Welcome back to the Mom Boss Tribe Podcast, mama!
Today we are talking about TWO very different energies that we bring to our intentional movement - our workouts - and how they come from where you are at with body image.
I'm sharing four mindsets/personas where I typically see mamas coming from with their body image and what every it brings to their workouts:
Persona 1) Does how you look make you grossed out and want to change your body right now?
- Short term motivation
- Driven by looks and not feels
Persona 2) Do you feel like you've let yourself go?
- Feeling faulty, broken, like you failed at something
- Basing worth on looks and not, well, just waking up being enough today
Persona 3) Do you compare your workouts to what you think Mama Mindy is doing down the road to look like however she looks?
- Find yourself pinning free workouts and following instagram fitness models because you feel like that's the ideal because it isn't where you are right now
- Feeling not enough compared to everyone else
Persona 4) Do you notice your body craving certain activities? Maybe movement, maybe walks, maybe strength training, maybe an activity that allows you to feel in touch with your body just a little or a lot?
- Hmmmmm tuning in to what your body is asking of you
- Acknowledging your body needs something, and you give it
- My body = something that likes to move, I respect it and give it what it is asking
These are all super simple examples, of course.
But the energy that we are coming at workouts with matters, mama. You can come from a lack mindset (IE, I'm flawed, broken, gross, not enough) and be driven to workout because you need to not be in the place you are right now. Probably you might have some short term motivation here, but it won't likely last.
What if you come from this energy of respect, love, care….what's my body asking from me today? Then giving it. Evolving into that. Allowing yourself. Prioritizing yourself. Loving yourself. Building up that hot mess express broken body image? Sure, sometimes you aren't going to want to workout, but the energy you are coming from here is how can I choose me and my body today?
One of these energies feels wonderful, loving, caring, and maybe even NEW for you. One of these energies feels frantic, like you can't wait to get out of this space and change everything about yourself like yesterday.
One of these will make your workouts easier basically forever. With ebbs and flows of course.
One of these will make you feel like you need to keep looking and looking and looking for the next program to guarantee your results or else.
Hope into the MBT group and share which you are, mama.
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