Man Whisperer Podcast

Damage from a breakup doesn’t just disappear because you decided to reappear. When getting back with an ex, you MUST first fix the distrust you caused by leaving. Distrust, Hurt, Fear, Egg Shells, Insecurities, Doubt… Breakups do a huge amount of damage. If you want to get back with an ex, you need to address and find a remedy for the reason you broke up in the first place, address and heal from the damage you did during the breakup (name calling, anger, aggression, low blows, intentional hurt), and start a new relationship that allows you to move forward with new healthier habits and understanding of who you are as individuals and who you are as a couple now. Laurel reveals some deep, dark hurt and mistakes from a past painful yo-yo breakup/get back/breakup… and Laurel and Rob dig into her mistakes made and what YOU can do better.

An ideal first date includes 3 essential musts: Conversation, Connection, and Contact.

Instead of your average drinks or dinner date, here’s the list of interesting places to go for date night. Because dating doesn’t have to be boring, redundant, or feel like a chore. In fact, it SHOULD’NT be! You want to stand out, make an imprint, and be memorable. While great conversation at drinks or dinner can definitely do that, you increase your chance of making a lasting impression if you allow your date location to contribute to the impact that you make. Redundancy isn’t sexy. Individuals crave excitement and change. But when you are in a committed, monogamous, long-term relationship, you’re limited to one… one person. So you have to conjure change by getting creative when it comes to activities. Alternative dates are a great way to keep things exciting, spice things up, and satisfy your need for change. Rob and Laurel break it down. TAKE NOTES then TAKE ACTION!

What’s the best way to meet someone with real enduring relationship potential? Nope, it’s not online, apps, or matchmakers. It’s in real life! So why are you struggling with it? Professional Wingman Thomas Edwards joins Rob and Laurel to breakdown and give real, immediately useful advice on how to get over your fears and insecurities of starting a conversation and connecting, and turning small talk into a conversation that ups your magnetism, makes you more interesting and desirable, and makes others want more.

You’ve got to hear this funny, direct, edgy, and REAL talk do’s and don’ts when it comes to surviving the holiday season- single or in a relationship. Sick of the “you’re STILL single?” question and pity-filled eyes at holiday parties? We have the answers as to what to do and say. Planning to meet the parents during holiday festivities? We will give you advice, steps, and actions to make the meeting not only survivable, but will further strengthen your relationship. PLUS, we’ve got the list of 5 people NOT TO BRING to your holiday party.

Even BEFORE going from just dating to a love-filled relationship, it’s essential to be aware of the absolute relationship destroyers that, if ignored, can poison your relationship, cause incessant fights, and even be the root of the ultimate end.

Love isn’t enough to make your relationship last if… you are with someone who doesn’t respect, support, honor, or share your Core Values. More than respect or sharing what your core values are, how you express your core values can make all of the difference. Rob and Laurel discuss and dig into this and 4 more absolute relationship destroyers including: difference in communication styles, when your feelings are taken as criticism, misaligned timing expectations, and if you are deeply unhappy.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this is an episode that you definitely don’t want to ignore.

Dating can feel tiring, confusing, intimidating, ego-deflating, awkward, paralyzing, and even scary… anyway. But in this time of #MeToo these feelings and fears can be even more amplified. So how do you flirt, hook-up, and initiate relationships without feeling harassed or fearing that you will be seen as harassing? How do you set expectations and express your feelings? How do you get consent without killing the mood and being totally unsexy? Rob and Laurel address and unpack this tricky, triggering, and complicated topic in this very Revealing and Emotional episode of Man Whisperer.

Would you describe yourself as someone who is magnetic, interesting, emotionally stirring, inspiring, certain, addictive, memorable, and you make others want more? Are confidently and unapologetically vulnerable, perfectly imperfect, and REAL? Because that makes you Attractive, Attracting, and Love-able. And THAT’S what makes you STICKY.

Someone who is Sticky doesn’t want to be “completed,” because you are already whole. You put effort into yourself- both for you and them. Others wake up thinking about you, you pop into their mind throughout the day, and they like hearing your voice or seeing your name light up in text before heading to bed. You are boyfriend/girlfriend material, and more than that- marriage material. You are unapologetically you- completely. You have nothing to prove, because you know that you already have it and are it. If that doesn’t describe you, then LISTEN up! Rob and Laurel dig into how you can up your Stickiness, be Magnetic, Memorable, and Make Them Want More!

You don’t need to be a bi**h to be an Alpha Woman. So what defines them (us)? Are guys really “intimidated” by strong women or just not interested in putting up with their sh*t? What makes alpha women tick? What makes alpha women weak in the knees? Beyond Alphas, what are Beta women? And how can we get along, make love, and live together in exciting, calm, fierce, playful, sweet, enduring, passionate harmony? Awaken the Rebel’s founder Shereen Thor joins Laurel and Rob to discuss… This is a good one!

“I will miss your smile, but I miss mine more…” What are the signs that it’s time to end it? How do you end it? How can you make it less harsh or painful? How can you be more sure (regardless of how sad it can be) about your decision? Being in a bad relationship, or even just a not great relationship, can lead to depression, insecurities, unhealthy behaviors and thoughts, and a temporary loss of self. Rob and Laurel help you figure out when and how to end it, while minimizing the pain and questioning that can come with the end of a relationship. It’s time for you to have some clarity, which will allow you to have closure.

Do you barely notice and even ignore the Positives and good things in your life-whether it’s a little win, big win, or just a good and productive day? Yet you ruminate, obsess, fixate, freak out, punish (yourself or others), and can’t stop thinking about the Negatives in your life- the little, the big, the frustrations, and the screw-ups? Rob and Laurel break down why you do that, how it affects your personal life, professional life, relationships, and dating life, and what you can do to STOP that negativity loop and start being more positive TODAY. Stop just surviving. It’s your turn to thrive. Or at least to feel “good.”