In her new book, Rules for Visiting , author Jessica Francis Kane has created a charming character in May Attaway. A fan of The Odyssey , May decides to contemplate Penelope’s actions when determining action in her own life. Perhaps it is when we see May name a suitcase after Beowulf ’s Grendel, or follow along as she is guided by Emily Post’s book on etiquette, explore with her as she consults the OED--somewhere along the way the reader discovers that May is whip smart, but also awkward and not