First, Brent, Eliot and H. Alan wonder if saying "fag" automatically makes a straight person homophobic, as actor Lakeith Stanfield did while "rapping in character" (ugh) in a now-deleted Instagram video. Then, renaissance woman Mamrie Hart (and her beloved lap dog Beanz) talk BDE: Big Dick Energy, a specific type of confidence made famous by Ariana Grande's future ex-husband Pete Davidson. Is BDE real, and who has it: Obama? Rihanna? ...BEANZ? And finally, the guys talk about air conditioning, which dictates Eliot's life so much that he's even refused a FREE trip to Israel with H. Alan. It may be The Promised Land, but without central air, how great can it really be? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

First, Brent, Eliot and H. Alan wonder if saying "fag" automatically makes a straight person homophobic, as actor Lakeith Stanfield did while "rapping in character" (ugh) in a now-deleted Instagram video. Then, renaissance woman Mamrie Hart (and her beloved lap dog Beanz) talk BDE: Big Dick Energy, a specific type of confidence made famous by Ariana Grande's future ex-husband Pete Davidson. Is BDE real, and who has it: Obama? Rihanna? ...BEANZ? And finally, the guys talk about air conditioning, which dictates Eliot's life so much that he's even refused a FREE trip to Israel with H. Alan. It may be The Promised Land, but without central air, how great can it really be? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

First, Brent, Eliot and H. Alan wonder if saying "fag" automatically makes a straight person homophobic, as actor Lakeith Stanfield did while "rapping in character" (ugh) in a now-deleted Instagram video. Then, renaissance woman Mamrie Hart (and her beloved lap dog Beanz) talk BDE: Big Dick Energy, a specific type of confidence made famous by Ariana Grande's future ex-husband Pete Davidson. Is BDE real, and who has it: Obama? Rihanna? ...BEANZ? And finally, the guys talk about air conditioning, which dictates Eliot's life so much that he's even refused a FREE trip to Israel with H. Alan. It may be The Promised Land, but without central air, how great can it really be? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices" rel="noopener noreferrer">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

Mamrie Hart

Although ​performing ​stand-up comedy ​was what initially united ​Eliot, Brent, and H. Alan over 10 years ago​, it’s their ​openness ​(​and ​sense of humor) about feeling ​totally ​lost ​and disconnected from the gay community that’s truly bonded them. ​On YMIW, ​Eliot, Brent and H. Alan get down and dirty, exploring the ​good, bad, and ugly ​tropes of contemporary gay life, often the stuff that no one -- especially ​​​straight people -- discuss for fear of being labeled homophobic. (Don’t worry. ​They’ll do that for you.) Each episode features ​a special guest ​-​- comedians, humorists, musicians, influencers, film/TV writers, journalists, politicians, etc. - as well as allies, enemies, and acquaintances from all backgrounds and professions, not just those in the public eye. And as white​, urban-dwelling ​gay ​dudes in their ​thirties, Eliot, Brent and H. Alan​ check their own privilege at the door, eager to ​instead explore what life looks ​for those not afforded the same concessions.

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