Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Learn the 3 steps that can help you when responding to unwanted thoughts. Even if they come at a high speed you can use this method to subdue and get rid of them. https://ww.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures

Usually, when 2 people who want healthy connection try to talk with one another, they both want the experience to be edifying.

Unfortunately, frequently, these conversations fall apart or blow up.  Each tends to look for what the other person did wrong to cause the problem.  This presentation helps both partners understand why conversations fall apart or blow up and what they can do about it.

This lesson is found in #22 of the Lazarus Lectures/Marriage Repair Workshop.  Find details at t.ly/M7tV

You can follow along with this powerpoint: https://docs.google.com/presentation/d/1z6e5YDaOgW7dUzXyijFWdrJ5zhvQ4c5xm86Xkp5m1Dc/edit?usp=sharing

The video version of this audio can be found at https://youtu.be/tnp7Ue4ETrk

Maurice Harker explains that sometimes (no matter how good the information you have to share) its best to not talk! This clip explains an important step in many relationships! https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures  https://lifechangingservices.online/worth

Boundaries and safety protocols are essential to reestablishing a healthy sexual relationship. Maurice Harker explains what they are and the responsibility of each partner in establishing them. https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures

Maurice Harker answers one of the most commonly asked questions about relationships and marriage repair. He explains how knowing the difference can help make your relationship healthier! https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures

After the alarms sound you can rebuild your partnership!  Maurice Harker explains how the use of boundaries and safety protocols can strengthen and help move a marriage forward. https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures  https://lifechangingservices.online/worth/

Do you teach your children to ignore the fire alarm at school? Far to often we ignore the alarms in our relationships until its to late! Maurice Harker explains how to react to your alarm and find a place of safety. https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures https://lifechangingservices.online/worth/

It is easy to get distracted the things your loved one says that you feel a strong need to disagree with.  

It is easy to get preoccupied with the next thing you want to say...that you sense probably will not help.

Learn to use the "4 Square Listening Tool".    One more principle you will find in the Marriage Repair Workshops and the Lazarus Lectures.  

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While strategic resting may seem unfamiliar in our fast paced society. Maurice Harker explains the importance of strategic resting in refocusing and overcoming lost battles. https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures