Ali Siddiq is a comedian and writer who shares his stories of abuse, incarceration, grief, and the importance of friendship. Find all of his powerful stand-up specials, including the newly released standup special Rugged (on YouTube).

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Dr. Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist at Boston University who specializes in perfectionism and anxiety, with a particular focus on social anxiety. She returns to the podcast to talk about her research and share tools for managing these issues. Watch for her new book, How to Be Enough.

More about Dr. Ellen Hendriksen:

Her website (with links to buy her books) https://www.ellenhendriksen.com/

Twitter @EllenHendriksen

Her podcast is called Savvy Psychologist and can be found wherever folks like to get their podcasts

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Fellow survivor, recovering addict and therapist Jen Westcott joins Paul again to read some Shame And Secrets Surveys filled out anonymously by listeners.  

For More About Jen:

Therapist Sanctuary Clinical Supervision Community

https://youtube.com/@therapistsanctuary?si=LXxyNlcClD00m-Qz

https://www.holistichealingcounselling.com/therapist-sanctuary

https://insta.openinapp.co/7s936

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Tina Kaye, a friend from Paul’s support group, shares her story of growing up with an unstable mother, being raised Mormon, and all of the rage and resentment that she’s had to work through.

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Dr. Caroline Fleck is a cognitive behavioral psychologist, an author, and an Adjunct Clinical Instructor at Stanford. She joins Paul to discuss validation and the importance of belonging. She also provides useful tips on how to support yourself and others with acceptance. Look for her new book, Validation: How the Skill Set That Revolutionized Psychology Will Transform Your Relationships, Increase Your Influence, and Change Your Life

More about Dr. Fleck

https://www.instagram.com/stories/carolinefleckphd/

https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck

https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolinefleck/

www.drcarolinefleck.com

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Sabrina Capper grew up in the Mormon Church. She shares her story of manipulation, generational abuse, and how she finally escaped. Look for her new book, Licking the Knife, to learn more about her story.

More about Sabrina:

Licking the Knife: A memoir, available at B&N and Amazon

BEASTS: A story of a girl in a beastly world (illustrated children's book), available at B&N and Amazon

www.sabrinacapper.com 

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Joe Smarro is a Marine Corps combat veteran who trains first responders on how to properly manage and de-escalate mental health crises. He talks about the path that led him to this work, why the current system is so broken–for both civilians and first responders–and what can be done to fix it.

For more about Joe:

www.JoeSmarro.com

www.Instagram.com/JoeSmarro

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Vanessa Blackstone is a therapist specializing in chronic pain and the Executive Director of the Pain Psychology Center. She outlines the success she’s found in the Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) modality. She also shares her personal journey to this work, growing up in foster care and learning to manage her chronic pain. Look for her book, The Pain Reprocessing Therapy Workbook.

More about Vanessa:

Instagram: @that.therapist

Linktree: linktr.ee/that.therapist

Website: www.blackstonewellness.com

Center: www.painpsychologycenter.com

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Kayla Hurt is a professional organizer who aims to work with deep empathy and a soft approach. She opens up about her journey to decluttering, including her struggles with ADHD, OCD, and her mother’s mental health issues.

More about Kayla:

Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@organizingwithkayla?_t=ZP-8vSNa0TsBcV&_r=1

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/organizingwithkayla?igsh=MThlYmNrZzVlNHd2MA==

Website: www.organizingwithkayla.com 

Email: [email protected]

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