Mind The Baat

Mind The Baat

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Mind The Baat episodes

  • the ideal male (ft. Chris Leone) [VIDEO]

    Welcoming my best friend, lesbian lover's boyfriend Chris Leone!! Chris dives into his growth and journey from being a 13-year-old who was only motivated to play video games, going through a depressive period that saw the lowest points in his mental health, physical health, and academics, transitioning to the realization that he could improve his habits to now where he's mentally disciplined, preparing for a career in healthcare at UCSD, built 50 pounds of muscle over the course of 7 years, in a committed relationship with the love of his life and continuing to maintain & improve his routine and mindset as he's not done yet to achieve his long term goals in every aspect of his life.

    He is a huge inspiration to me in what focus and dedication could look like, not just motivation that burns out as soon as you have one rough day. We're diving into discipline, falling in love with the process, establishing permanent goals, sociability as an introvert, maintaining strong mental health and self-love. Start rewarding yourself when it comes to uncertainty and that will give you a little motivation, and then when you do experience that instant gratification in going to the gym or waking up earlier, the discipline will come and it will become your new comfort zone.

    Obviously, I had to ask about his relationship and how it impacts all of this as well as a guy's perspective on dating. FOR THE MEN LISTENING: advice on self-love first, nurturing your relationship, AND INTRODUCING FUN, ADVENTURE & GROWTH for both of you to enjoy to foster love and happiness for the long term. Tieing back to how maintaining & nurturing your routine is THE SAME concept as working on your relationship.

    ENJOY OUR FIRST VIDEO PODCAST ON YOUTUBE AND SHARE IT WITH THE MEN IN YOUR LIFE.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTjTMsuwSyg&t=1003s

    1 hr 8 min
  • creating healthy daily habits

    Tune in to hear about my current 7 favorite daily habits that I implement in my routine to be most prepared, motivated, and productive. Learn the skills I have worked on building to form a positive mindset when it comes to the most difficult parts of your day and avoid procrastination. We are working on self-love, our academic goals, and strong mental health. Share with your friends who need some self help lol. ENJOY

    52 min
  • Q & A (ft. finals brain functioning at 0.03%)

    Welcome to Too Many Thoughts with Mishal Durae (a needed reintroduction because I haven't recorded in soooo long). After some quick updates and stats about the podcast from Spotify's Wrapped, we dive into a Q&A to get to know me and a check-in. Let me know what you want for future topics on the podcast & thank you for tuning in with your support after many weeks of being MIA. 

    41 min
  • “sorry, i’m really busy”

    Entering my era of overbooking myself with a crazy schedule, but loving the satisfaction of saying that I do have a life. Tune in to hear all the updates of starting my second year of college, working towards my major, a new job, finally involved in campus life, and creating a separation between school and home life mentally to be the happiest I’ve ever been. IM BACKKKKKKK <<<33333

    40 min
  • no more epiphanies !!!

    Epiphanies are basically come-to-Jesus moments where you contemplate your entire existence and why you do the things you do, but instead of having them every couple of months or so (which I'm guessing is normal), I used to have them multiple times a day commemorating each and every insignificant and dull moment. This summer I finally decided to not overthink everything and take some time for myself to just zen out. There are two reasons that created this new era: PERSPECTIVE and relating my high school mindset to my friend who is ready to be married with three children; even though we're the same age. Also, preparing mentally for my second year of college to transfer and hear about the guilt of traveling so much lately and by myself for the first time. P.S. this episode includes spoilers of future guests (insert dirty mind-smirking emoji). LOVE YOU ENJOY

    1 hr 3 min
  • single vs. shackled (ft. Hannah Schellenberg)
    She’s back for another one and this time coupled up in a long term relationship. Go listen to her first appearance on the podcast: feminism (ft. Hannah Schellenberg). I matched on hinge with the guy performing in the opening show of the concert I went to, realized while in the crowd, and then I couldn’t find him on the app so I found his LinkedIn. In the episode we confirm that LinkedIn is the new incoming dating app; inspiration curtesy of Indian Matchmaking on Netflix. Hear our opposing views on dating apps, friends first relationships, & choosing the younger or older brother complex to date. Of course lots of arguing if you’re into that… ENJOY <3
    1 hr
  • older sibling trauma

    There’s a lot to unpack here: South Asian obedience, idgaf mentality, utterly emotionless and being raised on the expectation that I should put everyone above myself? Many contemplations and epiphanies I’ve had in the last year about who I am as a person and how I go about life are explained in this episode. Enjoy??!!

    50 min
  • desi family gatherings
    A crossed woman at a gas station said that no matter what I may be going through everything will be okay. That really helps when I’m frantically searching for diet sprite at random stores for my aunts & uncles who want me to marry quick and have babies. This week we are diving into South Asian gender stereotypes and disassociation giving your all as a host. It’s a controversial one so TUNE IN.
    1 hr 12 min
  • happy birthday to me
    I didn't want to celebrate my birthday this year. This past week was my birthday. Let's talk about birthdays as a child, tween, teen, and now as an adult. Hear the run down about how my day went and my best friends kidnappping me.
    1 hr 5 min
  • understanding death

    This week we are back in the car discussing death, saying goodbye before death, Alzheimer's, spirits, God, and honoring a legacy. Also, processing death as someone who is unemotional and what that means for me and what I'm feeling. I would appreciate your respect while listening for the person and this was a hard episode emotionally to get through. Thank you and enjoy. 

    52 min

About Mind The Baat

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Mind The Baat (formerly Too Many Thoughts) opens the conversation each week on purpose, mental health, and relationships from her perspective as a first-generation South Asian young adult raised in…