*due to technical difficulty.. no intro or outro in this episode! lol... #momlife

Summary:

In this conversation, Emily, Victoria, and Stephanie discuss the significance of building friendships among mothers, especially in new environments. They share personal experiences of how they met, the challenges of making connections, and the importance of support in motherhood. The discussion emphasizes the need for community, the anxiety that can come with reaching out, and the joy of finding a supportive group of friends. They encourage listeners to keep trying to make connections and to not be afraid to put themselves out there.

Takeaways:

Mom friendships are crucial for support and empowerment.

Don't hesitate to reach out and make new connections.

Building a village can be challenging but rewarding.

Coffee meetups can serve as a therapeutic outlet.

It's important to find friends who understand your parenting style.

Keep trying to make friends, even if it feels daunting.

Social media can be a useful tool for connecting with other moms.

It's okay to change plans; understanding friends will support you.

Finding friends with similar-aged kids can enhance connections.

Encouragement and support are vital in motherhood.

social post about our friend group:

1. https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaeickhoff/video/7573480418511441165

2. https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriaeickhoff/video/7567823409569123598

3. https://www.tiktok.com/@emilybown.rd/video/7571080558017547534

4. https://www.tiktok.com/@emilybown.rd/video/7574508185361337655

Guest: Stephanie Adams, LCPC, PMH-C

(https://www.nurture-therapy.com/stephanie-adams)

Resource mention = Postpartum International Website

https://postpartum.net/

Summary

In this episode of MomBrain Renourished, hosts Emily and Victoria engage in a heartfelt discussion with therapist Stephanie about the complexities of postpartum mental health. They explore various diagnoses, the importance of seeking help, and the resources available for new mothers. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-compassion and understanding in the chaotic journey of motherhood, highlighting that postpartum experiences can vary widely among individuals. The episode aims to empower mothers by providing insights and support for their mental well-being.

Takeaways

Postpartum mental health issues can manifest in various forms, including anxiety, depression, and rage.

It's crucial for mothers to seek help and not feel ashamed of their feelings.

Postpartum Support International offers valuable resources and support for new moms.

Therapists with lived experience can provide relatable support to mothers.

The postpartum period can last from conception to one year after birth, and symptoms can vary widely.

Moms often feel pressured to appear happy and may struggle to express their true feelings.

It's important to advocate for oneself when seeking help from healthcare providers.

Finding the right therapist is essential for effective support and healing.

Moms should not hesitate to ask for help and should feel empowered to do so.

Education about postpartum mental health is lacking, and more awareness is needed.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Postpartum Mental Health

03:34 Understanding Postpartum Disorders

06:23 The Spectrum of Postpartum Experiences

09:23 Navigating Emotions: Rage and Depression

11:44 The Importance of Self-Care for Moms

11:47 Understanding Perinatal Mental Health

14:58 Recognizing Signs of Postpartum Psychosis

17:44 Cultural Perspectives on Postpartum Care

20:42 Navigating Doctor-Patient Communication

23:46 Resources for Postpartum Support

26:55 Finding the Right Therapist

31:37 The Journey of Motherhood and Professional Insight

35:54 Understanding Postpartum Challenges and Support

39:19 Introduction to MomBrain Renourished

39:20 The Importance of Self-Care for Moms

Summary

In this episode, Emily and Victoria discuss the often misleading portrayal of motherhood on social media. They explore the contrast between the curated images of perfect family life and the chaotic reality many mothers face. The conversation delves into the emotional toll of comparing oneself to others online, the importance of authenticity, and the need for community support among mothers. They emphasize that it's okay to have struggles and that sharing real experiences can foster connection and understanding.

Takeaways

Social media often presents an unrealistic view of motherhood.

It's important to acknowledge both the beautiful and hard moments in parenting.

Moms should not feel guilty for having tough days.

Curating your social media feed can help create a more positive experience.

Authenticity in sharing experiences can build community among mothers.

Every mother's journey is unique and should be celebrated.

It's okay to seek help and share struggles with others.

Comparison on social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy.

Finding balance in sharing real experiences is crucial.

Moms should remember that they are doing a great job, regardless of how social media portrays them.

also- make sure to follow us on socials + follow us individually for our day-to-day lives

Emily IG @ marrvelouseats

Victoria TikTok @victoriaeickhoff

no intro or outro today yall- its been a month man...

sharing a quick recap of what's been going on behind the scene- why we have not put out an episode in a month

Summary

In this episode, Emily and Victoria share their personal experiences and challenges as mothers navigating work-life balance, societal expectations, and the emotional toll of motherhood. They discuss the realities of parenting, the struggles of returning to work, and the importance of support systems. Through candid conversations, they highlight the complexities of being a mom in today's world and the need for understanding and recognition of their efforts.

Takeaways

It's been a whirlwind since our last episode.

Life can change unexpectedly, especially for moms.

Balancing work and motherhood is a constant struggle.

Social media adds pressure to present a perfect life.

Mental health is crucial for moms; coffee dates help.

Returning to work after a break can be challenging.

Moms often bear the brunt of household responsibilities.

Societal expectations can create additional stress for mothers.

Support systems are essential for navigating motherhood.

Recognition of a mother's work is important for mental well-being.

In this episode of Mombrain Renourished, hosts Victoria and Emily delve into the complexities of motherhood, focusing on the often-overlooked mental load that mothers carry. They share personal anecdotes illustrating the daily struggles and emotional exhaustion that come with parenting, discussing the weight of decision-making, the challenges of being the default parent, and the guilt that often accompanies these responsibilities. The conversation highlights the importance of support and communication in relationships, as well as the need to find joy amidst the chaos of family life. Ultimately, the hosts aim to foster a sense of community among mothers, encouraging them to share their experiences and lighten the load together.

Takeaways

The mental load of motherhood is often invisible.

It's not just about completing tasks, but anticipating needs.

Moms often feel guilty for needing support.

Decision-making can be overwhelming for the primary caregiver.

Multitasking for a family is exhausting and inefficient.

Moms often feel like they are micromanaging their partners.

Finding joy in small moments is crucial for mental health.

Supportive communication with partners can alleviate stress.

Every mother experiences similar struggles, making it a shared journey.

Creating a community can help lighten the mental load.

Chapters

00:00 The Daily Struggles of Motherhood

02:18 Understanding the Mental Load

05:27 The Emotional Toll of Multitasking

10:26 Navigating Responsibilities in Parenting

15:30 The Guilt of Motherhood

20:25 Finding Balance and Support

21:22 Navigating the Mental Load

24:29 Finding Balance in Parenting

27:34 The Default Parent Dilemma

30:46 Understanding the Emotional Toll

33:51 Flecks of Joy in Motherhood

42:59 NEWCHAPTER

Summary

In this episode of MomBrain Renourished, hosts Victoria and Emily share their personal birth stories, discussing the challenges and triumphs of motherhood. They explore the anxiety surrounding hospital births, the impact of COVID-19 on their birth plans, and the empowering experiences of home and water births. The conversation also delves into postpartum challenges, the whirlwind of life events that come with becoming a mom, and the importance of open discussions about motherhood and mental load.

Takeaways

Hospital births can induce anxiety for many mothers.

Home births can provide a more relaxed and empowering experience.

COVID-19 significantly impacted birth plans and experiences.

Postpartum recovery can be challenging and often overlooked.

The journey of motherhood can be fast-tracked with unexpected life events.

Water births can be a safe and calming option for delivery.

Education and preparation are key for a positive birth experience.

Mental health is crucial during the postpartum period.

Open conversations about motherhood can help alleviate feelings of isolation.

Every mother's journey is unique and should be respected.

Chapters

00:00 Emily's Whirlwind Journey to Motherhood

07:51 The Fast Track to Motherhood

13:50 Exploring Water Births and Home Births

18:49 Navigating Birth Anxiety and Control

21:42 Empowering Home Birth Experiences

24:50 Postpartum Challenges and Adjustments

30:48 Life Changes and Motherhood Journey

36:56 The Realities of Motherhood Conversations

39:46 NEWCHAPTER

Summary:

In this episode of Mombrain Renourished, hosts Emily and Victoria share their personal motherhood journeys, discussing the unexpected challenges and triumphs they faced along the way. Victoria recounts her unplanned pregnancies, the difficulties of childbirth, and the emotional struggles of postpartum life. The conversation delves into the importance of mental health, the realities of parenting multiple children, and the need for support and understanding among mothers. They emphasize the significance of self-care and the normalization of discussing the complexities of motherhood.

takeaways

• Both hosts share unplanned motherhood journeys.
• Victoria's first pregnancy was a surprise while on birth control.
• The impact of COVID-19 on Victoria's birthing experience.
• Postpartum struggles are common and often unspoken.
• Mental health support is crucial for new mothers.
• The transition to a second child can be challenging.
• Victoria's experience with postpartum depression.
• The importance of having a support system as a mother.
• It's okay to feel overwhelmed and seek help.
• Motherhood is a journey filled with ups and downs.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Motherhood Stories

00:50 Victoria's Unexpected Journey to Motherhood

03:34 The Birth Experience: Challenges and Triumphs

06:02 Postpartum Struggles and Mental Health

16:19 The Transition to a Second Child

24:00 The Journey to Baby Number Three

34:54 Navigating Life with Three Kids

It's HERE!

Our First Official Episode!!!

Today's episode is short and sweet!

We introduce ourselves, Emily & Victoria, and explain why we wanted to start this podcast.

We discussed the meaning behind the name "Mom Brain: Re-Nourished" and what you can expect from this show moving forward.

We are SO EXCITED YOU ARE HERE!

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Talk soon, mamas <3

Our podcast intro to every show!