Moms Getting Mental

Let’s have a conversation around the perception of imperfection. Our children are growing up in a world of Instagram filters and automatic photo retouching for school yearbooks. It is difficult enough to be a tween, teen, or even an adult in these times. When our flaws are erased (by ourselves or others), what messages are we sending and receiving? When our children are at an age where they may already be self-conscious about their appearance, do these filters perpetuate the notion that something about them needs to be fixed? 

As moms, we can begin to notice small cracks that could be forming so that we can help guide our children to navigate this life with all of the difficulties that come along with it. A strong sense of self-perception and a willingness to see the beauty in our own uniqueness can shift the experience for all of us. 

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Sunny on https://sunnythelifecoach.com and 

Liene on https://coachliene.com 

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Moms are a particular judgmental group of humans. We can get very fierce and bring the “mama bear” energy to any conversation that involves the “right” way to be a “good” mom. As parents, we have a tendency to shield our children. This is one of the reasons moms suffer so much. Can we truly ensure a pain-free experience of life for our little ones, or could we honor the truth that we cannot shield them completely?  

No matter how many studies are performed surrounding nature versus nurture, we can understand that while we carry influence, we do not actually have full control over who our children become. They are independent human beings with their own thoughts…as are you!

This episode is all about owning your self-worth as a mother so that you can be grounded and unbothered by the judgment of others. 

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Headed for another lockdown in her country in addition to a mandatory quarantine, Liene is dreading breaking the news to her young children. Because she learned of this right before we started recording, this episode is all about processing emotions in the moment. As moms, we want to ensure the best experiences for our kids, so what do you do when you have no control of the situations that arise? We can long for “normal” or we can redefine what normal means in this moment. Consider that we all signed up for this experience of life in these times. This small shift in perspective can yield so many rewards. 

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Sunny on https://sunnythelifecoach.com and 

Liene on https://coachliene.com 

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Self-care does not always take the form of manicures and long bubble baths. Sometimes, life gets crazy for moms, and we find ourselves spinning in the frenzy of it all. We can easily fall into our patterns and conditioning that everyone else needs our attention first and that we “should” put ourselves last. It’s the “noble, admirable” thing to self-sacrifice. This is what we often think in the moment. When the crisis is over, we will get back to ourselves. 

Is it true that self-sacrifice is noble or even necessary? Does this really serve our families and our loved ones?  Learn how simple it can be to check in with yourself the next time you are putting everyone else’s needs above your own (because there WILL be a next time!). 

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In this episode, two adoptive moms share the challenges of bonding with their children. Specifically, Liene’s youngest son was adopted as a toddler, and she keeps returning to the story that she needs to know his past before she can understand or truly connect with him. 

Yet is that true? What happens when you are faced with a situation in which you will likely never know the history? Can you challenge your own thoughts on the matter and create a new story? These are the places that we will explore today. It is not only about forming new bonds but also about letting go of old attachments that no longer serve us. 

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On her birthday, Liene shares the dread she used to feel around approaching her 40s. This was also combined with expectations around how each celebration should play out. This might sound familiar, as we tend to envision the ways our loved ones will show up for us. As a result, we end up attaching our self-worth to the behaviour of other people. 

This is a valuable conversation around setting an intention for your birthday (and any day) and then allowing it to play out exactly as it will. But, of course, even the best-laid plans don’t always unfold as you had hoped, and that doesn’t mean anything has gone wrong. 

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Sunny on https://sunnythelifecoach.com/ and
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Sunny opens up about her struggles in coming to terms with recent laws passed in her state that are viewed as impacting women’s rights. With full awareness that she cannot control the laws that are passed any more than she can control other “big things” in the world, Sunny is in need of Liene’s guidance to determine her personal responsibility. 

This is a powerful coaching experience packed into a short timeframe that is bound to resonate with women who feel called to make a meaningful impact. We have also shared the video with our group, linked below – check it out! 

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Listen in as we break down the special anxiety around “back to school” in 2021! Last year was certainly different, and we acknowledge this. However, this school year seems to bring its own special flavour of worry and concern, particularly in the US with all of the different state-led rules and mandates (or lack thereof). Sunny will share her thoughts on the matter, and Liene will keep the curiosity flowing. 

To be clear, we are not necessarily advocating one side or the other. We don’t get into what is “right” or “wrong” on a societal level, but more specifically, what feels “right” or “wrong” for YOU, for your family, and your community. 

It is far too easy to get sucked into the global narratives. Let’s simply have a real conversation between two moms (who love their children deeply and unconditionally) living on opposite sides of this globe. 

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Sunny on https://sunnythelifecoach.com/ and 
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Welcome to the first episode of Moms Getting Mental, where Sunny and Liene jump right into the deep end! Two boy moms and life coaches separated by an ocean get real about the influences of our own mothers as we compare the places our life journeys have led us.   

Regardless of where we live, as humans, we assign meaning to our stories. Often, we find ourselves attached to the role of victim and we blame our parents for “messing up” our lives. What if we could adopt the belief that everything happens exactly the way that it’s supposed to happen? A shift in your thoughts can be liberating. Indeed, it is the way to freedom and empowerment.

With this authentic conversation, we invite you to widen the lens through which you view the world and to expand your perception. We have the ability to change our identities without changing anything about our lives, including the mothers we have and the mothers we become. 😉

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