Men on the Path to Love

Disappointment will happen in a relationship. A change of plans. A response you weren’t expecting. A moment when you needed support and felt alone. Sometimes when disappointment happens—your mind immediately goes into what it could mean.“I don’t matter.” “She doesn’t love me.” “Maybe this isn’t going to work.”

In this episode, as I continue my series, When Love Gets Real, you'll hear "Mitch & Megan's" story and how Mitch's interpretation of disappointment had him running for the exit door in relationship until he met Megan and decided to make a change.

I also explore what to do when your partner disappoints you—from communicating your needs to making a repair, and recognizing when a boundary is needed. Check out the What Do You Do When Your Partner Disappoints You? episode.

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The minute a relationship stops feeling new can mess with your head. One day you’re laughing, flirting, and feeling like things are easy. The next day she’s disappointed, you’re annoyed, and your nervous system starts whispering, “Here we go again.” Then you start trying to get that new feeling back. 

In this episode, I’m beginning a new podcast series, When Love Gets Real, with the episode When the Relationship Stops Feeling New. I tell "Ryan's" story, a guy who usually leaves at this point—and what happened when he tried having the conversation he’d been avoiding. I talk about some of the reasons why we might want to leave at that stage,  and what to do when the relationship stops feeling new.  Check out the When the Relationship Stops Feeling New, episode.

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You can’t build real intimacy while you slowly lose yourself out of the relationship. In this episode, I ask a question that cuts through all the noise: can you be yourself with the person you love, not the polished version, not the always-agreeable version, but the real you? 

I also share a coaching story about Avante (not his real name), a man who tried to do everything right, made himself always available, and still lost the relationship, and his confidence along the way. I’ll walk you through some practical questions to ask your self to see if you're losing yourself, and what to do next if you have been.

Check out the Can You Be Yourself in This Relationship? episode.

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A lot of men have people in their lives—but very few have a place where they can speak honestly about what they’re going through without feeling judged, embarrassed, or expected to have it all figured out.

For a little over a year, I’ve had the privilege of facilitating conversations like these through MensGroup. I’ve seen what can happen when men put down the armor, discover they’re not alone, and begin supporting one another through the real stuff of life.

In this week’s episode of the Men on the Path to Love podcast, I’m joined by MensGroup Community Manager Jim Heidema for a conversation about why these spaces matter, what happens inside a men’s group, and what men can gain when they stop trying to handle everything alone. Check out the What Happens When Men Finally Talk?: An Introduction to MensGroup, episode.

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Your gut notices the thing that “doesn’t sit right” way before your brain wants to admit it. I'm talking about that moment early in dating when a boundary gets crossed, a story feels off, or you catch yourself making excuses because the chemistry is strong and you really want it to work. In this week’s episode,  I talk about why so many smart, good men ignore relationship red flags early on.

I'll show you what to pay attention to, and how to decide whether a possible red flag moment is a call for a conversation—or a repeated pattern that calls for a decision.

I share my own relationship experience where I saw the red flags—but was so invested in what I wanted the relationship to become that I kept explaining them away. You'll also hear "Jimmy's" story about no matter how many warnings he got from others (and himself) he still ended up with someone who wasn't right for him. Check out the Stop Ignoring What You See Early in a Relationship, episode. 

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That rush you feel when someone texts back fast, laughs at your jokes, and fires up your body can be real, and still not be real connection. In this episode, I continue my series on Loving Differently the Next Time Around.  I make the distinction between chemistry, compatibility, and emotional connection, because getting them mixed up is one of the quickest ways to repeat the same relationship cycle after a breakup or divorce.

I share a coaching story about “Troy,” a man who chased attraction for decades and left when the initial high faded. Only to repeat it again and again.

I also take you through five ways to build real connection beyond the initial attraction and chemistry. If you’re dating after divorce, rebuilding confidence, or trying to stop confusing intensity with love, this is a roadmap to choosing differently. Check out the Chemistry, Compatibility, and Connection Aren’t the Same Thing, episode. 

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After breakup or divorce, loneliness can make getting almost any attention feel like “the answer,” but that’s exactly how smart, good men end up repeating the same relationship patterns with a different person. I'm opening season six with a new series called Loving Differently the Next Time Around. In this episode, I slow things down by asking: what are you really looking for in your next relationship, and what are you hoping it will give you?

I talk about the trap of dating to get relief after divorce or a breakup, and why preferences and attraction are real, but not all you need. I share a coaching story about “Sam,” who had a detailed list of what he wanted in a woman, yet couldn’t describe what he wanted the relationship itself to feel like. 

I offer a practical framework to help you get clarity in what you want in a relationship. I help you get clear about how you want to feel in your next relationship, get specific about what your relationship looks like in everyday life, and letting your values guide your choices.  You’ll leave with a simple exercise you can do. Check out the What Are You Really Looking For in Your Next Relationship? episode.

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Confidence can look strong on the outside while you’re falling apart on the inside. In this episode, I talk about the kind of confidence that doesn’t need to announce itself, doesn’t depend on a relationship status, and doesn’t fall apart the moment you get rejected or life changes. That’s the confidence that comes from being an emotionally healthy man, and it’s the finale of my Living as an Emotionally Healthy Man series.

I share a personal story from a time where I had every reason to doubt myself, and a decision that led me back into dating with a quieter, more grounded confidence, and ultimately into a marriage built on real connection rather than managing an image of myself.

 I share a coaching story about “Toby,” who comes in wanting dating tricks and leaves with something better: self-awareness, emotional availability, and the realization that confidence grows when you stop believing you have to impress someone to be worthy of love.

You’ll also get practical steps on how you can create a deeper sense of confidence in yourself starting today. Check out The Confidence That Comes From Being an Emotionally Healthy Man, episode.

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In this episode, I talk about the real purpose of healthy boundaries and why they are not walls, threats, or rules for someone else.  A boundary is taking ownership of your emotions: naming what you feel, what you need, what you are willing to do, and what you are not willing to do, so you can stay honest in relationship without losing yourself.

I share about my early struggles with boundaries, and a story about a friend who had horrible boundaries in his relationships, and how he constantly tried to manage his partner’s moods so much that he gave up his plans, hobbies, and self-respect to keep the peace. 

You’ll get practical, clear language you can use right away, plus simple scripts for your every day preferences, time alone, and when conversations get heated so you can start to set boundaries differently. Check out the Emotionally Healthy Men Set Different Boundaries, episode.

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The moment you feel criticized, dismissed, or disrespected, your body can go from zero to sixty before your mind knows what happened. That’s the difference between reacting and responding, and it’s one of the biggest skills emotionally healthy men build when they want better relationships after a breakup or divorce. 

I explain why a reaction is often automatic, defensive, and shaped by the past, while a response is still honest and direct but chosen on purpose. 

I share a story about a heated men’s workshop I attended, where two guys get triggered for totally different reasons and what they learned from it. I share my own story that demonstrates even if you react at first, you can still respond and repair afterward. 

I also revisit the PATH framework from the last episode with practical language you can use in real conflict to help you with responding instead of reacting, and how to repair if you do react. Check out The Difference Between Reacting and Responding, episode.

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