Marketing & Mayhem

Marketing & Mayhem

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Marketing & Mayhem episodes

  • Gypsies, Journaling & Tough Convos with Kids

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    What starts as a simple conversation about Raebecca’s favorite Netflix show “At Home With The Fury’s” quickly becomes a very deep conversation about our relationships with our children, and how we foster communication and create safe conversations around some of the harder topics we are tackling as parents.

    From keeping a journal, where both parents and children write in it, to the pros and cons of having eye contact while you have tough conversations. We talking about the importance of conversations - and that valuing communication and “saving space to talk” is the best, first thing.

    The delicate dance of big reactions and over-explaining what’s really in question or even what’s age appropriate - Kirsten discusses how to meet your kids where they are. Add in the concept of “rituals of connection”, those seemingly little monotonous (but not) family dinners, weekly movie nights, and you begin to purposefully save space for connectivity.

    We cover really big topics like food and body image and the consciousness at which we enter our own home space every day with our kids, but then we take a second to ponder how different their generation will be because of this awareness and emotional awareness we’re sort of all experiencing in our 30s and 40s. 

    And we tackle a tik tok book trend - that started a big conversation at school and at home - and how we tackle the more jaw dropping conversations we have to have as parents. Another great episode with our friend Kirsten Hatcher from the “Raising Marriage” podcast !

    You can find her on Spotify and on Apple and on all of your favorite places to stream podcasts :

    Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/4DthJ2Abr1qaROk7jtNLj1?si=rF7ZnDpmQQWVy0w5gIneZw
    Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-marriage-podcast/id1495746521

    A big shout out to “Girlology” in Charleston for helping us in these conversations and topics -
    https://girlology.com/








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    Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

    1 hr 2 min
  • Feedback, Boundaries, & What If'ing All Over Yourself

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    We hit 800 downloads this week - we want to take a minute to say THANK YOU! Thank you, thank you, thank you - for the downloads, the feedback, the DMs about how we show up, the content you want and need, and how it feels to be a listener “curled up on the couch with (our) girlfriends”. 

    The difference between trips - traveling - and vacation. We talk about what it feels like to learn at the speed we are learning (failing, flailing and winning) - somedays it feels like we are in a video game or whack a mole (and sometimes we’re the mole). In fact - Jenny throws out the funniest quote about this concept of imposter syndrome, “I’m what if-ing all over myself” … “I just what-if-ed everywhere”.  But isn’t that exactly what imposter syndrome is? You tell yourself a story of failure - even though everything around you literally says you are capable.

    The GRITTY GAL marketing website is launching soon - and we’ve fielded tons of questions about GRITTY and MAYHEM and how they live together.  Y'all we cannot wait to share it with you!  And in the meantime - join us as we talk about the idea of “analysis paralysis” and the concept or “over painting the picture”.  Life will give you so many chances to quit … or even to dismiss other people achievements. And we talk about the idea of “freedom” as a business owner. After all - freedom is never free. 












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    Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

    43 min
  • Relationship Advice, Divorce & Emotional Connection

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    We have Kirsten Hatcher from “Raising Marriage” Podcast joining us this week. The Raising Marriage podcast tackles “how to parent with your partner without killing your marriage”. 

    Kirsten uses the Gottman method - which “aims "to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy, and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship."”. Per her “a common sense method” … and you know how we love that! And how funny is it - that the two Northern girls on today’s podcast - are the ones who got married young?

    We jump straight into parenting and marriage - by ripping the “stay together for the kids” door right off its hinges. And the commonalities in marriage conflict and divorce - the common female driven complaints and conversations about the hard stuff. What REALLY are your needs in a relationship  (“outside of sex for men and dishes for women” - yea we said it)? And what does it mean, if you can’t articulate your needs (hint: it’s good news).

    We tackle the emotional connection we have with our girlfriends.  From 30 bridesmaids dresses, to the freedom of picking your own wallpaper - to going to bed solo for the first time in 18 years.  What does it look like to be in a safe and respective partnership? The big topics - including conflict resolution, emotional depth and true connectivity … and why our circle means so much to us in this journey of life!

    Guess what? You CAN get divorced without being down on men - what happens when you change the mindset from saving your marriage to solely focusing on enjoying your children, and raising them as co parents?

    We get emotional - we get deep - and we are sure this isn’t going to be her first time on our podcast! Find her on Spotify and Apple and anywhere you listen to podcasts. The Raising Marriage podcast with Kirsten Hatcher!



    More on the Gottman Method - https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-gottman-method-5191408






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    50 min
  • Aging & Social Media, Sugar Daddies & Only Fans

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    We work through big feelings we’re both having about this idea of growing old (at 40) - from Golden Girls (did you know they are depicted to be in their late 40s) to the parents on the Father of the Bride. How did marketing shape our idea of aging and what does it look and feel like to age gracefully. And what about Martha Stewart and Vera Wang - beauty, brains and work ethic. In fact, Vera recently celebrated her love of working hard as well as her love from McDonald’s and her love for glazed donuts. Is there a room for people to want to continue to pursue hobbies and passions, and actually have achievements in a society where everyone tells you to slow down and to say no more and to focus on self-care?

    And then, of course, we get silly as we unpack Raebecca’s sugar daddy - and the time she had to explain what a “sugar daddy” is to her 8 year old.  No one panic - she made sure to say “if you stay really true to yourself” - because of course authenticity is queen around here.

    Have you ever considered - truly considered - the concept that 10 people can have the same “experience” but can leave with completely different perspectives? The entire idea of marketing and even social media as that you got to control somebody’s perspective about your business or your product and so ultimately we dig into why this matters. And honestly, why are we firing teachers over their only fans accounts? Shouldn’t we be spending our time on figuring out how to get them paid properly?

    And yes we know the brain is an organ - we meant you have to use your brain like you use your muscles, constantly - but also, we’re not perfect. 







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    Hosted by @raebecca.miller and @jennyfromthe843

    36 min
  • Season 1 Finale: Questions, Forgetting Your Britches & Pheromone Perfume

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    Raise your glasses with us as we clink to the culmination of a season filled by with laughter, growth, and unexpected revelations. Our Season 1 Finale is not just a retrospective but a celebration of the bonds we've built and the diverse personalities that have colored our shared experiences. Together, we reminisce over the influential women in our lives, debate our panty preferences, intricacies of our Enneagram types (2 & 8) and the insights they bring to our personal evolution.

    This anniversary celebration - complete with Veuve and card games - we unlock our views on sports, cheerleaders (one of us was a college cheerleader!), and one of us has no rhythm and zero depth perception. How we travel - where we’ve traveled - and where both of us are headed next … solo!

    From unpacking Zodiac signs to unpacking pheromone perfume - we also hint at what’s coming next ! Stay tuned - and get a little tipsy - with your favorite mayhem co hosts! Cheers to our first season!










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    55 min
  • 20 Year Olds, Lymphatic Massage & Getting Comfortable on Camera

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    Jenny & Raebecca are back together - for a sleepover and getting ready for their season finale. Over homemade chicken piccata, charcuterie and a bottle of Sauvignon Blanc - these two are back to their antics. Confidence, from the dating world to leading a webinar. Our very unedited views on cancel culture and vanity. The harm of filters - and showing up superficially - and raising young girls in a culture that values aesthetic over authenticity. From Raebecca’s obsession with mascara and lip gloss - to Jenny’s perspective on a clean face - we unpack why it’s necessary to show up on camera as a business owner, and have a clearly defined set of value and pillars. What do you think it would take to get Jenny to dance on social (she was a college cheerleader, after all …)? 



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    40 min
  • Romance Reads, Social Strategies, and You, the Brand

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    Have you ever paused to consider the striking similarities between crafting a personal brand and setting up a dating profile? 

    Join us as we uncork a bottle of nostalgia and celebrate our tenth episode with candid conversations about the art of being oneself in a world of constant observation. Reflecting on the past episodes, Jenny & Raebecca take a left hand turn into the world of romance novels, and the difference between listening to talk, and listening to understand. Hear how your voice affects your branding and marketing. And what we think of vanity metrics, in social media and in life as a business owner.



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    39 min
  • Parenting Pandemonium, Postpartum Pressure & Sisterhood Shenanigans

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    Is busy … always better? Christina Smalley - licensed family therapist, who specializes in perinatal mental health - joins us as our first guest. This episode is filled with honest dialogue about the standards we hold ourselves to as women and mothers, and how negatively they impact our own mental health. Jenny & Raebecca get deep (and transparent) with the mental blocks they face. 

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    40 min
  • Eagle Eyes, Getting Fired & Living Your Purpose

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    We’re still unpacking with one another, but this time we’re talking about the fear of failure. Jenny & Raebecca openly share how deeply they were affected by failure in their past. And ultimately what a gift it was, and how much growth it offered them both. Whether it’s a job or a marriage, the fear failure holds a lot of people back from responding to their calling, or using their gifts. Do you have to understand failure in order to appreciate success?

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    39 min
  • Galas, Hitchhiking, & Cage Fighting

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    Imagine stepping into a gala ablaze with the unexpected thrill of tambourines and the candid confessions of a fashion crisis. That's exactly where Jenny and Raebecca take you as they have a little car time on the way to a local oyster roast and chat about some personal details along the way. 

    Just because they are business partners doesn’t mean they know everything about one another, and in fact before this podcast started, they were friendly, but not friends. Hard to believe, and sort of like one of those dating reality shows - where they get married and then they get the opportunity to learn about each other. Come along as they talk hitchhiking, TV shows, traveling, and cage fights.

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    39 min