Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

• Guardrail #1

Never develop an emotional connection to another woman.

Proverbs 29:3 and 5:3-4

• Guardrail #2

Never be alone with a woman behind closed doors or alone in public.

Proverbs 8:11-12

• Guardrail #3

Never engage in negative talk about your marriage or wife with another woman.

Proverbs 24:3 and 30:20

• Guardrail #4

Never compliment a woman unless your wife is present or somehow woven into the compliment.

Proverbs 17:24

Example: ―Your hair looks nice that color. My wife dyes her hair too but I love her no matter what color her hair is.

• Guardrail #5

Never have longstanding counseling relationships with another woman.

Proverbs 2:16 and 14:8

• Guardrail #6

Never make physical contact with a sensual area of another woman even if it's just a hug.

Proverbs 5:20 and 6:26

Example: Front hug as opposed to a side hug.

• Guardrail #7

Never make foul, rude, or sexual comments.

Proverbs 10:23, 10:31, and 7:5

• Guardrail #8

Never give a gift or card to another woman that is only from you.

Proverbs 12:26

Example: Sign the gift or card from you and your wife, or from ―us‖.

• Guardrail #9

Never have non-business related communication with another woman

(text, instant message, social media, phone calls, etc.)

Proverbs 1:20 and 2:6

• Guardrail #10

Never assume your wife is living by your standards. Be engaged.

Proverbs 2:11-13, 4:5, and 5:1

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In this episode, Jim interviews Chad Gunderson, the producer of The Chosen. Chad explains why Jesus is portrayed the way he is in this series. The Jesus in The Chosen relates to the rest of humanity. He is a man that men want to follow. You will love this episode!

Chad Gundersen's producing career began over 25 years ago while in college at the University of North Texas. While there, Chad co-founded Night & Day Films in 2000 and made numerous award-winning commercials, music videos, and short films. Going out on his own in 2006, Chad started Gundersen Entertainment where he worked alongside studios like 20th Century Fox, Lionsgate, and Sony to produce multiple life-changing films. Some of his more notable projects include Like Dandelion Dust starring Academy Award Winner Mira Sorvino and Barry Pepper, The Trial starring Matthew Modine, Hoovey starring Patrick Warburton, and Lauren Holly, as well as the children's animated series, Owlegories. In 2015, along with producer Chris Juen, Chad started Out of Order Studios, where they have produced numerous TV shows, animated projects, and feature films, including the ground-breaking TV series, The Chosen.

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In this episode, Jim Ramos shares the three causes that are very important to us.

Missionaries

Military (oversees active)

Men in Underdeveloped Nations

Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18)

By "diverse" we are not talking about America. We are talking on a global level.

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Gary Greeno is a pastor, motivational speaker, educator of 30+ years, author, and former basketball coach. His passion is to help people find and live out their purpose while living out the Godly legacy they truly want to leave. Today we will be discussing his book, The Legacy Game Plan: 4 Keys to Living Intentionally

Jim and Gary discuss in detail the 4 Part Game Plan for Living Out A Godly Legacy.

First, Fortify Your Foundation by,

1. Choose Christ Daily
2. Keep The Past in The Past
3. Get Around Godly People
4. It's a Slow Process

Second, Feed Your Faith

Third, Fix Your Focus

Fourth, Finish Strong

Boots on the Ground:

Set a fitness goal this year with micro-goals. Join me in doing 65,000 pushups this year.

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In this episode, Jim Ramos shares what we at Men in the Arena believe and why it is important.

Christ-centered: We unapologetically trust Jesus Christ to protect, grow, and bless Men in the Arena. We will stand up, speak up, and show up for Jesus even to the point of ridicule, persecution, and death. (Luke 1:37, 1 Corinthians 3:7, 2 Timothy 3:12, and Hebrews 10:39)

Biblically-based: We believe the Bible is the infallible word of God that provides moral absolutes. Everything we speak, write, or represent, will be Biblically accurate to the best of our abilities and interpretation of Scripture. (Psalm 119:9-10, 2 Timothy 3:16-17, Hebrews 4:12, and 2 Peter 1:20-21)

Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18)

Organizational Integrity: We believe in impeccable organizational integrity. We will be transparent in our financial dealings, ministry reporting, and verbal interactions. (Job 27:5, Proverbs 10:9, Matthew 22:16, and 1 Timothy 3:1-6)

Morally Pure: We believe in living a life that glorifies Jesus, guards those we love, and protects the organization.(Proverbs 5:18-20, Acts 1:8, 1 Timothy 3:1-6, 2 Timothy 2:22, and Hebrews 13:4)

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God wants to help you rid yourself of the things that slow you down. He wants to chisel and hone you into the creation he has intended you to be. Jim Ramos interview Chris Widener on his book, The Angel Inside.

Chris Widener has been named one of the top 50 speakers in the world and is a member of the motivational speakers Hall of Fame. From his childhood filled with drama, 28 homes in 11 different schools being shipped afterward with relatives twice, to becoming one of the most well-known motivational speakers, Chris Widener will inspire you. He is the author of 22 books that have been translated into 14 languages.

Boots on the Ground:

Pray and ask God to show you who he wants you to become in 2022. When he reveals this to you, pick up the hammer and chisel and start chipping away at your life until you become that man.

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Top Books for Men

Listed Alphabetically by Author's last name

9. The Measure of a Man by Gene Getz

Why? Gene's is the first book to define the biblical qualities every godly man must strive for. His book, written over 50 years ago has sold over a million copies to date.

Episode #: 255

10. The Elephant in the Marriage by Jason Karampatsos

Why? Find out what brings satisfaction in the marriage by reading this ground-breaking work. You may be shocked.

Episode #: 239

11. Ten Things Great Dads Do by Rick Johnson

Why? Rick is one of the least know best authors to speak to men in decades. IN his book, Rick whittles fathering down to ten great fathering principles.

Episode #: 154, 156

12. Raising a Modern Day Night by Robert Lewis

Why? Every father raising sons needs to read this book. Lewis helps dads navigate through rite of passage ceremonies with their sons.

Episode #: 342

13. Six Rules Every Man Must Break by Bill Perkins

Why? This was the first book about manhood I ever read and it was a game changer as I broke free from extra biblical rules and church expectations that drove my life.

Episode #: 88

14. The Jesus Story by White Horse Publishing (Bill Perkins)

Why? Not specifically for men, this is a blended version of the Gospels with no chapter or verse refences. It is a game changer that every man must own.

Episode #: 227

15. Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His world by Jim Ramos

Why? What did you expect? This Amazon #1 bestseller is the first book I've read that clearly defines what a man is and does. You'll walk away knowing what it takes to live as a man. Episode #: 426 (428, 430, 432, 434)

16. Just a Minute by Wess Stafford

Why? This book changed how I acted around little children. Often ignored, now whenever a child enters the room I act as though I was standing on holy ground because of this great book written by the greatest man I ever met. Just a minute can change a child!

Episode #: 483

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Top Books for Men

Listed Alphabetically by Author's last name

1. What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell

Why? This book is short, easy to read, and offers memorable and practical advice for being a better husband. It me the first time I read it but how clear, honest and succinct this book is.

Episode #: 362

1. Let's Talk: Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters by Michelle Canfield

Why? Michelle, aka The Dad Whisperer, is a woman who teaches men who to talk to their daughters. All her resources are exceptional.

Episode #: 433

1. Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Why? Over 14 million copies have been sold., This is a classic book every man should own so he can love his wife to the best of his ability.

Episode #: 344

1. No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Coughlin

Why? This was a monumental work for the majority of Christian men who think being a good man is synonymous with being nice. It is not.

Episode #: 316

1. The Smart Stepdad by Ron Deal

Why? With divorce rates at over 50% Deal helps dads with stepchildren avoid the pitfalls that can ruin a second marriage. Being a child of divorce myself, I cannot stress who important this book is

Episode #: 423

1. Love and Respect by Emmerson Eggerichs

Why? Selling millions of copies this is a must-read book for husbands who want to avoid the "crazy cycle," learn to speak their wife's language and live their best marriage.

Episode #: 203

1. Wild at Heart by John Eldredge

Why? Twenty years later and men are still talking about it. Eldredge lists the three core passions of every man. Those passions resonated with my soul, and they will with yours too.

Episode #: 94

1. Red Hot Monogamy by Bill and Pam Farrel

Why? Did you know monogamous Christian couples report having the most satisfying sex life? Find out how yours can be numbered among them in the no holds barred book for couples

Episode #: 201

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Inspiration for our 65k Push-Up Challenge! This interview will be a huge inspiration for you on your push-up journey. Rod Handley inspired our challenge! Rod had Stage 4 cancer, and was so weak that he couldn't do a single push-up, but then decided he was going to do 200 per day, 6 days per week. By the end of the year, he was cranking out 200 strict push-ups! This is a must-listen.

Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the "why's" and "how's" of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men's events, conferences and retreats all across the nation.

From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children.

Here's How the 65k Push-Up Challenge Will Work:

• Record your reps on the calendar here!
• At the end of each month, we'll send you an email asking for your check-in. Simply reply to that email with a pic of that month's calendar.
• If you hit the 65,000 push-up goal before midnight December 31, 2022, you have officially slayed this challenge.
• At the end of the year, you'll send photos of your completed calendar. We'll send you a certificate of completion and some commemorative merch (still figuring that part out, but we've got some cool ideas).

FAQs and Housekeeping Stuff:

• Q: Do they have to be strict push-ups? A: No. They can be strict, knee, wall, box, incline - I don't care what you do as long as you do it. The guy who inspired this challenge started out unable to do a single push-up and by the end he was knocking out 200 a day. Challenge yourself and improve.
• Q: Do I need to videotape myself to prove I did them? A: Nah, honor system. You'll send us photos of your calendar for accountability more than anything. If you give me your word of honor that you did them, I'll believe you.
• Q: I did 64,999 push-ups because [insert excuse here]. Can I still get my certificate, merch, etc.? A: No participation trophies.
• Q: What inspired this challenge? Where did the number 65,000 come from? A: This challenge was inspired by my friend Rod Handley from Character that Counts. He was recovering from a rare form of cancer and decided to do 200 push-ups per day, 6 days per week and came up with that 65k goal. At first he couldn't do a single push-up, but by the end of the year he was cranking out 200 a day. If he can do it, so can you! Next Monday, I'll be interviewing Rod about his experience with this push-up challenge on the Men in the Arena podcast. That'll be really motivating and inspiring on your push-up journey, so make sure to listen to that episode.
• Q: How many emails am I going to be getting here?A: For the challenge, you'll get one each month for your check-in. Maybe also an occasional one if I think of something inspirational to say to you about it, but it's not going to be frequent. You'll also automatically start receiving our Weekly Equipping Blast each Friday. It's designed to equip you to be a better man, so I'd encourage you to check it out, but if you don't want it you can manage your email preferences to only receive emails about the 65k Push-Up Challenge. We won't share your email or identity with anyone.
• When you post videos or pics to social media about your progress, use the hashtag #65kpushupchallenge and tag us @themeninthearena so we can reshare and hype you up!
• If you have friends that want to start late, tell them to hit us up. The more the merrier.
• If you're not familiar with Men in the Arena, check out our website to learn more about us.

If you have any questions I haven't addressed here, feel free to email us at [email protected] or DM me on our Men in the Arena socials.

Let's get after it! Pushing-Up to Become His Best Version,

Jim Ramos

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Sathiya Sam helps men overcome sexual temptations with his 5 principles.

Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. DeepClean has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. He is married to his lovely wife Shaloma and based out of Toronto, Canada.

Website - www.sathiyasam.com

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