the thought process isn't age-related, ask yourself if you were told what you know now back then, would you have been able to comprehend or process it?
That is due to the fact that your thought process was at a different stage. Give yourself a break on self beating up and focus on building a better you, using what you learned from those past experiences.
Elevate your thought process into understanding that neither your process nor someone else's gets to evolve overnight.
Honor your process, that is your narrative.

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When you lost your job, you didn't give up on building up a career, you got out there and looked for a new job. 
When you lost your business due to some reasons, you didn't give up on being an entrepreneur, you rose from your ashes as well.
When you lost your home, did you give up on living under a roof? No you didn't, you figured it out.

Why is it that you gave up on love because you got your heart broken?
Why do you hold back on caring for people and making new friendship  because you were once betrayed?
These are all periphecies of life, if you can do it for certain things, you sure can do it for others.

Life has its ups and downs, they are inevitable so live your best life every day because you can, if you want to.
 
 -Stephane Dadjo

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