Join Aleeza and Rabbi as they talk about how to avoid ending up just as friends when you want something more in a relationship. They have different views on whether guys can put women in the friendzone, but they agree that being honest about your feelings is key. They suggest a few practical tips, like being upfront about your emotions, not being afraid to ask someone out, and not hanging around if it's clear the other person isn't interested.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Welcome back to another episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker! In today's show, Aleeza and Rabbi are here to chat with you about what might be holding you back in the dating scene. They'll talk about the importance of looking inward and asking for advice from others. Plus, they'll share some practical tips to help you get out of that dating rut, like finding a mentor or coach. Key Points:The first step to getting unstuck is to identify what's holding you back. This may require some introspection and self-reflection.Once you know what's holding you back, you can start to brainstorm ways to overcome it.Getting feedback from others can be helpful in identifying your blind spots.There are many resources available to help you get unstuck, such as mentors, coaches, and online courses.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join us today in the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! Aleeza and Rabbi discuss what to do when you're attracted to someone who's not your type. They talk about the importance of being open-minded and giving someone a chance, even if they don't fit your preconceived notions of what you're looking for in a partner. They also share some tips for dating someone who's not your type, such as taking things slow and being honest with yourself about your feelings.Key Points:Don't rule someone out just because they're not your "type."Be open-minded and give someone a chance.Take things slow and get to know the person.Be honest with yourself about your feelings.Don't be afraid to walk away if it's not a good fit.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Welcome back to the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast! In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi are tackling a common concern: how to deal with those awkward moments of silence on a first date. They chat about getting comfortable with quiet moments and using them to really get to know your date better. First dates can be a bit awkward, and it's totally okay to have those silent pauses. Tune in to get some down-to-earth advice on how to handle these situations!Embracing Silence: Aleeza and Rabbi discuss handling awkward silence on first dates. Aleeza shares a peaceful moment with her husband during a park date. Rabbi sees value in comfortable silence indicating connection.Quiet Connection: Awkward silences early in relationships can show comfort in companionship. Aleeza relates it to meditation, staying calm during pauses.Redefining Awkwardness: Rabbi challenges viewing first-date awkwardness as natural. Don't judge based on that moment's discomfort.Pushing Forward: Aleeza and Rabbi suggest not letting silence stop second dates. Try the "five-day challenge," facing initial awkwardness for deeper connections.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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On this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi explore the intricacies of asking someone out confidently and directly. They highlight the importance of establishing a personal connection and discuss tips for choosing enjoyable date activities, along with advice on post-date follow-ups.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join Aleeza and Rabbi again on a follow-up conversation discussing the topic of pornography addiction and dating. They talk about the importance of being honest with potential partners about your addiction, and how to do so in a way that is respectful and compassionate. They also discuss the challenges of dating someone with a pornography addiction, and how to support your partner through their recovery.Key Points:Pornography addiction is a serious problem that can have a negative impact on relationships.It is important to be honest with potential partners about your pornography addiction, even if it is difficult.Dating someone with a pornography addiction can be challenging, but it is important to be supportive and understanding.Reach out to your counselor to get advice on when to discuss your addiction with your partner.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the challenges of dating someone with an addiction. They talk about the importance of getting support for yourself, as well as the many resources available to help you understand addiction and how to support the addict in your life. Ultimately, whether or not to stay in a relationship with an addict is a personal decision that should be made after careful consideration.Key Points:Addiction is a serious issue that can have a profound impact on the addict's life and the lives of those around them.If you are dating someone with an addiction, it is important to get support for yourself.There are many resources available to help you understand addiction and how to support the addict in your life.Whether or not to stay in a relationship with an addict is a personal decision that should be made after careful consideration.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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Join Aleeza and Rabbi in this insightful episode as they address a common question from listeners: "What should I do if my partner isn't listening to me?" As dating experts, they provide valuable tips on how to enhance communication in your relationship and effectively deal with this challenging situation. Discover practical advice to create a stronger connection and understanding between you and your partner.Key Points:Check the timing. Are you approaching your partner when they're busy or distracted? If so, they may not be able to give you their full attention.Talk in person. Don't try to have a serious conversation from different rooms or over the phone. It's important to be able to see each other's facial expressions and body language.Be respectful. Don't interrupt your partner when they're speaking or talking over them. This will only make them feel unheard and disrespected.Be patient. It may take some time for your partner to learn how to listen to you better. Be patient and understanding, and continue to communicate your needs.Additional Thoughts:Ask for help from an outsider. If you're struggling to communicate with your partner, you may want to consider talking to a therapist or counselor. They can help you learn how to communicate more effectively and resolve any underlying issues.Remember that everyone is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. It's important to find what works best for you and your partner.Overall, the key to communicating effectively with your partner is to be respectful, patient, and understanding. If you can do these things, you'll be well on your way to resolving any communication problems you may be having.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode of the podcast, Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the important factors to consider when making a long-term commitment. They emphasize the importance of alignment in terms of values, lifestyle, and goals, as well as the need to be aware of any potential areas of conflict or disagreement. They also suggest that people who are considering making a long-term commitment create a list or spreadsheet of the factors they are considering, in order to make a more informed decision.Key Points:When making a long-term commitment, it is important to consider how much you and your partner are aligned in terms of values, lifestyle, and goals.It is also important to be aware of any potential areas of conflict or disagreement, and to discuss how you would handle these situations.Some people find it helpful to create a list or spreadsheet of the factors they are considering, in order to make a more informed decision.Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to make a long-term commitment is a personal one. There is no right or wrong answer, and what is important is that you feel comfortable with your decision.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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In this episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker podcast, Rabbi and Aleeza discuss the difference between love and infatuation. They define love as an emotion based on giving, while infatuation is an emotion based on wanting. They also discuss how love takes time to develop, while infatuation can happen at first sight. Finally, they emphasize the importance of being able to tell the difference between love and infatuation in order to make healthy relationship decisions.Key Points:Love and infatuation are two different emotions, but they can be difficult to distinguish.Love is based on giving, while infatuation is based on wanting.Love takes time to develop, while infatuation can happen at first sight.Love is based on reality, while infatuation is based on fantasy.It is important to be able to tell the difference between love and infatuation in order to make healthy relationship decisions.Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videosTo submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/Podcast

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