A great conversation with Rohini Ross on the misunderstanding of conflict & commitment in relationships, discussing the common misunderstandings and how we try to resolve them, and seeing our true nature, and how relationships really work when we are not caught up in our thinking of how they should be.
How commitment really worksBeing one foot out of the doorWe can only see whats happening at the time from our current level of understandingFulfilling the role of the absent parentMeeting childhood needsTrying to meet needs externallyThe experience of well-being independent of our circumstancesHabitual conditioningWhy changing the external doesn’t workRepetitive Power StrugglesLooking to our natural stateIts not about the past anymoreUnderstanding where suffering comes fromDropping into the presentWhy some thoughts are more stickyGathering EvidenceThe honeymoon period is a gift!Taking others suffering personallyShowing compassion is transformativeHow grounding defuses volatilityHaving less judgement of our experienceHow we collect evidence to make thoughts look realSeeing where your experience comes from is the keyPutting the oxygen mask on yourself firstHow the story of me looks realThe infinite intelligence behind fresh thoughtHow people naturally get clear perspectivesCan we be in a relationship with anyoneImpersonal Love vs Personal LoveConnection with self is the ultimate goalWhen the nice feeling comesCuriosity and presenceHow the dominos fall in all areas of lifeWhy personality types are not relevantGetting caught up is learningRohini Ross is passionate about helping people wake up to their true nature. She is a psychotherapist, a transformative coach, and author of Marriage (The Soul-Centered Series Book 1). She is the founder of The Soul-Centered Series: Psychology, Spirituality, and the Teachings of Sydney Banks that launches in Santa Monica, CA October. She has an international coaching practice helping individuals, couples, and professionals embrace all of who they are so they can experience greater levels of well-being, resiliency, and success. You can find Rohini at her website here
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