Meet Mark and Eoin, two Irish dads proving that queer family building is both an act of love and of advocacy. Their path to fatherhood took them from Ireland to New York and Texas—navigating surrogacy independently, honoring their daughters’ Nigerian-Irish heritage, and pushing the Irish government to finally recognize families like theirs.

Together, they’ve turned loss, learning, and legislation into love and legacy. From discovering their donor’s culture to challenging outdated Irish surrogacy laws, Mark and Eoin remind us that sometimes the most radical thing LGBTQIA+ parents can do is parent out loud—and make the system catch up.

🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

• Building a family through independent surrogacy during the pandemic
• The loss of a twin and honoring his memory
• Advocating for inclusive parental-leave and insurance coverage at work
• Fighting Ireland’s restrictive surrogacy laws and founding Irish Gay Dads
• Raising biracial daughters as white Irish dads in Harlem
• Teaching representation, identity, and cultural pride from day one
• Why advocacy often begins with telling your own story

🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

• Mark and Eoin O’Looney Cannon: Together, they co-run the social media page Two Men in a Surrogacy, where they share their family’s journey and advocate for inclusive, ethical surrogacy practices. Eoin serves as the Vice Chairperson of Irish Gay Dads, a group dedicated to supporting LGBTQIA+ parents and pushing for legislative reform.

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🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

• Follow Mark and Eoin: https://www.instagram.com/twomenandasurrogacy/

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