In this episode of Mer On Air, I open up about the short-lived Hinge relationship that ended as quickly as it started — and the red flag that ruined it: a guy obsessed with his ex.
How subtle love bombing can sneak up on you.Why constant ex talk is the ultimate red flag.The emotional whiplash of going from exclusive to ignored.Why women are taught to downplay their stories, while men overshare theirs.Hard lessons on trust, boundaries, and protecting your peace.If you’ve ever wondered why some men can’t stop bringing up their exes, or felt the sting of being love bombed and ghosted, this one’s for you.
💬 Comment below: What’s YOUR biggest dating red flag?
0:00 – Intro: Update on my Hinge relationship
2:15 – Subtle love bombing and emotional whiplash
6:00 – When “exclusive” stops meaning effort
12:00 – Ghosting, ignoring, and testing boundaries
18:00 – The problem with oversharing ex stories
24:00 – The night everything fell apart
30:00 – Lessons learned: trust, red flags, and moving forward