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Without knowing it, you are actually in a cycle of shopping that you might not realize because it’s done out of habit. The average person first is attracted to a color before anything else. We can put that one to the test easily! Is there a color you can think of right now that is taking over your closet? It’s totally true! Mine is beige, I love a good beige, neutral. I love the elegance of it, how it looks against my skin color and I can pair it with all pinks, blacks, whites and lavenders in my closet.

Depending on how much of that color you have in your closet, now that you’re aware of this, you might want to go towards finding other colors to add to your wardrobe. Knowing our shopping patterns is so helpful in the process of finding what you need to purchase.

If you are stuck in a shopping pattern, you get stuck in a style that doesn’t serve you anymore. Once you’re aware of your shopping pattern, you can try something different or catch yourself when you’re about to fall into the pattern again.

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When I think of my best friends, I think of meaningful conversations about how we interpret life, what we’ve learned or experienced recently. Those topics we share are the ones I treasure the most because I feel connected and being around that energy lifts my spirits. My guest today, Kathy Rodriguez is all that and more. If you need a friend or a good laugh, she’s the perfect person to find online and follow. I’m serious, follow her, comment on her posts or send her a DM and she’ll get back to you.  Kathy is a soul purpose life coach for women who is all about igniting the Warrior Goddess within. She helps you see your beauty, purpose in life, and embrace who you are. We all need a Kathy in our lives!

In this podcast we talk about all the things that revolve around embracing who we are, we are in our lives.I let this recording free flow into what our hour long phone calls usually sound like. My favorite part about listening to podcasts is when you feel like you’re part of really good conversation and you want to share your own feedback too.

In this episode, Kathy and I talk about:

• When it’s time to change your routine
• The benefits of supportive friendships
• The struggle of wearing a uniform for work
• Small gestures that can help others feel seen and heard

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Before getting into a blissful state of joy. There’s a big thing you need to do. You need to know, who do you want to be? I know it might seem like an obvious question but maybe it’s not. Maybe you’ve been going about your routine everyday not stopping to really think about, is the person I want to be eating the way I eat or interacting with the people I’m interacting with or spending my evenings the way I do.

This is one of my favorite exercises because it creates pretty much instant results when you start changing up the things you want to do differently in your life. You’ll actually feel like you have the power to shift how things are going in your day-to-day, how you feel, how you see yourself. 

It’s like a journaled out vision board of yourself in the present. All the ways that you see this person you want to be, you are, and you can start acting in a way that reflects this.

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It took having my daughter Noelani for me to even think about the future of my money, what would happen to her, or even my business if I was gone. Yea, tough stuff but that uncomfortable decision making and thought process is important. 

On Facebook, I saw an ad pop up for Wine, Women, and Wills and I was all in! What a fun way to talk about wills by making it somewhat of a networking event. It was my first event after COVID in a public setting and the turnout was insane. The wine room was literally filled with women who were all interested in learning more about the basics of putting together a will and what questions we need to ask ourselves.

Jenny Ling is an estate planning and business attorney in Seattle, WA. Her blog is packed with details to all the topics you want to know more about including estate planning for singles, 4 documents to update after getting divorced, danger of DIY estate planning, and more.

In this conversation we cover topics on:

• Who is Estate planning for
•  Estate planning vs. a will
• What can you do to teach your children about money as they grow up?
• Decision making on life support, how do you decide?

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Those moments where we question ourselves is the time to start evaluating what changes we need to make in our relationships or within ourselves. Shari Leid is a certified life coach and author of, Make your Mess Your Message and the 50/50 Friendship Flow. We crossed paths without her even knowing! On a girls night out with two of my best friends, we were talking about the books we were currently reading and have inspired us recently and Vivian mentioned Shari’s book, Make your Mess Your Message. When she shared about how Shari had interviewed 50 friends to share each one of their messages in each chapter, I knew I had to meet her. 

I’m drawn to deep, meaningful conversations. Shari continues to help others on their path to find joy in their friendships, lives, and family, with her coaching practice, an imperfectly perfect life. 

On Shari’s website it says “I help you see how past messages may no longer be working for you, how obstacles are opportunities in disguise, and I help you let go of the fears of the future and the restraints of the past.”

As a stylist I’m  constantly working with people evolving and learning more about who they are. its important for me to guide  them in clearly seeing themselves in the present and their future, rather than being stuck in who they used to be or how they used to look.

In this conversation we talk about:

-how to let go of past relationships

-how do you know it’s time for change

-ideas to reignite joy

-overcoming the fear of change

Find Shari:
On her website: https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/
On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/an_imperfectly_perfect_life/

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Have you felt self-conscious about your body? Like everyone can see all your insecurities? It's totally common and as a stylist, I work with clients daily on dressing for their body. Yesterday, I worked with a couple that realized they needed new clothes. They were getting ready to pack for their 10 year anniversary trip and found that their closet didn’t have anything new or exciting that really fit them anymore.  In the process of shopping for each of them, they opened up about what they felt uncomfortable with. There is nothing more 

In this episode I unpack the big topics we talked about in our styling session yesterday including:

1. Men’s body and insecurities - I mean, this is a very important topic. It’s never really talked about, a lot of the focus is on women but men have insecurities too. They are less vocal about it but working with men, I get to hear all the things and also have to work through finding pieces that fit their body well. 
2. What we might find uncomfortable, might actually be an asset - In this case it’s not about clothing that is uncomfortable, but parts of ourselves we are uncomfortable with. Changing your story about your body and identifying new ways to see yourself are helpful.
3. No ones looking - This isn’t to say that the way we feel in something doesn’t count because it definitely does! If a piece of clothing feels too tight, or doesn’t lay right on your body, you will be fidgeting and thinking about it the whole time you have it on. But there is something to keep in mind when shopping or trying on clothes. It’s not for other people, it’s for you.

I want you to walk into a room and feel lit up, to share your gifts with the world. 

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Do you feel like you struggle with finding joy in life during difficult times? You're in the middle of these experiences that are supposed to be these beautiful Instagram moments, and in the backend, your anxiety levels ramp up.

Friend, this is for you if you are in the thick of stress from a house project you want to take on, a family vacation you want to plan, or the personal style you are trying to build. Remember to stop and smell the damn roses in the moment, remind yourself that it takes extra effort to get what you want the most. It's worth enjoying the process.

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How do you dress your body when you feel like nothing fits right? You feel like your legs are too short, your waist is too wide, your arms are too big, and your butt is too small. Seriously, I’ve heard it all from both men and women when it comes to body image.

When clothing doesn’t fit right we blame our bodies for being the problem when it’s really the clothing options that are the problem.

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Have you ever wanted to try something but were afraid of what others might think of you? I remember the pressure I had when I first started my styling business at 21 years old and feeling like I had to be this certain persona to be taken seriously.

In this episode I take this perspective into styling and share ways to try something new when you shop online and how to handle letting pieces go.

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Do you ever stop to think about how far you’ve come in your life? I don’t think we always give ourselves credit for everything we’ve  accomplished or where you’ve been.

When I look around my home, my closet. I see a story of who I am now, when I look at photos in my past I know and understand that they are glimpses of me at that moment, always doing the best I could.

Give yourself grace as you move into new parts of your life. If you are in a season of making big changes for the better, remember that where you’ve been plays a role in how you were dressing and why. It’s a great way to see why it is you are wanting to change your style and move in a new direction

Big Life events that change your style:

1. New Job
2. The amount of money you make
3. Changes in your body
4. Dating again
5. Life after having kids

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