I left my job after 28 years to start a new chapter in life. Walking by faith to use my gifts to serve. It has taught me a lot about myself and Gods character.

In this episode I share some of the things I've resigned from over the last year after leaveing one career behind for another. Overcoming the fear of the unknown and moving from indecision to a courageous faith journey is not my any meeans something i'm saying is easy. However, when you trust God wholeheartedly it is simple.

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In this episode of Mirrored Experience, we dive into the deeply ingrained habit of self-neglect, especially common among high-achieving women and caregivers. If you've ever felt like you're always putting others first and leaving yourself last, it's time to break free. We'll explore why prioritizing yourself isn't selfish, but essential for your well-being and success. Tune in for practical tips, mindset shifts, and actionable steps to give yourself permission to prioritize your needs, goals, and desires without guilt. Remember: when you thrive, everyone around you benefits!

In this episode of Mirrored Experience, we dive deep into the hidden world of self-deception and the damaging lies we often tell ourselves. From the subtle whispers of "I'm not good enough" to the more blatant "I can't change," these untruths shape our lives in profound ways. Join us as we explore why we deceive ourselves, the impact of these falsehoods on our mental and emotional well-being, and practical strategies to break free from the cycle. Discover how you can move beyond self-deception and step into a more authentic, empowered version of yourself. Tune in to challenge the lies and begin your journey toward self-acceptance and growth.

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Have you or someone you know ever said, I need to get my life under control? Or perhaps things just got out of control.

Bringing order to your life helps with structure. However, it does not give you control. You may have systems and routines, but outcomes are not under your control.

For instance, preparing for your work day, your morning routine goes off without a hitch. Then you come out to a flat tire. Now your commute is delayed and that bumps everything in your day an hour or two behind. The perfect plan and preparation does not guarnatee an exact outcome.

When we surrender to the flow we find freedom.

In this episode I share where the need for control may stem from, what it looked like for me and how we can surrender to experience the freedom we desire.

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Mentioned in the episode:

Nedra Glover Tawwab - https://www.nedratawwab.com

Myleik Teele - https://mytaughtyou.com

Dr. Raquel Martin - https://www.raquelmartinphd.com

My book Bare: https://niccolenelson.com/cracked-porcelain/ols/categories/book

Writing my book has changed my life in so many ways.

One, it being the therapy I never had.

I like to tell people it's all the parts of me.

My surviroship, salvation, sensulaity and sarcasm.

In this episode I share pieces that exhibit these qualities.

Survivorship - Piece Title: Power Driver pg. 27

Salvation - Piece Title: Survival Shift pg. 8

Sensuality - Piece Title: Mental Stimulationpg. 22

Sarcasm - Piece Title: Clearance Jack pg. 58

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Stepping into your true self and full power allows your light to illuminate at its highest voltage. The divine light from God in heaven would be magnified around the world when you start to show up using everything He put inside you.

Not just by career, but by everyday events that seemingly go unnoticed would stand out for others to want to know how you live with such peace and joy.

Show them the real you. The you that you've always wanted to be but shrunk or conformed to be relatable and palatable.

What would it be like to give God all you have this side of heaven and take your rightful place?

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What do you do when the thing or in this case, person, that's holding you back is you?

There's always something or someone to blame.

Then comes a time when you need to admit that blame, is dressed up excuses that are actually FEAR.

Listen to this episode and discover a new way to think about FEAR.

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Where do you believe peace is found?

In this episode I share a thought that lead me to indentify it's location in my life.

Thought: "The reason why we struggle with change is that we are afraid to sit in and with the emotions that arise out of the shift."

I invite you to explore the transference.

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Are you hoarding information or applying it?

Would someone be able to see the fruit of your life and know you executed on all that knowledge?

Is the work you're doing in this season yielding the fruit to sustain you in the future season.

How do we know?

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We have all heard the question, what do you want to be when you grow up. Most of the time it's without hesitation, a kid will blurt out, fireman, doctor, teacher, astronaut, superhero or whatever thing they love or have seen on TV. If they say these three words "I don't know" we tend to coach them to say something. As if, I don't know is going to have them end up on a road to nowhere. When in fact it may be the best thing for them. Leading them on a journey of exploration.

As an adult in transition I have found this journey to be fascinating!

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