Aleeza and Rabbi are back with your weekly dating queries. In this podcast, they explore the challenges of online dating, particularly for those who have been single for a while. They delve into the issues of ghosting, mixed signals, and the importance of finding a mentor to help guide you through these issues.Key points:The experience of being single for an extended period of time and using online dating sites to meet potential partners.The frustration and confusion of being led on by someone who expresses interest and then doesn't follow through with plans to meet again.The difficulty of reading people and determining their true intentions, especially in the context of online dating.The importance of finding someone you trust to give you real dating advice.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza offer guidance to a listener who shares her painful experience of being blindsided by a breakup after a seemingly promising start to a relationship. Your dating experts then reflect on the importance of taking things slow and not being too emotionally vulnerable or physically intimate too soon in a relationship, especially in the early stages. They highlight the need to build a solid foundation of emotional connection before moving to a physical level. They also emphasize the importance of self-care, seeking support from friends, family, or professionals, and taking the time to process and heal after a sudden breakup.Aleeza also shares about their dating detox program, which helps individuals navigate the challenges of dating and breakups, providing practical steps and support for moving on and healing. You can find more information about this program on the Matchmaker website linked below. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast episode, Rabbi and Aleeza tackle a tough dating question: How should someone handle dating when suffering from financial issues due to job loss or other unforeseeable events? Is it a good time to date, since it could be a litmus test to see if your soulmate will stick around? Is it important to be happy, healthy, and confident before dating, regardless of financial circumstances? Aleeza believes that the best time to date is when you are in a good position, have self-confidence, and are employed, whether you like the job or not. However, if someone is burdened by financial loss, pain, and stress, dating may not be the best idea. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the topic of conflict avoidance in the context of dating and matchmaking. They explore how conflict avoidance is a personality trait and can affect relationships, and suggest ways to navigate this issue in dating.The hosts discuss the Big Five personality traits and how conflict avoidance is a part of one's personality type. They also emphasize that personality is inherent and cannot be dramatically shifted, but can be gradually adjusted over time.They suggest that if conflict avoidance is a problem for someone, they should look for a partner who is less conflict avoidant and more comfortable with engaging in conflict resolution. The hosts also emphasize that there are plenty of people who are not conflict avoidant and that it is possible to find a compatible partner.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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This week's episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker covers the scenario of a partner losing interest whenever starting a relationship.Your dating experts, Rabbi and Aleeza suggest that the person might not be choosing quality humans and is just being receptive to whoever chases her. They advise the person to be more discerning about who she likes and not just be responsive to anyone who shows interest in her. Aleeza also suggests that women should use their own intuition to find a partner who matches their values and desires. Additionally, they acknowledge that dating can be a game with rules and strategies for success, but emphasize the importance of authenticity and honesty in finding a partner.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Your hosts, Aleeza and Rabbi disagree with the phrasing of the question, as they believe that once someone gets married, their partner becomes their soulmate. However, they acknowledge that some people may struggle with letting go of certain non-negotiables when searching for a partner. They suggest that at least 70% of the things a person wants in a partner should align with their values and fears, including how the person triggers them or irritates them. Have caution against settling for someone who is less than what a person wants, but acknowledge that people must learn to accept some irritating habits in their partners. The key to finding one's soulmate is to have clarity and choose a partner who aligns with one's values and who one can accept and tolerate over time.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Rabbi and Aleeza share their valuable insights on today's dating life. The world is big and now with so many opportunities to date, it can be overwhelming. They'll also discuss how to be approachable if you are in a happy relationship as well as how to seek for help if you are needing it. -How to be approachable-How to share your message-Not to give up-If you're having trouble with your relationship to seek out help-Analysis Paralysis-The world is big and there are many options-You should be a positive role modelCheck out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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This episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker is all about the importance of vulnerability in relationships. Aleeza and Rabbi discuss how being vulnerable can help you move on from negative experiences and be open to new experiences. They also offer advice on how to be vulnerable. This is a must-listen for anyone who wants to improve their relationship experiences!The importance of vulnerability in relationshipsHow being vulnerable can help you move on from negative experiencesDon't Generalize your experiencesCheck out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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If you're looking for advice on how to find a healthy relationship and get married, this is the podcast for you. In this episode, your favorite relationship coaches Rabbi and Aleza offer their advice on how to find a happy and healthy relationship. -The importance of finding a happy and healthy couple to model your relationship after, especially if you come from a divorced home.-How we can learn from other couples, especially ones that have a happy and healthy relationship.-If we come from a divorced home, we need to make sure that we understand it's not our fault and that we can find a happy couple to model our own relationship after.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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This episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker offers listeners an important perspective on the importance of being truthful about your age. Too often, people lie about their age in an attempt to find someone who is a better match, but does this work in the long run? Aleeza and Rabbi Yisroel both have conflicting opinions on this topic.1. The importance of being truthful about your age when looking for a soulmate2. The debate of whether or not it is okay to date someone more than 10 years apart in age3. The importance of having other qualities in common besides age in order to have a successful relationshipTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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