Today’s episode was recorded on my way home from Eau Claire, WI. The topic stemmed from a previous conversation with my uncle - using compassion as a mechanism for dealing with less-than-happy people. In a society that cannot stop arguing and fighting, we’ve dug ourselves into a deep hole of forgetting how to communicate with one another. Due to this, we have forgotten how to treat each other. It is easy to judge another person’s communicative actions—especially negative encounters—rather than to place yourselves in the shoes of those we are judging. If we do so, we can see that people who are negative and unhappy come from a place of suffering. I see them as “trees caught in the shade, ones who cannot grow properly.” Casting more shade on an unhealthy tree or projecting additional negativity accomplishes nothing; it furthers the dark roots that make the tree sick. On top of furthering the problem, you give it a reason to continuously infect the other trees around it. However, with compassion, we can try to shed a few rays of light on the trees caught in the dark. We can give them a small opportunity to experience some light and encourage their development in a more positive manner. Who knows, maybe that tree will begin to grow properly and be kinder to other trees. It won’t if we treat it with the same frustration and resentment it gives us. Compassion is the only way to make the entire forest healthier. It is the way to make the world a better place and improve the lives of all around us. Through compassion, we can re-learn how to treat each other better. We open the door to a brighter future for humanity. But it all starts with how we deal with the trees who need compassion the most. In a lot of ways, they fail to grow properly because we have let that happen. So, be kind to the next asshole you see, because maybe that tree grew in the shade for too long and doesn’t know any better. If it did, it would most likely do better on its own. It’s our job to help every tree get there.