Magnificent Midlife

A solo episode from Rachel talking about menopause and gendered ageism.

Rachel talks about:

- Why she still hasn't moved on from talking about menopause yet

- The importance of balance around narratives around menopause

- The impact of gendered ageism on menopause

- The hormone deficiency narrative and why it drives Rachel nuts

- Connecting menopause advice and money

- The importance of staying curious about the message and the messenger

- New voices in the media talking about menopause

- The role of HRT and how it's being promoted

- HRT and breast cancer

- Why HRT for life for most women is unnecessary

- The whales and the Blue Zones

- How data has been manipulated around menopause

- Menopause and suicide

- How some information in the public domain about menopause is plain wrong

- The $600 billion business opportunity of menopause

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Another platinum gem from the podcast archives. Meet the very lovely Rachel Peru who went from nursery school teacher to successful curve and silver-haired model in her 40s. Rachel's waving the flag for older, more diverse women in the media. She's going from strength to strength since embracing her authentic self and stepping forward to shine.

We talk about:

- How the decision to go grey kick-started Rachel's modelling career

- The stigma that still remains about older women going grey

- How she never would have had the confidence to do what she does now when younger

- The importance of being body positive as we age

- The pressures on younger women in terms of looks

- How things are changing when it comes to talking about menopause

- How Rachel controls the anxiety that has come on especially when travelling to modelling jobs

- The importance of getting exercise outside

- How words are powerful and what we say to ourselves matters

- Rachel's first front cover for Goldie magazine

- How beauty is about confidence

- Rachel's own Out of the bubble podcast

- How to not feel invisible

- How reinvention can help bring energy in midlife and beyond

- How Rachel nearly had a breast reduction because of lack of confidence

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Here's another gem from the podcast archives in our summer season. Ashton Applewhite is an author, speaker and anti-ageism activist. I discovered her work about six years ago and have been quoting her daily ever since. Ashton got a standing ovation when she did a main stage Ted talk called Let's end ageism. She was invited to speak at the UN. Her book is amazing: This Chair Rocks, A Manifesto Against Ageism. She's my ultimate mentor when it comes to everything I now believe about ageing and gendered ageism.

In this amazing interview we talk about:

- How Ashton never had a life plan or knew what she wanted to be

- Why we worship youth in Anglo-Saxon cultures

- The lack of products and services for older people

- How we often don't like to identify as being in midlife or older

- How facing the ageing monsters is useful

- How fears about ageing are totally out of proportion to reality

- Our attitudes towards ageing affect how we age

- The U-Curve of Happiness

- How midlife is a time of reckoning

- How ageism starts between our ears

- How we need to be more generous towards each other and ourselves

- When we compete to stay young we reinforce ageism, sexism and the patriarchy

- How raising consciousness about ageing and ageism is key

- Why we should be able to compete for 100% of the seats at any table

- How to stop reinforcing the shame associated with ageing

- Being aware of intersectionality when considering prejudice

- The importance of language relating to age

- Ashton's knees and not blaming non-age-related issues on age

- Continuing the movement

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Dipping into the archives again for another gem of an interview with Deborah Ives, the solo traveler behind the travel blog, Solo in Style, who's passionate about helping women, particularly in midlife and beyond, travel solo. She's determined to show women there's no need to be scared of solo travel and she has loads of great tips to share. Since we recorded this, Deborah has grown her wonderful Facebook group for women over 50 who like to or dream of travelling solo to over 100k women!

We talk about:

- How Deborah first started travelling solo and why

- How to travel solo without going on a tour

- How great things can come out of bad stuff

- The importance of a bit of courage and also having a plan

- That there's no shame in travelling solo - it's all about confidence and doing what you want

- How there's no need to abandon your adventurous spirit just because you're a little older

- That it's easier to be adventurous when you're away from home

- Moving beyond couple pricing

- Eating alone when on holiday

- Forcing yourself to keep getting out there to limit isolation

- The importance of friendship

- Why we can benefit from slowing down and not rushing around too much

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Welcome to our summer season where I'm dipping into the archives to share some of the gems from the vault. We start by going all the way back to the beginning, to my very first guest, the wonderful Suzi Grant, author of Alternative Ageing, blogger at alternativeageing.net, YouTube and Instagram star. If anyone can inspire you to age like a badass, this woman can. Suzi is the very best example of an older woman determined to squeeze the very last drop out of life, on her own terms.

We talk about:

- How Suzi came to set up Alternative Ageing and became an Instagram star

- How she was featured in the New York Times Style Section

- How she got 700,000 likes on Instagram

- The importance of staying authentic

- How blogging (and learning in general) helps to exercise your brain

- The wonders of being creative

- Being proactive about ageing

- Fasting and why it's so good for us

- How chronic diseases can be helped by lifestyle change

- Being outrageous

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

My guest Alice Morrison is an adventurer. She's the Indiana Jones for girls. She's done so many things that would test anyone's endurance. The Marathon des Sables, the Tour d'Afrique, she was the first woman to walk the full length of the Draa River in Morocco where she lives. She's trekked through the Sahara and completed the Everest Trail Race. She's written several books, and the most recent is Walking With Nomads. If you've ever wanted to go on a big adventure, this interview is for you!

We talk about:

- Where Alice's love of Africa and the Middle East came from

- Alice's childhood and how it went from great freedom to rigid structure

- Alice's latest book and her love of expeditions

- What it's like traveling as a woman in the places Alice visits

- How English speakers can make friends better when traveling

- Why Alice practices Ramadan even though she's not Muslim

- What it's like living in a rural community in Morocco

- Coping with fear and the problems of Covid when it comes to traveling

- What it's like for Alice now traveling as an older woman

- How other cultures approach aging, especially for women

- How Alice has become a star on TikTok

- How to be adventurous in midlife

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

This is such an inspiring conversation! Dion Johnson, known as the Womanologist, works with women leaders so they can fulfil their potential. She inspires all women to step up and lead, and is the author of Influential Woman: A fresh approach to tackling inequality and leading change at work. Dion is a no nonsense tour de force. She changed my life and I hope she may do the same to yours!

We talk about:

- What it felt like when Dion discovered Hay House was going to publish her book

- Why she wrote this book

- How the book became about inequality

- How Dion has taken off her many masks throughout life

- The importance of taking off our masks and how Dion helps women do that

- Dion's life before becoming the Womanologist

- What Dion means by womanity in the book

- How women can step up to lead

- The 7 habits to cultivate to be Queen Influencer

- The importance of faith to Dion (and lack of it to Rachel!)

- The prejudice often given to people of faith

- How Dion wants to change the world

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

In this episode, I welcome back Dr Kathryn Mannix to the podcast. Kathryn's first interview was titled Talking About Death because that's exactly what we did. Kathryn spent many years as a palliative care doctor and wrote the best-selling book With The End In Mind. Here we're talking about her latest book Listen: How to Find the Words for Tender Conversations. This is a powerful and moving conversation which I hope you will love as much as I did.

We talk about:

- The experience of recording Kathryn's own audiobook

- Why Kathryn felt this book needed to be written after her first one

- What it means to have a tender conversation

- Why listening is so important when it comes to having these conversations

- How we can get better at listening

- The power of silence

- Some of the wonderful stories in the book

- How to have tender conversations in a professional context

- Moving away from trying to fix someone's problems

- Some of the ways we can encourage others to open up

- The devastating impact of Covid on communication in a healthcare setting

- Kathryn's advice for how to manage tender conversations at the very end of life

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Jennifer Arthurton is the creator and founder of Old Chicks Know Sh*t, a community and podcast (of the same name) designed to inspire and support midlife women in chasing their dreams and creating a kick-ass next chapter. Having made her midlife course corrections, she's a passionate advocate of the inherent power and knowledge that women possess, at a time when they often feel overlooked and doubt themselves most.

We talk about:

- How Jennifer got so passionate about changing midlife narratives

- Jennifer's own menopause and midlife experience

- How she reinvented herself after reaching rock bottom

- How so much of what we believe about midlife, menopause and aging is wrong

- What makes Jennifer angry about what women are told/believe about getting older

- How women can get very stuck in midlife and how to get unstuck

- How women can step up to lead more

- What Jennifer has learnt from doing her own podcast

- How Jennifer has changed the perception of midlife for her own daughter

- What Jennifer most wants women to know about midlife and beyond

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife

Kate Codrington is the author of Second Spring: the self-care guide to menopause, which is a rather lovely and revolutionary new book. She's a menstrual and menopause mentor, speaker, workshop facilitator, writer, podcaster and a therapist for nearly 30 years. She's passionate about bringing a more holistic approach to the menopause transition and to enabling women to embrace fully this powerful stage of life.

We talk about:

- Where Kate is in her menopause journey

- How the book is very different to other books on menopause

- How Kate sees menopause as something very positive

- How cyclicality is core to the book and how this impacts women throughout life

- The earthiness of the book and the power that comes from that

- Yoga Nidra and its role in the book and in our menopause transition

- The importance of going inward in menopause

- Embracing the change rather than fighting it

- Menopause as a spiritual journey

- Things that annoy us both about the prevailing menopause narratives

- What Kate learnt from her own menopause transition

And more!

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, share it and leave us a 5* review on iTunes or wherever you're listening.

Order the ebook or audiobook (narrated by Rachel) versions of Rachel's book, Magnificent Midlife: Transform Your Middle Years, Menopause And Beyond at magnificentmidlife.com/book

The paperback can be purchased on Amazon or other online retailers:

UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

US & Canada: https://www.amazon.com/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

Australia: https://www.amazon.com.au/Magnificent-Midlife-Transform-Middle-Menopause/dp/173981150X/

You can listen to all the other episodes and get the show notes at magnificentmidlife.com/podcast.

Recommended by the Sunday Times.

Feedspot #3 in best midlife podcasts and #15 in best women over 50 podcasts worldwide.

You'll find lots of strategies, support, and resources to help make your midlife magnificent at magnificentmidlife.com.

Check out Rachel's online Revitalize Experience, a 6-week intensive small group mentoring experience or 1-1 Midlife Mentoring.

Follow Rachel on:

Facebook: facebook.com/magnificentmidlife

Instagram: instagram.com/magnificentmidlife

Linkedin: linkedin.com/in/rachellankester

Twitter: twitter.com/MagnifMidlife

Pinterest: pinterest.co.uk/MagnificentMidlife1

Youtube: youtube.com/channel/UCEteu6Z2mW1z1wnHiVB08uw

Tiktok: tiktok.com/@magnificent_midlife