Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

I’m Brian Page, founder of Modern Husbands. Sometimes our listeners want more support than a podcast can give, individual or couple support, which I now provide. Details can be found at modernhusbands.com or you can email me at [email protected].

For today’s podcast we welcome Elizabeth Earnshaw, one of today’s most trusted relationship teachers. Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of The American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy. She also founded A Better Life Therapy, where she sees couples in her tailored weekend intensives. Today we are going to discuss her new book, Til Stress Do Us Part.

Enjoy the show.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
01:07 Can you walk us through some of the types of stress we face and how they affect our relationships with our partners and ourselves?
09:28 Can you walk us through the concept of mental load and how a disparity in marriage leads to issues?
19:10 What role does stress play in our daily lives? How does that impact our relationships?
26:58 How do we set healthy boundaries to counter stress? How do these affect our relationships?
31:05 What is the science behind our response to internal and external stressors?
45:46 What are three practices couples can implement in their lives today to help protect their relationship?
47:42 Where can folks learn more about your book and your work? 

Learn more about Elizabeth and where to purchase her book:: https://elizabethearnshaw.com/ 

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In this conversation, Dr. Emily Oster discusses the application of business principles to family decision-making, particularly for dual-career couples.

Dr. Emily Oster is a renowned economist and author, known for her data-driven approach to pregnancy and parenting. She is a New York Times best-selling author, a professor of economics at Brown University, and the founder and CEO of ParentData, a website providing research-backed information on pregnancy and parenting.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
03:08 In The Family Firm, you advocate for applying business principles to family decisions. 06:08 How can dual-career couples implement structured decision-making processes to manage parenting responsibilities effectively? 
12:12 When both parents have demanding careers, how should they approach decisions around parental leave to balance career aspirations and family needs? 
17:12 How can couples incorporate regular check-ins to discuss their relationship and parenting roles, and what benefits do these conversations offer?
21:04 With an abundance of parenting advice available, how can couples discern what information is relevant and make informed decisions without feeling overwhelmed? ​
26:07 In your research, you've challenged several conventional parenting beliefs. Can you share some myths that dual-career couples should be aware of, and how debunking them can ease parenting stress? ​
28:25 What approaches do you suggest for couples to align their long-term parenting goals, such as education choices and extracurricular activities, to ensure cohesive decision-making? ​
31:23 How can couples proactively address and balance traditional gender roles in parenting to foster an equitable partnership?​
39:26 Many working parents experience guilt related to balancing career and family. What insights do you offer to help couples navigate and mitigate these feelings? 
41:28 Can you please share with our listeners where they can learn more about your work – such as your online and social media presence and where they can purchase your books? 
42:01 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave us with?

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For today’s podcast we welcome Dr. Cassie Holmes, a chaired professor at UCLA’s Anderson School of Management, award-winning teacher and researcher on time and happiness, and bestselling author of Happier Hour: How to Beat Distraction, Expand Your Time, and Focus on What Matters Most. 

In this conversation, Dr. Cassie Holmes, a leading expert in happiness research, discusses the importance of time management and intentional living in enhancing happiness. 

She shares insights from her book 'Happier Hour' and emphasizes the need for balancing work and family life, especially for parents juggling dual careers. The discussion covers practical applications of happiness research, the concept of time poverty, and the significance of creating 'pockets of joy' in daily life. In this conversation, Cassie discusses the importance of recognizing joy in everyday moments, the value of novel experiences in relationships, and the significance of creating holiday traditions. 

She emphasizes the need for intentional time management and prioritizing what truly matters in life. The discussion also includes practical tips for couples to enhance their relationship and create meaningful moments together, especially during busy times like the holidays.

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Emily Luk. Emily is a Chartered Financial Analyst, Chartered Professional Accountant, and co-founder of the investing app Plenty. For today’s episode we discuss the challenges couples face when investing for retirement and how to address those challenges. Enjoy the episode.

Takeaways

• Couples should have open and honest conversations about their finances and retirement goals.
• Understanding your current financial situation is crucial for planning and investing for retirement.
• Investing over time can lead to significant growth, even with small initial investments.
• Collaboration and working together as a couple can lead to greater financial confidence and success.
• Plenty's app and retirement product provide tools and guidance to help couples manage their investments and plan for retirement.
• The Power of Investing Over Time

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction and Background in Investment Services
01:52 The Need for a Tool to Manage Finances as a Couple
06:12 Simplifying Investing for Couples and the Fundamentals
19:08 The New Trend: THREFT Indexing, Tax Strategies, and Alternative Investment
22:41 Addressing Challenges and Building Confidence in Retirement Planning
26:31 Understanding the Potential Growth of Investments Over Time
28:34 The Role of Plenty's App and Podcast in Helping Couples
31:09 Rapid Fire Investing Questions and Answers 
34:55 Simple Actionable Advice to Apply in Your Life

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Mary Beth Ferrante, Founder of Work 360. Mary Beth’s focus is on positioning organizations to break the weak culture cycle that perpetuates burnout and caregiver stigma, costing organizations millions of dollars in turnover, lost productivity, and unused benefits. Today is a conversation between Brian Page and Mary Beth on the role of men in care.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
02:30 Going all-in on one spouse’s career
07:18 How to step up at home
11:10 How I define a Modern Husband 
13:10 What is keeping some men from stepping in as lead caregivers at home
17:19 What do you wish wives understood about their husbands?
20:15 How can men and women get to equity in the home and at work
23:57 How women can start a conversation with their husbands about doing more at home 

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Julia Menez, founder of Geo Breeze Travel. We discuss the world of points and rewards travel. She shares how points and miles can be used to save money on flights and hotels, how to be strategic with credit cards and points, and shares success stories of clients who have planned dream vacations using her strategies. Enjoy the show.

00:00 Introduction and Favorite Travel Destination
01:39 Inspiration Behind Founding Geobreeze Travel
03:42 Points and Rewards Travel 101
05:24 Dispelling Misconceptions about Points and Rewards Travel
13:32 What Makes Julia Uniquelly Qualified
15:26 Fast Facts About Travel Rewards and Points
17:45 Success Stories: Dream Vacations Planned with Points and Rewards
21:12 Conclusion and Actionable Steps

Key Takeaways

• Points and miles can be used to save money on flights and hotels
• Being strategic with credit cards and points is important
• Don't hoard points, use them to create memories
• Flexible points from credit cards can hedge against devaluation
• Research and plan your travel to maximize the value of your points

Learn more about Geobreeze Travel: https://geobreezetravel.com/

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Birthsmarter Founder Ashley Brichter. Ashley is a life-long educator, birth worker, consultant, and entrepreneur. She is a Certified Fair Play Facilitator, a Tory Burch Fellow, and she sits on the board of ProNatal Fitness.

In this episode, we explore the challenges couples face during childbirth, emphasizing its unpredictability and impact on relationships. She highlights postpartum mental health, Fair Play for shared parenting, and provides practical advice of support.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
01:24 How did you become passionate about supporting couples through childbirth and the early stages of parenting?
05:01 What are some common challenges couples face during childbirth and how can they prepare to tackle these together? Instincts, healthy communication, learning to make decisions, connection with elders
19:42 How important is it for both partners to be actively involved during labor and delivery, and what roles can the non-birthing partner play?
25:24 Can you discuss the emotional and psychological impacts of childbirth on a couple’s relationship and how they can strengthen their bond during this time?
31:51 How can couples divide parenting responsibilities in a way that feels fair and supportive to both partners?
37:02 What advice do you have for couples on managing the stress that comes with sleep deprivation and constant caregiving in the first year?
45:12 One is one piece of simple and actionable advice you would like to leave our listeners with?

Learn more about Birthsmarter: https://birthsmarter.com/ 

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Marriage and Family Therapist Aly Bullock. Aly is the Paired App Head of Relationships and a marriage and family therapist who is dedicated to helping couples build stronger, more fulfilling partnerships. Aly is a married mom of three. She has over 350,000 followers on social media, where she posts fun content designed to help committed couples navigate communication challenges.

In this episode, Aly shares the intricacies of relationships, focusing on effective communication strategies for couples. We discuss practical advice for dealing with the silent treatment, making date nights special, and much more. Enjoy the episode.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
01:39 Where does your passion for helping couples come from?
03:17 How do you tell your partner to calm down without telling your partner to calm down?
06:01 What if you don’t want to talk to your partner about your feelings?
09:00 Your partner is in a bad mood, but you don't know why. What is the best approach?
15:30 What should you say to your partner when they are giving you the silent treatment?
18:17 What are a few easy ways to make your date night rock!
23:39 Let’s shift gears to your new role at Paired. What is a couples app?
26:17 How does Paired address major couple stressors including money, sex, etc?
27:23 What kind of couple can most benefit from Paired and who is their target audience?
27:45 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want to leave our listeners with?

Aly’s Free Relationship Check In Guide: https://www.relationshipswithaly.com/store

Follow Aly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/relationshipswithaly/

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Tyler Moore, known as Tidy Dad.

Tyler is the creator of the hugely popular @Tidy Dad Instagram, TikTok, and website. A public school teacher in New York City, husband, and father of three young daughters, he has been featured on Good Morning America and in the Washington Post, New York Times, New York Post, and numerous other national outlets.

In today’s episode, the Tidy Dad shares his insights on maintaining a tidy home while balancing the demands of fatherhood, teaching, and personal growth.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
01:42 Tell us a little bit about your family and your current work life balance? 
08:52 How has fatherhood shaped your approach to tidying and managing your home?
11:36 Most of our listeners work full time, have kids, and you do their fair share around the house. Some might even have side hustles like you. How do you balance the roles of being a dad, a husband, and a tidy household advocate?
14:38 What advice do you have for dads trying to involve their kids in maintaining a tidy home?
19:30 How do you and your spouse divide household responsibilities? What lessons have you learned along the way?
23:36 Can you give us a sneak peek into your new book? What are some key takeaways readers can expect?
26:20 Are there specific tidying techniques or philosophies in your book that resonate particularly well with dads?
29:07 What message do you hope your readers and followers take away about the connection between tidiness, fatherhood, and personal growth?
32:39 What is one simple and actionable piece of advice you want to leave our listeners with? 

Learn more about Tidy Dad: https://thetidydad.com/

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Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Bruce Ross, Christian Sherrill, and Brian Page host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Today we welcome Adam Kol, known as The Couples Financial Coach. Adam is a Certified Financial Therapist - Level I™, Certified Mediator, and Attorney with degrees from Duke and NYU Law (Tax).

In today’s episode, we explore the concept of financial intimacy in relationships, emphasizing its importance for couples managing finances together. Adam discusses his book, 'Financial Intimacy for Couples', which serves as a guide for couples to achieve clarity and teamwork in their financial lives.

The discussion covers the role of personal money stories, the dynamics between savers and spenders, and the necessity of open communication to foster empathy and understanding in financial discussions. Adam provides actionable advice for couples to improve their financial conversations and strengthen their relationships.

Show Notes

00:00 Introduction
02:28 What is the name of your book, and what is it about?
04:32 What is financial intimacy?
06:05 What role does financial intimacy play in how couples talk about money?
09:09 How do you create financial intimacy in your marriage?
14:48 How do you sustain financial intimacy in your marriage?
21:55 How can savers and spenders get on the same page?
26:22 What is one piece of simple and actionable advice you want our listeners to walk away with?

Learn more about Adam: https://www.couplesfinancialcoach.com/

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