Man Whisperer Podcast

You found someone really great and you think/hope that this one has REAL potential… and then it ends. Again! Not sure why your relationships keep ending, sometimes even before they really get a chance to begin? You might, unknowingly, be turning them off, shutting them down, scaring them away, and putting out the wrong signals. 

You don’t have to be in a relationship in order to relate to these relationship mistakes that make good men and women run away. Even if you’re single, be aware of these relationship-destroying habits. They might help you reflect on past relationship screw-ups, helping you to better understand why it ended. They can also (hopefully) help you to not make these mistakes when starting your next relationship. 

Once you know what to do and say, you feel less insecure about doing and saying it. Because all you have to do is follow the formula. This episode will tell you EXACTLY what to say and do, how to present yourself online and in-person, when to get offline and where to go from there… Laurel and Rob present the strategy to never have a bad first date again and improve your 2nddate success rate. 

You have to be Confidently Vulnerable. Here’s the thing though, Vulnerability doesn’t have to mean childhood trauma or negativity. 

Vulnerability can be about the moments, pain points, revelations, midcourse corrections, inspirations, illuminations, points of references, markers, meaning, and feelings. That’s how you create an emotional connection.

Even if you don’t have initial chemistry, you can create connecting attraction.

How? 

Curiosity can turn into connection. And connection creates attraction. That doesn’t necessarily mean that it will be a romantic connection, but you will likely create an emotional connection. And an emotional connection makes them feel. And that might be your in… 

If you want to make them feel for you, you have to first make them feel. 

If you want to make yourself feel for them, you have to first make yourself feel. 

But First, the Best way to make them feel for you, is for you to first feel, which creates a safe environment for them to feel, then you will feel for them, and then they will feel for you. 

So how do you make them and you feel? It’s a strategy of storytelling- exactly what stories to tell and how to tell them.

More than Your stories, you want them to share Their stories too. 

Rob and Laurel go into the strategy, and, of course, Laurel gives personal story examples so that you can see exactly how to do it yourself.

Breakups, Divorce, and “Failed” relationships hurt, can deplete your self esteem, make you feel like you are tainted or have too much baggage, leave you jaded and angry, and can screw up your finances… AND they can also be the best teachers, life leaping propellers, inspiration, transformation-instigating, mid-course correcting, reassessing, brutally honest reality checking LESSONS… IF you extract the benefits from the breakup. Along with expert Rebecca Whitman, Laurel and Rob will help you to turn breakups and divorce into shorter term hurt, by helping you to use it to your long-term life benefit by turning your perceived failure into true transformation. 

Do you struggle to make people fall in love with you, or, at least, make them want more? How the hell does THE BACHELOR get all of those women want to marry him… Every Single One? Easy. It’s a strategy. Laurel and Rob break down the strategy, plus give you tips as to how you too can make more people want more of YOU. A few hints? Vulnerability, Competition, Scarcity, Purpose, Environment, Experiences, and Spontaneity.