True wisdom is what allows us to see the value in others and treat them accordingly. It's not about thinking that we don’t matter…it’s about remembering that others do matter. True wisdom sees the value in others and treats them accordingly. The problem is that true wisdom, the kind of wisdom that sees the value in others and treats them accordingly, isn’t the only kind of wisdom out there. And actually, there’s a whole other kind of so-called wisdom operating in the world that exerts tremendous influence on us.