Mindset Matters

Ever felt resistance from the people closest to you as you start to grow?

That’s not random—it's real. And it can wreck your mindset if you’re not ready.

🎧 Listen in: “Crabs in a Bucket”

Mindset Matters Podcast

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🧵 Quick Thread 👇

Succeed a little? People change.

Push for more? They doubt you.

Grow too fast? They pull you down.

Why? Because your success challenges their comfort zone.

Don’t let their fears become your limits.

Stay locked in. Escape the bucket. Let’s go. 🔥

This meeting featured an interview with Dallin Holker, a current NFL player for the New Orleans Saints, discussing his football journey from high school through college to the professional level. The conversation covered various aspects of Holker's career, including his transfer from BYU to Colorado State, his experience during the NFL draft, and the importance of mental toughness in sports. Additionally, Holker shared insights into the life of a professional football player, offering advice for young athletes and reflecting on the lessons he learned throughout his career.

Riley and Lance reminisced about their college football experiences, discussing their time at Snow College and the University of Kentucky, and the transformation of college football over the past 20 years. They also shared personal anecdotes and advice for managing pressure in college athletics, emphasizing the importance of perseverance and being well-rounded athletes. The conversation concluded with a discussion on the unpredictability and intelligence of a former coach, and the importance of being real and honest with teammates.

Sleep is a super power. Find out why.

In this meeting, Riley and Crew discussed Crew's experiences as a college football player, including his position as a starting safety for Purdue, the use of analytics in player evaluation, and the mental challenges faced by athletes. They explored the importance of self-confidence, learning from teammates and coaches, and handling social media pressure. The conversation also touched on Crew's personal growth, future aspirations, and the value of maintaining a positive mindset in the face of criticism.

Drawing from the principles of Self-Determination Theory, we uncover the importance of relatedness and its role in building confidence. The draft horses' ability to work together, train with one another, and rely on the support of their handlers highlight the crucial role of social connections in bolstering our self-belief.

Over the past 7 years, I have worked with high profile athletes who deal with adversity, difficulties, triumphs, and criticism. The darkside of being a famous/successful athlete is darker than you can even imagine. I am shocked at the ferocity of fans and observers.

In a world full of athletes that curse, overreact, and melt down in competition, it feels more and more like the ability to handle adversity or a loss is a super power. One’s ability to control his thoughts and his reactions, just may be the most efficient way to become great.

According to a study from Bellevue University in Nebraska, men give nicknames as a way of being affectionate without compromising masculinity. So, in other words, men can keep their man card by affectionately giving nicknames to other men.

We can literally turn any loss into a win by focusing on the bravery and the courage of the moment. Good parents, good coaches, and good leaders know this secret: If you place value on the bravery and the courage that it took to play under pressure, they will be more likely to do it again, and again, and again. And more times than not, fortune favors the brave and the courageous.