Ashley McMann, LPC, is a Therapist &s Anxiety and People-Pleasing Coach. She specializes in Anxiety, Divorce, Relationship Concerns, Trauma, and People-Pleasing tendencies.
Ashley shares her journey into therapy, her experiences with divorce, and the complexities of grief. She discusses the concept of people pleasing as a trauma response and emphasizes the importance of self-compassion in healing. The conversation explores the balance between empathy and boundaries, the significance of detaching from outcomes, and the difference between loneliness and solitude. Ashley also provides insights on how partners can support each other in navigating people-pleasing tendencies and highlights the role of self-awareness in personal growth.
03:57: Navigating Divorce: Personal Insights and Experiences
07:07: Understanding Grief: The Process and Its Stages
10:07: Detaching from Outcomes: Control and Acceptance
12:57: Mindset: Fixed vs. Growth Perspectives
14:56: People Pleasing: Understanding the Core
20:08: Distinguishing Love from People Pleasing
25:09: Understanding Intuition vs. Anxiety
28:58: Setting Boundaries with Empathy
32:09: Personal Growth and Emotional Regulation
35:00: Navigating Loneliness and Solitude
37:51: Healthy Coping Mechanisms
40:52: Supporting Partners with People-Pleasing Tendencies
44:54: The Balance of Selfishness and Selflessness
48:35: Finding Purpose Through Pain
50:49: Pride in Independence