Pause before you respond. Today is a good day to not just react immediately to things that come to you.
In situations that would typically provoke you, remember these 3 things:
Step away mentally from the situation
Experience the situation
Do not evaluate the situation
So we look into the situation and evaluate your thoughts and feelings towards the experience and do not rework the narrative (but he placed the wrong order)
This way you can observe the situation without reacting to it immediately.
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