Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

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  • How to use a 3x5 card to improve your prayers

    Are you looking to improve your prayers?  Maurice Harker offers simple solutions that will help you to enhance your communication with God and help you develop your divine potential. For more information on this topics and other ways to deepen your spirituality please click on https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures

    6 min
  • Psychological Abuse in Marriage: It's not enough to not be abusive.

    Hear Maurice Harker's thoughts  on helping men to understand that abuse goes far beyond just labeling it. When men truly understand that not abusing is not enough, they reap the rewards of improved and enriched relationships with the women in their lives. For further information on this topic and others please check out-https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures/  https://lifechangingservices.online/worth/

    5 min
  • Transposing Sex Energy into Passion Projects

    It is not enough, when working on self mastery, to replace unwanted behaviors by keeping busy, getting a hobby or working toward simple goals. We must learn to “bridle your passions that he may be filled with love”.  Passion Project Training landing page:

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    5 min
  • What to do when you experience torment


    It may seem like fear and torment are everywhere! This clip provides easy strategies to follow to deal with the torment that comes from fear! By following these ideas you can restore peace and move forward with strength on your path to healing. For more information please click-https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures/

    6 min
  • Navigating Difficult Conversations is like driving a Stick Shift.

    It takes practice to get fluid at driving a stick shift car. Same with getting fluid at navigating a difficult conversation with your spouse. This clip is one of many lessons taught in the Marriage Repair Workshops and the Lazarus Lectures. For more details go to: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures/

    4 min
  • Leading conversations in an uplifting, edifying and effective way.

    Most of us men were not taught the correct definition of Presiding.  Most of us were not taught how to lead a conversation with our spouse in an edifying and constructive way.  I hope this information helps.  -Maurice W. Harker


    Presiding

    1. Retreat (man in the mountain) to hang out with God and decide the priorities for your stewardships.  It is important that this be done on a regular basis, and not just in moments of duress.  A true Presider values being a step ahead...not just waiting for catastrophes.  Within our bag of resources is access to the Spirit of Prophecy.  We can practice using this gift until we are able to, quite frequently, predict upcoming attacks on ourselves and our families, similar to the way Captain Moroni was able to predict and prepare for attacks on his people.
    2. Formulate a few ideas that would improve the stewardship.  Stephen Covey - Roles and Goals
      1. Write down your ideas until they are clear enough for someone else to understand.
      2. Initiate conversations with your wife about the topics discovered in step 1  "Hello wife, I have spent great energy on pondering and praying about the needs of…...
      3. Ask if she wants to add her thoughts and feelings on the subjects.
      4. -With a notebook, take notes on her thoughts and feelings about the ideas.
        -As you are listening, make brief comments and gestures representing that you are taking her seriously.   Reverence anything that comes out of her mouth.
        -When you have received enough information (for now), move on to #6
        -In more advanced relationships you can add clarification and collaboration.
      5. Retreat again and with the help of God get an accurate interpretation of what she is saying.  Write down those interpretations.  Then formulate a synergy of her ideas and yours. Including your consideration for the miracles that she has proposed. This should produce hybrid ideas.
      6. Return with a counter proposal based on your wisdom and inspiration and your awareness of any pending miracles God has in store for you.
      7. Leave room for the wife to grieve the human limitations and if the ideas are truly inspired, give her time to get her own 2nd witness and prepare emotionally for the challenges ahead.  Do not lose your compassion for how scary that is going to be for her.  CHARITY.

      8. To register for the Lazarus Lectures, visit our website: https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures/

        5 min
      9. Your Thoughts are Like a River

        If you understand your thought paths, you can change your thought paths. For more information please click-https://www.lifechangingservices.org/lazaruslectures/

        5 min

      About Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

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      For over 30 years, Maurice W. Harker, M.ed, has been working to provide practical and powerful interventions based on a synergy Eternal Principles with accurate psychology science. He was a Clinical…