Mom Writes Podcast

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  • Season 3, Episode 5: Mo' Agents, Mo' Agents, Mo' Agents

    Today we have (surprise!) more talk about agents. What if you're pitching an agent, but you are open to eventually dipping your toes in self-publishing or hybrid publishing? Or changing genres? Or co-writing?


    Jennie says, "And when you get to a conversation with an agent, these are things you might want to say: I have a million ideas! I might want to do a collaboration with someone. I might want to do a picture book. I might want to do an adult thing. And I know you might not represent all those things, but what are your thoughts about them?"


    Basically, you want to know where a potential agent stands on any path you may want to walk.


    What are other things that you need to consider when comparing different agents and agencies? What kind of business relationship are you looking for?


    We turn to the internet and do a little digging on one agency. The Jill Grinberg Agency has a beautiful manifesto of their beliefs on their website. In it, they talk about how they approach their work with writers and how they work as a team with fluidity between departments.


    So what am I looking for in an agent? My answer may surprise you! (Especially because I'm not sure if she exists!)

    36 min
  • Season 3, Episode 4: Agents and Strategy

    Today Jennie breaks down agents and strategy in all kinds of different ways.

    First, she talks about agents and what they strategically do for your career (and what they don't). Agents aren't going to say to you, "Llamas are hot right now! Bring me a book featuring llamas!" (Llama just say, I thought this was kind of how it worked.)

    All agents work differently and have different personalities and styles. Some are more editorially focused. Some are great at laying out a strategic career path. As a writer pitching agents, you should have an idea of how hands-on you want them to be.

    Because as Jennie keeps saying, "You get to choose, too." Choosing an agent is a two-way street. Yes, they choose you, but you can say no if you talk to them and realize it's not a good fit. Or, as I said, you can turn down the agent if s/he turns out to be a Mr. Collins. (That's for all you Jane Austen fans out there.)

    Turning down an agent is very difficult for a new writer to do, by the way!

    We also talk a bit about my very off-beat pitching strategy. Jennie usually suggests pitching agents in small batches, but I've decided I want to do something... different.

    Because God forbid I do things like everyone else.

    31 min
  • Season 3, Episode 3: Pitching in a Pandemic

    I know how some of us are feeling. We've worked hard (possibly for years) on a book, and when it comes time to pitch it, there is a worldwide pandemic.

    So what do we do? Do we change our stories to reflect the new "normal?" Do we hold off pitching agents? Are agents still working? Are they taking writers?

    Do any of these things even matter?

    Today Jennie and I talk about how the pandemic has affected the pitching process. My question to Jennie was this: is it better to pitch more established agents who already have all the connections?

    Jennie goes over more pros and cons about pitching agents at big agencies vs. small ones. Seasoned agents vs. young scrappy and hungry.

    She also takes some time to dig deeper into one agent on my list. She dives into the internet to try and figure out what she can about him, illustrating that sometimes you have to channel your inner Sherlock Holmes when researching agents.

    31 min
  • Season 3, Episode 2: How to Choose Which Agents to Pitch

    Today we talk about what to expect when you’re pitching agents. From what to do with your documents to how to keep track of agents, Jennie lays out all the things you need to consider when starting the pitching process.

    (And I have one word for you, folks: spreadsheets.)

    I also fret because my top, wish-listed agents represent some pretty big names. But Jennie has some good advice for me there, too.

    “They're not usually like, 'Well, that's it. I got one really big one! I'm done!' They're in this game for good. So, there is no aiming high. Like if you're aiming for people who represent really prominent, famous authors, they're just as likely to take your book and love your book as anyone else.” -Jennie Nash on pitching agents with famous clients

    I talk a little about how I narrowed down the agents on my list that I wanted to pitch and why. Jennie explains choose agents to pitch is not so much a science as it is an art.

    So how do you go about choosing what agents to pick? And what makes a good agent? What if you don’t hear back from an agent? What if you hear from multiple agents at once? All these questions plus a few more on today’s pitching prep episode of Mom Writes.

    29 min
  • Season 3, Episode 1: Pitching Prep

    Season Three of Mom Writes is all about pitching your completed manuscript to agents! Book coach Jennie Nash walks me, Abby Mathews, through the process of pitching my middle grades novel in hopes of finding an agent, and in turn, a publisher.

    But let’s start at the beginning. The first eight episodes are dedicated to preparing your pitch and your agent query.

    Today, Jennie talks about the number one thing people get wrong when they pitch their books to an agent: they RUSH.

    We also talk about the two things you have to get in shape to pitch: your materials and your mind. What do we as writers need to do to make sure our book is pitch-worthy? First, I asked myself, “Is this book something that realistically an agent can sell?” And the answer was no.

    So, I made some changes to my story that I felt would make it easier to sell my book, and we talk a little about that. I had to kill a few darlings in the process, but in the end, I think my manuscript is in better shape to sell.

    We also talk about the idea of your book being “good enough” to pitch. It was my friend KJ who said, “It has to be good enough to go out, but not so good I can’t change it.” Because one thing you may or may not realize is agents and editors will all have suggestions for your story. These suggestions help you craft a story they can sell. What you have to have crystal clear on the page is your big vision for this story. And you have to find an agent who can catch that vision and run with it.

    Here’s where we move from a purely creative realm into the realm of BUSINESS. And this is a hard thing shift!

    But I’m getting ahead of myself. To start, you need a query letter and a “good enough” manuscript. So welcome back to Mom Writes as we present pitching prep!

    Remember, you can find these show notes on my website at abbymathews.org.

    35 min
  • Mom Writes Season 3 Update

    Hi, everyone! We have a Mom Writes season 3 update.


    One important announcement I have is that Mom Writes is moving! You will no longer find our current show notes on the Author Accelerator website. Seasons 1 and 2 still live on the Author Accelerator site, so all our old show notes are there. But anything new from this point forward will be…here! On my website www.AbbyMathews.org.

    And you guys, I spell my last name with ONE T. Like the everyone’s least favorite subject in school, math.

    Just kidding.

    Kinda. I mean, some people love math. I just said that so you would remember my name has one T in it, like math. ;-)

    Season 3 is going to be structured a wee bit differently, since we are headed into uncharted territory (or at least it’s uncharted for ME). Season 3 is all about pitching, and when you query agents it gets unpredictable. So, whereas you could previously count on me to write my 20 pages every other week on Seasons 1 and 2, I don’t really know what kind of rhythm Season 3 will have.

    That said, we’re starting out with 8 episodes where Jennie lays out pitching prep, and we’re going to release them pretty quickly. Most likely M W F, M W F, M W and then I’m going to hit send on my first query letter as close to “live” as we can get it. (As a matter of fact, Jennie is going to be on the phone with me when I hit send, for moral support. Because she’s awesome like that!)

    Mel is still around, even if you don’t hear her voice at first. FEAR NOT. She is alive and well! But like Mom Writes, Mel has also made a big move across state lines. She just needs a little time to settle and adjust before jumping into the fray! So, as long as I don’t mess up the tech on my end, look for a new episode coming Monday, October 5, 2020!

    3 min
  • Season 2, Episode 53: When Your Heart Lies Somewhere in the Middle
    Abby's spent years writing this book, and through various drafts the one thing she never wavered on was the age and grade of the readers she was writing for. But in this episode, she finally realizes and accepts that it's elementary kids, not middle school kids, that she wants to write for.
    Sometimes at the end of a book, you feel a whole wide range of emotions - one of those is definitely "what happens next?"
    After each of her submissions, Abby always knew what to do next - write the next chapter, edit the next chapter!
    And now?
    Now what?
    Kemlo says this is totally normal, and Abby agrees that the next step is another Manuscript Audit to figure out where the dropped threads are. She needs to pick those up, carry those through the rest of the novel, and cut some chapters because her word count is a little high.
    "I feel like my whole first draft was figuring out what the story was - and then I went back and made it whole. Now, I have to figure out what pieces are unnecessary." - Abby
    Kemlo's advice for dropped threads is to recognize when you're barking up the wrong tree. If you can't make the thread work, if you really don't like it for some reason, if you really feel like you're shoving it where it doesn't fit - maybe that's a sign it doesn't belong at all. Sometimes the best solution is to remove it and see what the book looks like without it.
    Abby also mentioned some of the "nonverbal feedback" she got while reading her book to a group of third-graders is making her second guess the threads in her "problem child" chapter four. Kemlo asks her if it would be worthwhile to read to an older group (more towards the MG readers she was initially writing for).
    Here's where it gets tricky - Abby's taken the "romance" out of her book, and her character is still 13 - where, in fact, does her book fall in regards to the age of her readers? Is she changing her mind about writing for upper middle grades?
    Kemlo agrees that many aspects of her book, especially the humor, would play really well with the younger middle-grade readers, specifically the 4th and 5th grades. She thinks Abby could make her protagonist a little younger and have the whole thing work perfectly. This won't require a huge amount of re-writing
    "It's not necessarily changing so much as discovering what has been true all along, and seeing it for the first time now...which is cool." - Kemlo Aki
    29 min
  • Season 2, Episode 52: Change, Change, Change
    In this episode:
    This week, Mel finds her own mistakes - the fuzzy pronouns, the over-generalities, what Kemlo calls "the curse of knowledge" - giving too little information on the page because it's all in your head. It might be clear to you, but it's not clear to the reader! Experienced editors will find these things on their own, and it's a good sign when you can read through your own work and pick out common missteps in a first draft. For Mel, this tends to happen in scenes with lots of action - which she happily works hard on - but the little things get forgotten about and need to be filled in later.
    Mel's protagonist is having seemingly contradictory thoughts - she's made the decision to leave her brother in order to help save him and other characters in the book, but she keeps thinking of abandoning her plan and returning to her brother. How do these motivations play out, and do they make sense for the character? It can work, but Mel needs to spend more time fleshing out the decision process for her protagonist. The conflict needs to play out in her thoughts, not just her actions. 
    "You have the first and the second bit, showing her thoughts and what she's feeling, but not why it matters - once you get there, you'll be all set." - Kemlo
    Can you include bad weather to ramp up the tension, as Mel has done in her chapter? Sure, as long as it's not the only thing that's ramping up the tension, and as long as you show the characters' reaction to it. Things like weather or descriptions of surroundings can add to the atmosphere (no pun intended) - as long as it's enhancing the scene, and not the only thing your characters are dealing with (unless it's a book about a storm, or a hurricane, etc).
    "Message of the Week: we want to be seeing change, change, change - not just externally, but changes in her as she's affected by everything." - Kemlo
    That's what our readers want to see - how does the story change the characters? Or not? Sometimes our characters are stubborn and refuse to change despite what we throw at them, and that's interesting too - we just need to know why it matters to them, and it will matter to us. Show us what's at stake and what the characters are wrestling with. 
    Mel's got a character that comes back at the end when everyone had given him up for dead, and while that's fine, Kemlo suggests he take up more space in the story before his appearance. This doesn't necessarily mean he's got to appear sooner, but he's got to be on the other character's minds before he shows up. Make some references to him, show that the characters remember him, show that he mattered so that when he shows up the reader remembers who he is.
    33 min
  • Season 2, Episode 51: Mel Nails Her Sex Scene (Pun Intended)
    Melanie gets her turn in the time-looping barrel this week (finally!). In the first part of her chapter, she was interrupting the narrative with some unhelpful backtracking. It wasn't moving the present story forward. As Jennie Nash says, "things were happening...offstage". Mel thinks she was attempting a flashback, or trying to work some offstage information into the narrative, but it stood out like a sore thumb. On the upside, the back half of the chapter went swimmingly, and all Kemlo had to do was say "Hey, you want to fix that first half of the chapter? You know that stuff you did in the end of the chapter? DO THAT."
    Turns out, the time-looping half of the chapter was newer, and it was being integrated into first-draft work. Things have to unfold in sequence - you can't go back and forth, back and forth, with no consistency.
    Mel admits she was super stressed out about her sex scene and just wasn't focusing on the rest of the chapter! But all's well that ends well, and the chapter ended well. Kemlo was happy with how the scene went, and it makes sense for the characters and where they're at in the plot. Does it matter that it's more of a fade-to-black than explicit sex scene? No, because this isn't romance - other genres are more forgiving. There are certain expectations for sex scenes in romance novels that don't exist in the same way in other adult fiction. 
    So, how did she do it?  "I had everything I needed in the chapter except the actual sex scene - every other part of the chapter had been drafted so many times! I admit I left it until the last minute, but it worked!"  Shoutout to MomWrites favorite romance writer Michelle Hazen, (@michellehazen on Twitter, michellehazen.com - UNBREAK ME and other novels at your favorite indie bookstore, online, or where ever fine books are sold) whose advice and support is always appreciated! 
    More of Kemlo's advice centers around what the reader needs to see about what Mel's protagonist knows and expects in the rest of the chapter - things that make scenes stronger include more of the protagonist's decision-making process, as well as the side-characters and what they're up to, what their objectives are. Let them wrestle with their choices like we wrestle with ours in the real world. Remember, they're all living out their own story too, and while it's challenging to maintain these threads to the end of the book, your reader wants to know what happens to all of these people, and you want your reader to want more of this, more of them, more of your story.
    30 min
  • Season 2, Episode 50: The One Where Kemlo Knows The Future
    In this episode:
    Listen to the preview to find out why...if only we'd known then that spending all your time at home and not going out wasn't actually the best thing ever. We hope everyone is safe and healthy out there.
    This week, we talk about wrapping up Abby's story in a nice little bow. This might be Abby's last submission for this draft, but it's not ending in the same place her first draft ended! What will need to happen to convince Abby's protagonist to come back to the real world, instead of staying in the book world forever?
    Kemlo advises Abby to put in some scenes to connect her protagonist more to the real world - highlight friends, family, etc - all of the reasons she might want to come back. We also need to see her protagonist mend her friendships - both with Ralph and with Logan. We need to see her learning what she's meant to learn about friendship, and how to make and keep friends, and how to treat your friends.
    The growth that needs to happen is multifaceted and involves the protagonist accepting herself, and the consequences of pretending to be someone you're not. The message we're looking for has to come full circle from the problems we read about at the beginning of the book.
    Abby and Mel have three more deadlines - can Abby wrap this up in that amount of time? In her next round of revision, Kemlo advises her to plant more seeds for change within her characters.
    "I really thought that first draft was going to be the biggest milestone - and then I finished and realized there was SO much more work to do in revision..." - Abby
    It's true, revision is a beast!
    But really, isn't it supposed to be, a little bit? You're taking the blob of clay that came out of your brain that definitely resembles a story, and slowly chipping and molding and shaping it into something not only the reader will enjoy, but that you will be happy with as well.
    "Sometimes seeing what you don't want can be as helpful as seeing what you do." - Kemlo Aki
    31 min

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Two writer moms and a book coach meet each week for coffee and chat about writing and parenting. Follow along as veteran book coach Jennie Nash of Author Accelerator helps writer-moms Abby Mathews…