In this special episode of Beyond Theory, host Dominic Lawson sits down with Maddie Corman, creator of the film "Accidentally Brave," to discuss her harrowing experience as the partner of a sex addict. Maddie vulnerably shares her story of the day her world shattered when her husband was arrested for possession of child pornography. She details the trauma, shame, and confusion she and her children faced in the aftermath, and the long journey of recovery and healing her whole family has undertaken.

 

Maddie emphasizes the importance of partners of sex addicts having their voices heard and receiving support, as they are often overlooked compared to the addicts themselves. She credits Family Week at The Meadows as a pivotal turning point in gaining understanding of addiction, feeling less alone, and seeing hope for her husband's recovery. 

 

Maddie discusses her decision to stay with her husband and keep the family intact, while acknowledging the ongoing struggles with triggers and trauma even years later. She channels her experience into art as an act of service, creating the film "Accidentally Brave" to educate others, combat shame, and let partners know they are not alone.

 

Key Takeaways:

 

1. Partners of sex addicts face immense trauma and need support.

 

2. Family Week at The Meadows can be pivotal for partners gaining understanding, connection, and hope.

 

3. Healing from betrayal trauma is a non-linear but possible journey for individuals and families.

 

4. Choosing to stay with a sex addict in recovery is a courageous but difficult path with ongoing struggles.

 

5. Sharing personal stories of addiction and recovery through art and media can combat shame, educate others, and provide hope.

 

6. Child pornography addiction devastates families and necessitates professional help.

 

7. Partners of addicts often feel overlooked and need a platform to express their experiences.

 

 

This special Beyond Theory episode is a must-listen for anyone in the behavioral health field looking to better understand partner trauma in sex addiction. It showcases the non-linear but possible path to healing for individuals and families, and the power of bravely sharing our

stories to help others. Maddie's authentic voice and resilient spirit are sure to resonate with and inspire countless partners on their own recovery journeys.