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Have you ever wondered why divorce rates in the Orthodox Jewish community remain remarkably low? On this weeks episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza explore this intriguing question, shedding light on the factors that contribute to the resilience of marriages within this community. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join your dating experts on a brand new episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker. Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the question 'Why am I attracted to bad boys'. They explore the reasons why people are attracted to bad boys, even though they know they are not good for them. They also offer some advice on how to shift your desires to something that is actually good for you.Key Points:- People are attracted to bad boys for a variety of reasons, including their physical appearance, attitude, and behavior.- Bad boys often play mind games with their partners, which can be both exciting and addictive.- People who are attracted to bad boys may have had a negative experience in their past that made them feel comfortable with this type of person.- It is possible to overcome the attraction to bad boys, but it requires a deep understanding of yourself and your needs.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join Rabbi and Aleeza on this week's episode of Matchmaker as they discuss the challenges and rewards of dating someone who has had a near-death experience. They explore how the experience can change a person's perspective on life and death, and how this can impact their relationships.Key Points:- People who have had near-death experiences often have a heightened sense of urgency and purpose.- They may be more focused on living in the moment and making the most of their time.- This can be challenging for partners who may not have the same outlook on life.- However, it can also be an opportunity for both partners to learn and grow from each other.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join Aleeza and Rabbi as they talk about how to avoid ending up just as friends when you want something more in a relationship. They have different views on whether guys can put women in the friendzone, but they agree that being honest about your feelings is key. They suggest a few practical tips, like being upfront about your emotions, not being afraid to ask someone out, and not hanging around if it's clear the other person isn't interested.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Welcome back to another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker! In today's show, Aleeza and Rabbi are here to chat with you about what might be holding you back in the dating scene. They'll talk about the importance of looking inward and asking for advice from others. Plus, they'll share some practical tips to help you get out of that dating rut, like finding a mentor or coach. Key Points:The first step to getting unstuck is to identify what's holding you back. This may require some introspection and self-reflection.Once you know what's holding you back, you can start to brainstorm ways to overcome it.Getting feedback from others can be helpful in identifying your blind spots.There are many resources available to help you get unstuck, such as mentors, coaches, and online courses.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join us today in the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! Aleeza and Rabbi discuss what to do when you're attracted to someone who's not your type. They talk about the importance of being open-minded and giving someone a chance, even if they don't fit your preconceived notions of what you're looking for in a partner. They also share some tips for dating someone who's not your type, such as taking things slow and being honest with yourself about your feelings.Key Points:Don't rule someone out just because they're not your "type."Be open-minded and give someone a chance.Take things slow and get to know the person.Be honest with yourself about your feelings.Don't be afraid to walk away if it's not a good fit.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Welcome back to the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi are tackling a common concern: how to deal with those awkward moments of silence on a first date. They chat about getting comfortable with quiet moments and using them to really get to know your date better. First dates can be a bit awkward, and it's totally okay to have those silent pauses. Tune in to get some down-to-earth advice on how to handle these situations!Embracing Silence: Aleeza and Rabbi discuss handling awkward silence on first dates. Aleeza shares a peaceful moment with her husband during a park date. Rabbi sees value in comfortable silence indicating connection.Quiet Connection: Awkward silences early in relationships can show comfort in companionship. Aleeza relates it to meditation, staying calm during pauses.Redefining Awkwardness: Rabbi challenges viewing first-date awkwardness as natural. Don't judge based on that moment's discomfort.Pushing Forward: Aleeza and Rabbi suggest not letting silence stop second dates. Try the "five-day challenge," facing initial awkwardness for deeper connections.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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On this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi explore the intricacies of asking someone out confidently and directly. They highlight the importance of establishing a personal connection and discuss tips for choosing enjoyable date activities, along with advice on post-date follow-ups.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join Aleeza and Rabbi again on a follow-up conversation discussing the topic of pornography addiction and dating. They talk about the importance of being honest with potential partners about your addiction, and how to do so in a way that is respectful and compassionate. They also discuss the challenges of dating someone with a pornography addiction, and how to support your partner through their recovery.Key Points:Pornography addiction is a serious problem that can have a negative impact on relationships.It is important to be honest with potential partners about your pornography addiction, even if it is difficult.Dating someone with a pornography addiction can be challenging, but it is important to be supportive and understanding.Reach out to your counselor to get advice on when to discuss your addiction with your partner.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the challenges of dating someone with an addiction. They talk about the importance of getting support for yourself, as well as the many resources available to help you understand addiction and how to support the addict in your life. Ultimately, whether or not to stay in a relationship with an addict is a personal decision that should be made after careful consideration.Key Points:Addiction is a serious issue that can have a profound impact on the addict's life and the lives of those around them.If you are dating someone with an addiction, it is important to get support for yourself.There are many resources available to help you understand addiction and how to support the addict in your life.Whether or not to stay in a relationship with an addict is a personal decision that should be made after careful consideration.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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