Menisms

We're joined by two of Nollywood's finest – Tobi Bakre and Demi Banwo, and we unpack deep conversations on the deep and most times unsaid struggles that men face.

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There are some silent, unspoken things that turn us off the moment we spot them in a situationship or even a potential partner. The guys share personal experiences on this and more in this new episode of your favourite podcast. The conversations are real, funny and lowkey relatable at the same time.

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In this episode, the Menisms guys dive into the idea of a “marriage window” and whether it actually exists. From turning 30 and feeling societal pressure, to family constantly asking when you’ll bring someone home, the conversation explores why many men delay marriage today. The guys also share personal experiences about women they almost married in their 20s and discuss whether finances and modern expectations are reshaping when people settle down.

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The dilemmas in this episode are wild! 😂

Why is it that even as grown adults, we still hear our parents' voices in our heads before making a personal choice?

We’re sharing the raw, hilarious, and sometimes painful stories of getting our first tattoos—from hiding them under long sleeves for years and so much more. You're in for a great ride.

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In this episode, we unpack our real experiences with Valentine’s Day — from secondary school teddy bears to uni heartbreaks… and even the infamous Prado moment.

We talk about the pressure men feel to always be the giver, whether Valentine’s is just capitalism in disguise, and what actually makes a gift meaningful.

Is Valentine’s about love… or performance?

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In this episode, we step into a time machine to a world before high-speed Wi-Fi, Tinder, and the "talking stage"—the era of analogue love as we knew it.

From the high-stakes pressure of scratching a ₦200 Econet recharge card to the sheer audacity of taking a bike to a movie date at The Palms, we break down why dating in 2009 felt more "real" than the digital chaos of 2026. We explore the transition from boarding school "socials" and Yahoo Messenger pings to the hyper-expensive, option-paralysed dating scene of today.

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The guys talk IShowSpeed and the whole drama that surrounded his Nigerian leg of his Africa tour, sex before marriage, sexual compatibility and the how social media is somewhat defining who or what the 21st century men should be like and more in this episode. Enjoy

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In this episode, we unpack a controversial question many couples avoid: does being the sole financial provider excuse someone from daily house chores? 

The Lads also share stories of Heartbreak, and how they recovered, If ever? 😔 Enjoy.

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