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I) What is the purpose of dating, and am I dating with that in mind?
約會的目的究竟是什麼?我是否是帶著這樣的目的在約會?
2) How would I live differently if I saw singleness as a gift to treasure and use wisely and not as something to get rid of as soon as possible?
如果我把單身看作是一份值得珍惜並要明智使用的禮物,而不是急著想擺脫的狀態,我的生活會有什麼不同?
3) When have I “played games” in relationships and why? What would dating look like if I was completely honest?
在感情中我曾經「玩遊戲」是什麼時候?為什麼?如果我完全誠實,約會會是什麼樣子?
4) How should I go about dating someone so that their future spouse would be glad he/she dated me first, even if that future person may be me)?
我該如何與人約會,才能讓他們未來的配偶(甚至那個人可能就是我自己)會感到慶幸他/她曾經先與我交往過?
5) How has Hollywood distorted my view on love and marriage? If marriage is a choice, what sort of information do I need before I make this choice?
好萊塢如何扭曲了我對愛情與婚姻的看法?如果婚姻是一個選擇,在做這個選擇之前,我需要哪些資訊?
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0:00 Intro
0:26 Why did I choose to read this book?
1:49 What’s the structure and main idea of this book?
2:20 Is dating just for fun?
4:44 Is being single really a problem that needs to be “fixed”?
8:24 Is playing mind games essential in a relationship?
10:12 Is heartbreak an unavoidable part of breaking up?
14:42 Do you need a “magical feeling” to know it’s right to get married?
0:00 開場
0:26 為什麼我會選這本書?
1:49 這本書的整體架構與重點
2:20 約會只是為了好玩嗎?
4:44 單身真的是一個需要被「解決」的狀態嗎?
8:24 在交往中,心機真的那麼重要嗎?
10:12 心碎是分手時無法避免的過程嗎?
14:42 一定要有「特別的感覺」才適合結婚嗎?
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