This week’s solo episode is dedicated to empowering parents and anyone on a mission to help children thrive in our world. As the school bells ring and a new chapter begins, join me as we explore the invaluable life lessons that are available during times of change. When we give children the tools they need to live their best lives and become their most authentic selves, we all win! Tune in for wisdom, compassion, and practical advice that you can add to your parenthood and education toolbox.
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Blog post: Lessons for my Freshman....
Over the past few weeks, I was slowly accepting that my son is going to be a freshman in HIGH SCHOOL. (When the heck did this happen anyway?!) And as a dating/life coach, I was determined to make this time of transition beneficial for both of us by focusing on the lessons that come during massive change. I happen to be a fan of change. It’s exciting, refreshing, and you get to make a new start! At the same time, I’m well aware that many feel the new and unknown of change are scary. To my son on his first day of high school, and to all those who are facing change, I share this:
“You very well might find yourself fumbling and bumbling your way around the first day, or first week, or first month! As the youngest and the most inexperienced, there absolutely will be times when you feel awkward and self conscious. That is simply a part of life. Everything is hard until it’s easy. That space of newness is where you have the opportunity to test what feels right to you, as well as what doesn’t. This is where the growth happens and your confidence can blossom. To my son, I love you with my whole heart, and I am beyond excited to see you grow into the exceptional man you’re going to be. To you and everyone else, share your light with the world and remember we are all here to make a difference.”
To that end, I wanted to share nine lessons for my new 9th grader...
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Be kind. Reach out. When you see a kid who is uncomfortable, doesn’t have any friends, and/or is being picked on in some way, be the guy who steps in and does the right thing. Say hello. Be inclusive. Kindness is always the right path.
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Take school seriously, yet don’t take yourself too seriously. Straight A’s will be harder to achieve in high school, yet the more effort you put into life, the more rewards you get back. It’s worth it! And life is much easier when you learn to laugh at yourself. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
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We all need friends to help us through life. To make lifelong friends, be a good friend. Be trustworthy. Honor your word. Keep confidences. And remember to laugh and be silly. No matter what age you are!
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Attitude is everything. Do your best. Forget the rest. And remember to smile! ;)
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Check in with yourself regularly. What makes you feel good? What doesn’t make you feel good? Learn to recognize and trust your inner knowing. It will keep you on your true path.
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Everyone has struggles. Everyone. Talk to me, your Dad, your stepmom... about anything and everything. We all need our friends, yet family is FOREVER, and loves no matter what. Together we can handle ANY issue.
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High school can be full of drama, oftentimes with the girls. #keepinitreal. Many people choose drama, consciously or unconsciously. Either way, choose to walk away from the drama and the pe ...