The wounds we carry from our past don't just disappear when we enter relationships—they shape how we love, communicate, and show up for our partners. What makes a healed man different from a broken one isn't that he is without wounds, but how he responds to them. 

In this episode, I explore how unresolved trauma creates patterns that repeat themselves in our closest connections and what you can do to be a healed man in your relationship. Check out The Healed Man's Journey: How Healing Yourself Changes Everything in Relationship, episode.

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Have you ever thrown yourself into work, telling yourself you're being a good provider, while secretly avoiding the messy, vulnerable parts of your relationship? You're not alone. This Labor Day episode explores the uncomfortable truth many men face but rarely talk about: the affair with work.

I share my own experience where I once used work to get what I wasn't finding at home. My ex-wife called it exactly what it was: an affair with my business. Through the story of Desi and Lucy, I share how this dynamic plays out as well. 

The good news is that transformation is possible when we stop hiding behind our careers and start showing up authentically in our relationships. To find out how, check out the Exposing The Hidden Affair with Work: Choosing Love Over Career, episode.

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The shadow of our past often follows us into new relationships. Whether your partner brings children from another relationship, financial struggles, or emotional wounds into your life, being willing to say "I know your story, and I choose you anyway" makes all the difference. 

In this episode, I talk about how accepting your partner's history isn't about erasing what happened, but about moving forward together without letting the past define your future. I share the story of James and Barbara and how mutual acceptance and forgiveness transformed their relationship. 

Acceptance is the key in lasting relationships. When we fully embrace our partner—their history, mistakes, and all—we create a safe space that allows for true intimacy and connection. Check out the Past, Present & Peace: How Acceptance of Your Partner’s Past Strengthens Your Relationship, episode.

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Family tensions can negatively impact even the strongest relationships. When your partner's family disapproves, judges, or disrespects you, the strain affects not just your interactions with them, but the foundation of your relationship itself.

I this episode I share the story of Jerry and Ann, a couple whose relationship was threatened when his conservative, religious family discovered that she put herself through law school as a stripper. You'll hear the their transformational story and how you can navigate tension in your, or your partner's family.

The most powerful lesson? Keeping peace doesn't mean avoiding conflict; it means handling it in ways that prioritize your relationship above all. Check out the Keeping the Peace: Handling Tension with Your Partner’s Family, episode.

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Have you ever found yourself angry and losing your temper with your partner, only to regret it a few minutes later? Or maybe you're the type who stuffs your anger until you can't take it anymore? You're not alone, and there's a better way.

Anger is not the problem. It's how we respond to makes the difference. Anger is a powerful signal that tells us that something really matters to us—but how we handle that signal can make or break our relationship. 

In this episode, I share Howard's story and what he did about his anger issue. I also share practical, evidence-based techniques to help you transform how you handle anger. Check out the Calming the Storm: How to Control Your Anger in Relationship.

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What happens when a clinical psychologist with a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt tackles the subject of childhood trauma? You get powerful, practical insights that bridge mind and body healing approaches. In this bonus episode, you'll hear my conversation with Dr. Ernest Ellender. He shares how he draws from both his professional expertise and personal journey to offer a refreshing perspective on breaking free from generational trauma patterns.  

His innovative approach of combining trauma psychology with martial arts principles allows people to process emotions physically while developing crucial self-regulation skills.

We talk about his book, "This is How We Heal from Painful Childhoods," which provides a systematic approach through accessible rules like "Will versus skill - both are necessary" for healing relationships. Check out the The Black Belt Trauma Coach: Healing Family Trauma with Dr. Ernest Ellender, episode.

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Throughout my coaching work with men in relationships, I've noticed a recurring pattern: the belief that being a good partner means always being available. I share Jason's story, where he abandoned his personal needs to be there for his wife only to see it backfire. The truth is healthy relationships thrive on a balance of togetherness and separateness. Research backs this up. 

Find out what you can do to claim your alone time for the benefit of your relationship. Check out the Your Space, My Space, Our Space: The Importance of Personal Space in Relationship, episode.

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Many men have been conditioned to believe that putting themselves last is what means to being a good partner. This type of conditioning could be sabotaging your connection and happiness.

The truth is, (and research confirms this) that your personal well-being directly influences your relationship satisfaction. When you're exhausted, irritable, or disconnected from yourself, it's nearly impossible to show up fully for your partner. Self-care isn't selfish—it's the foundation that keeps love alive!

Throughout this episode, I explore what self-care looks like for men.  I share  JB's story, whose heart attack became a wake-up call that transformed both his health and his marriage. I also share some ways on how you can start taking care of yourself now and live the life you love! Check out the How Taking Care of Yourself Strengthens Your Relationship, episode.

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Are you the guy who's always been called "nice" or "great" but somehow your relationships don't work out? Feeling frustrated from always giving, sacrificing, and keeping the peace only to see things fall apart. It isn't your fault - and you're definitely not alone.

The nice guy syndrome isn't about being too kind. It's about being inauthentically nice because of fear, shame, and the belief that love must be earned through approval. 

Many men develop these tendencies in childhood as survival mechanisms, teaching boys to disconnect from their authentic selves and create a polished, people-pleasing image that follows them into adulthood and sabotages their relationships. I know that from my own personal experience.

In this episode, I share Brad's story and how he broke free from his nice guy tendencies and the impact it had on his relationship. I give you tips on how you can do the same. Check out the From Nice to Real: Breaking Free of the ‘Nice Guy’ Syndrome in Relationship, episode.

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The secrets we keep in our relationships (especially with us men) seem like a way to keep peace but they can have the opposite effect. In reality, secrets usually protect our own egos, not our loved ones. The psychology behind why men keep secrets has a lot to do with our conditioning.

In this episode, I draw on my own personal experience and years of coaching men through relationship challenges.  I've witnessed how even well-intentioned secrets can create invisible barriers between partners.  I share Carlos & Cindy's story and how Carlos' fear of revealing a piece of his past nearly cost him his relationship.  

Breaking free from secrecy is possible.  You don't have to be perfect, just have the courage to be honest and open. Check out The Hidden Cost of Secrets in Relationship, episode.

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