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Time is either invested or wasted, the determining factor is often down to expectations.

Your expectations or the lack thereof will always justify the amount of time spent, in other words, invested or wasted.
Here are a few examples: 
Would a farmer labour his lands and plant his seeds in the ground without expecting a harvest?
What sense would there be to be a farmer at all?
On that harvest day, the time spent labouring lands and planting seeds is surely considered as an investment.
Another example is, would you keep going to work every day whether you like it or not if there was no expectation of a remuneration?

Now let's talk about human relations, yes indeed the same applies. The time is either invested, justified by the expectations we have or wasted due to the lack thereof.
 
This paradigm of " You should not have expectations " is quite a popular one, dare I say the favourite speech of those who indulge in the art of wasting their time rather than investing it. That is of course their prerogative, it doesn't have to be yours so beware of what you are being told out here on these streets because people will tell you what's in their interests, not yours. The last time I checked, your expectation lies where your investment is and that's just that.
 
What will you do with your time?
 
 - Stephane Dadjo 

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Has anyone ever made you feel like you needed to be less of who you are just so they could feel better about themselves?
 If yes, this is for you: Someone's insecurities are none of your business, at most you may advise them on how to deal with them otherwise it's theirs to deal with.
 Most people nowadays go around making others feel uncomfortable based on their insecurities, instead of facing and overcoming them, they would make it others issues.
 You should not allow that for you have a story too, you came from an insecure place as well. Getting over those is a choice, not always an easy one but nevertheless, one that has to be made.
 To anyone dealing with insecurities, you got this, you can and you will overcome them. What you can't keep doing is expecting others to be less of themselves just so you can feel good about yourself. 
Elevate your thought process, embrace the act of living your best life every day.

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How often did you tell yourself " Ohh it's not gonna work" , it's too hard , I can't do this..?
 How many times did you prove yourself wrong because for one reason or the other you just had to keep pushing?

The direction of your narrative depends on your level of resilience. Its all about how bad you want it , do you want it as bad as you wanna breathe ? If you do then you will enable yourself to get there, by adopting the not giving up thought process. 
 Difficulties are going to rise while on your way up, minus the ones you impose over yourself and you will be able to achieve even more.

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Have you ever been hurt or perhaps felt so much emotional pain that you thought your heart was going to stop? 

If you did, then congratulations for not staying at that low place, no matter how you got up, bravo on doing so. You see when you walk around being your best self, people think you have no issues, in fact, they will even assume that you might never have had it hard based on how you carry yourself. What they fail to understand is, we all have our highs and lows, and some of us understood that you do not have to let your lows define you. Just because you are going through a phase does not mean you have to look miserable or better yet be broken at all times. I mean that has become such a paradigm, when people see you smile they think you know nothing of the harshness of life, and when they don’t see you spend nor waste yourself in shallow things, they think you don’t know how to have fun or enjoy life. Little do they know that not only do you know of the harshness of life, you know how to have fun as well. Choosing how, where, and when to do so is however the difference between you and them. You embrace your days with the wisdom you got out of the hard times you went through, better yet overcame. Your strength came from enduring and your character got polished, grew in a defined and mature way. 

Life is going to come at you, frankly, people will too. What you have to decide is if you will be a victor or a victim, do you want to just go through hard times or grow through them? It's up to the thought process you adopt, beware!

My name is Stephane Dadjo, I am the author of the book "Elevate your thought process". Currently available on amazon.ca

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How familiar are you with "get over it", "it's not a big deal", "you taking this too serious", "just forget about it" ....? 

You see too often we get told how we shouldn't feel, in fact, we get alienated, considered as weak for the sake of expressing or better yet acknowledging our feelings. For one reason or the other, we somehow found ways to put them behind us; well so to speak. It goes without saying that pilled up, unprocessed and undealt feelings never lead to something good, quite the opposite. Perhaps you aren't aware but down the highway to pretending not to feel awaits turmoil, confusion, depression as well as self-destructive behaviors. It is important to pay attention to what you feel, just as it is to deal with it. 

Remember it is not about people but you. Setting yourself free is a choice, one that is still yours to make. What are you going to do next?

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You have to believe in your craft, quit relying on others' validation of your ideas and dreams. if it doesn't work a certain way, try a different approach. You get to fuel it up, put it out there and see what happens. Remember it's a matter of mindset and thought process.

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Living your best life every day starts with the attitude you engage your day with. Waking up grateful is not an easy thing to do considering many factors of our personal lives nor on some particular days but it certainly is a choice that you can make, one that will enable you to rise above many things. Life is indeed a matter of choice and whatever it is that you choose to focus on will surely expand.

My name is Stéphane Dadjo, I am the author of the book "Elevate your thought process 1&2".Click here >> Available on Amazon

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