Mel Talks Sovereign

Hey guys I’m consolidating down to my top 3 platforms. Make sure to connect with me there for more updates, content, and exciting news! YOUTUBE: Healing Is Sexy. FB: Black Love Recovery for Black Singles and Couples. IG: @healingissexylife. Hope to connect!

Food for thought: Can Black people really say we are traditional or what “traditional” relationships? Traditionally, I believe our references are different than how we are describing it today. Yes, men and women had roles even way back then, but I feel there were still differences from how we define things today. Follow my IGs:

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Let’s talk briefly about the history of wigs and also a misconception of someone who may express desiring love. Don’t forget to enter for your chance to win some awesome prizes on the website! Follow my IG:

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In this episode I share insight on the upcoming “Marry You First” books I’ve been working on for Men and Women as well as how you can enter to win several cool prizes! Be sure to visit my website at www.healingissexylife.com and subscribe to the newsletter mailing to stay in the know. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

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You guys! I have found another winner! This book is an excellent resource to add to your self-healing inventory. You will learn more about 3/4 attachment styles and better understand how and why you and the people you care about behave the way you/they do. Highly recommended! Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

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I feel like there’s a distinction between good manhood and being a good leader and that shouldn’t be the case. A man who is a good man is generally going to be making strides to be a good leader in his circles of influence. A man who leads doesn’t point blame or shuts down and avoids situations. We NEED more men to be GOOD LEADERS. We need more men to correlate manhood with being good leaders and leading by example. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

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Yesterday I caught a Live where several of the viewers were trashing the character of one on the interviewees. It’s sad so many people had that type of energy to focus on someone who was living her truth. Let people live their truth! And also, let’s stop normalizing our trauma! Remember, healing is a process and a journey. It's a choice we make each and every day. You got this and I'm rooting for you!

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Bible said he who finds a wife. Not he who makes a woman his wife. It means you as a woman already are. You aren’t supposed to be waiting for a man to make you into a wife. You’re that already. Becoming a wife is different to everyone and every man’s needs. Take a listen. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

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If you’re hurt and broken you won’t know HOW TO KEEP a good thing even if you’re fortunate to find it. You’re normal of hurt and brokenness and complacency isn’t grounds for growth so all you reciprocate into your relationships are hurt and brokenness.

A healthy person isn’t going to stay or be able to even grow with you in that. YOU have to be willing to fix you and do the work for YOU to be able to be fertile soil to be planted into and have something productive grow: a healthy relationship.

If we really knew what healthy relationships looked like mind games wouldn’t work. Ppl who use ghosting are using abandonment issues to trigger attachments. People who use berating or arguing or destroying behaviors are using toxic issues or styles to condition the other person to normalize that abuse.

Ladies I’ve done a few videos on this before but we’ve got to get out of the mind frame of forecasting the future and wanting to be found and married sooo bad that we are willing to waste time with the wrong person. He’s not going to be different or change if he’s shown you such. Fellas, same thing. Join the Healing Is Sexy (H.I.S.) Wait List: http://www.healingissexylife.com/#/

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Stop paying for placeholders in your love life! Takers are opportunists. It means they don’t know how to appreciate you going above and beyond, they don’t know how to reciprocate it, they don’t know and they don’t care. You can walk on eggshells to keep them happy and they will still find a way to find something wrong and make it your fault and throw everything you’ve ever invested in them out the window and say you were the one wasting their time!

Stop settling for less. Remember, healing is a process and a journey. It's a choice we make each and every day. You got this and I'm rooting for you! P.S. Fellas this does actually apply to you as well!!! I think I said it didn’t but I was wrong. It sure does!

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