Do souls have a gender?

After receiving a thoughtful question from a listener, I found myself exploring something I'd never really spoken about before.

When we work with spirit, why do mediums so often describe "a gentleman" or "a lady"?

Is that what spirit really are... or is it simply the easiest way for us as humans to recognise them?

In this episode, we explore:

• Whether souls have a gender
• How spirit present themselves during evidential mediumship
• Why recognition matters in a reading
• Gender, identity and past lives
• How our own beliefs influence the way we experience spirit
• And why I think this conversation will become increasingly important as mediumship continues to evolve.

As always, I don't pretend to have all the answers.

I'm simply thinking out loud... and inviting you to think with me.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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What happens when someone you trust publicly undermines you?

In this week's episode, I'm sharing a very personal experience that has challenged my confidence far more than I expected.

This isn't about naming names or settling scores.

It's about exploring what happens inside us when trust is broken.

We talk about:

• The impact of public criticism
• Why betrayal affects every relationship, not just the one that caused it
• Losing confidence in yourself after someone else's behaviour
• Processing hurt without becoming bitter
• Following your intuition... and what happens when you don't
• And how to keep your heart open after you've been wounded.

Sometimes the biggest spiritual lessons don't come from spirit.

They come from other people.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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Do you really need psychic protection before working with spirit?

After receiving several questions about demonic attachments, negative entities and clearing energy, I wanted to share the approach I used for years—and why my beliefs have changed over time.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why your beliefs shape your spiritual experiences
• How I clear the energy of a home
• What I used to do when I believed in entity release
• Archangel Michael, protection and energetic boundaries
• The difference between difficult human energy and "psychic attack"
• And why feeling safe is far more important than following someone else's rules.

Whether you believe in demons, don't believe in them at all, or you're somewhere in the middle, my hope is that this episode helps you feel calmer, more empowered and more able to trust yourself.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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Can two mediums completely disagree... and both be right?

This week, I'm exploring one of the biggest challenges in spiritual development: navigating different teachers, different philosophies and different approaches without feeling like someone has to "win".

In this episode we explore:

• Why mediumship is deeply personal
• The difference between certainty and authenticity
• Respecting people whose spiritual path looks different to yours
• The recent Alex Reads Tarot conversation and what it reveals about our community
• Why I think healthy debate helps us grow
• And why your job as a student isn't to believe everything you're told... it's to discover what resonates with you.

Perhaps the goal isn't finding the one teacher with all the answers.

Perhaps it's learning to think for yourself.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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Imagine you've had the reading you've always wanted.

Your loved one comes through.

You know they're safe.

You know life continues.

Now what?

In this episode, I'm exploring something I don't think we talk about enough in mediumship:

What happens after the evidence?

We discuss:

• Why an evidential reading shouldn't become an endless cycle of reassurance
• The difference between mediumship and grief counselling
• Why ethical mediums shouldn't encourage dependency
• How spirit encourage us to keep living, not keep searching
• The real gift that mediumship offers
• And why knowing life continues should change how we live this one.

Because perhaps the purpose of mediumship isn't simply proving that spirit exist...

Perhaps it's helping us live more fully while we're here.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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This week, I'm admitting something that might surprise you...

I still dread every reading.

After years of working professionally as a medium, I still feel nervous before demonstrations, anxious before one-to-one readings, and vulnerable every time I open myself to spirit.

In this episode, I'm talking about:

• Why confidence isn't the goal
• The reality of imposter syndrome in mediumship
• Why the sitter's energy matters more than people realise
• The mistake developing mediums make while waiting to "feel ready"
• What changed for me after thousands of readings
• And why some of the most difficult readings become the most memorable.

If you've ever wondered whether you're the only medium who feels terrified before working...

You're definitely not.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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This week I’m exploring a question that’s been rattling around my head for a while:

Where does spirit end… and human effort begin?

Because in spiritual spaces, we’re often very comfortable saying:

Spirit brought me this.

Spirit guided me.

Spirit made it happen.

But what about the hours of work?

The risks?

The failures?

The money?

The persistence?

In this episode, I’m talking about:

• The inspiration behind Spirit Social

• Why ideas don’t arrive fully formed

• The hidden labour behind spiritual businesses and communities

• Whether marketing and alignment can coexist

• Why we struggle to acknowledge our own contribution

• And the uncomfortable relationship between spirituality, visibility and success

Can spirit inspire the vision?

Absolutely.

But someone still has to build the thing.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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This week’s episode is a bit of a deep dive into spirit communication, expectations… and whether modern spirituality is making genuine connection harder.

Starting with listener questions, we end up exploring:

• Why spirit sometimes show up without a message

• Whether spirit guides are really separate from us

• Why mediums can connect to the “wrong” spirit

• The pressure clients place on mediums for proof and accuracy

• And how social media, advertising and algorithms are changing spiritual spaces

Because somewhere along the way, spirituality became performance.

Hooks.

Virality.

Attention.

Proof.

But what if real spirit communication is quieter than that?

This episode is messy, thoughtful and full of questions rather than fixed answers… which honestly feels very fitting.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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This week’s episode started with road rage… and somehow ended up exploring manifestation, energetic responsibility and whether we blame ourselves for things that were never ours to carry.

Because after a really uncomfortable encounter on the road, I found myself asking a question I think a lot of spiritual people secretly ask:

Did I cause this?

In this episode, I’m talking about:

• What happens when someone else’s energy really hits you

• Why being energetically sensitive can feel overwhelming

• The pressure spiritual people put on themselves to stay “high vibe”

• The darker side of manifestation culture

• And whether every difficult experience really is our fault

Sometimes chaos is just chaos.

Sometimes people bring their energy into your space.

And sometimes healing isn’t instantly “raising your vibration” and moving on.

Maybe it’s just being honest that something hurt.

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

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This week’s episode is a bit of a story… and the lesson that came from it.

Because sometimes it’s not the big things that force change.

It’s the final, small thing you were willing to tolerate… until suddenly, you’re not.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

• What happened when Spirit Social was hit by a scam

• The reality of building something from scratch (and the unexpected costs)

• The moment something small pushed me over the edge

• And how frustration, anger and “overreaction” can actually be alignment

We’re often told to stay calm, stay positive, stay balanced.

But sometimes… snapping is the thing that finally moves you forward.

What if the thing that pushed you too far… was actually helping you change direction?

I'm starting a circle, and you're invited.

Most people developing their mediumship are doing it on their own. From September I'm running a monthly development circle inside Spirit Social, where you practise with other people instead of just reading about it. Over 12 monthly live events, alongside daily card readings and live demonstrations.

Come and join us: https://onelink.to/pgwzuq

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.