More Human. More Kind. | Parenting LGBTQ Kids, Unlearning Fear, Becoming More Human

More Human. More Kind. | Parenting LGBTQ Kids, Unlearning Fear, Becoming More Human

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More Human. More Kind. | Parenting LGBTQ Kids, Unlearning Fear, Becoming More Human episodes

  • Control Is an Illusion: How Parents of LGBTQ Kids Can Shift to Influence and Finally Find Connection

    Do you ever feel like the harder you try to guide your LGBTQ child, the more they pull away?

    You’re not alone. In this deeply personal episode, Heather Hester explores the emotional weight of control, how it shows up in families, and why learning to lead with influence, not force, can transform your relationship with your child. Whether you’re parenting a queer or trans teen or simply navigating a tense family dynamic, this episode offers a compassionate reframe grounded in real-life stories and tools.

    • Understand why control breeds resistance and how influence fosters lasting trust
    • Learn how to recognize control patterns in your parenting and gently shift your approach
    • Discover Heather’s ARCC method for setting loving boundaries with courage and clarity

    Press play to begin releasing control and embracing the kind of influence that builds deeper bonds with your LGBTQ+ child and with yourself.

    Resource Spotlight

    • Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly — A powerful book about vulnerability, trust, and courage. It’s a reminder that letting go of control is often where the real strength lies.
    • Greater Good Science Center (UC Berkeley) — Research-backed resources on how compassion and influence, not control, create healthier relationships and communities.
    • The Gottman Institute — Relationship experts offering tools to replace control with influence and build trust in families, partnerships, and beyond.

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

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    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    16 min
  • When a Public Figure Dies and Your Feelings Are Complicated: A Guide for Parents of LGBTQ Kids

    How do we hold space for grief, truth, and humanity when someone who had polarizing views is taken by violence?

    In moments like these, where headlines are loud and emotions run high, many of us are struggling with what it means to respond in a way that’s honest, compassionate, and grounded. Whether you're a parent, a leader, or simply a human trying to make sense of a complicated world, this episode offers a place to pause, reflect, and choose kindness without erasing truth.

    • Understand why grief can feel especially complex when someone who caused harm dies tragically.
    • Explore how to navigate the tension between grace, anger, and justice in a polarized world.
    • Learn how to model grounded, honest responses for your kids and communities without losing your humanity.

    Press play to explore the messy truth of holding space for both grief and accountability, and how choosing kindness in hard moments might be the most powerful thing we can do.

    Full quote from Martin Luther King Jr.'s children

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    15 min
  • Why Your LGBTQ Teen May Be Turning to AI for Mental Health Support and What Parents Need to Know

    Is your teen turning to an AI chatbot when they’re in crisis? Would you even know if they were?

    In this eye-opening episode, Heather Hester explores the booming use of AI mental health apps like Woebot and Replika, especially among Gen Z and LGBTQ+ youth. Why are young people choosing bots over therapists or parents? What do these tools offer and what are they missing? This conversation pulls back the curtain on a growing mental health trend and offers actionable guidance for parents, educators, and allies navigating this new reality.

    • Understand why Gen Z is turning to AI for emotional support and what it reveals about their mental health needs
    • Learn the real risks (and potential benefits) of AI therapy tools, especially for LGBTQ+ teens
    • Discover how to open meaningful conversations about mental health and tech without fear, shame, or disconnection

    Press play to learn how to use curiosity, connection, and compassion, not control, to guide Gen Z’s use of AI for mental health.

    Resource Spotlight

    • Crisis Text Line — Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a live, trained counselor.
    • Jed Foundation (JED) — Programs protecting emotional health of teens and young adults: jedfoundation.org
    • Verywell Mind: Best Therapy Apps of 2025 — Curated reviews of mental health apps, pros and cons: verywellmind.com
    • Psychology Today Therapist Directory — To find affirming, human-based therapists: psychologytoday.com

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    19 min
  • Kindness Can Save a Life: What Parents and Allies of LGBTQ Kids Need to Know About the Power of Small Acts

    What if kindness weren't just a nice gesture, but a radical act of love that could save a life?

    For parents of LGBTQ+ youth and allies navigating an increasingly disconnected, dangerous, and crisis-driven world, kindness isn’t fluff, it’s safety. It’s neuroscience. It’s survival. In this episode, you’ll learn how your smallest actions might become someone’s turning point. (allyship, inclusion, parenting, mental health, LGBTQ)

    • Discover the science behind why kindness calms the nervous system and heals emotional pain
    • Understand how to show up for others, especially your kids, with intention, not fear
    • Learn 3 ways to practice life-changing kindness this week (even if you’re short on time or energy)

    Tap play to rethink what kindness really means and how it can transform lives, including your own.

    Resource Spotlight:

    • Kindness.org — Research-based tools and inspiration for practicing intentional kindness: kindness.org
    • Random Acts of Kindness Foundation — Free resources to spark daily kindness: randomactsofkindness.org
    • Mental Health America — Guidance and community programs to promote mental well-being: mhanational.org

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    22 min
  • Being LGBTQ Doesn't Cause Mental Health Struggles. Rejection Does. Here's What Parents Need to Know.

    Have you ever heard someone say LGBTQ kids struggle with mental health because of who they are?

    In this urgent episode, Heather Hester dismantles one of the most dangerous myths surrounding LGBTQ+ youth: that their mental health struggles are inherent. With clarity and compassion, she explores the real causes like rejection, stigma, and lack of affirming care, and shares what parents, allies, and advocates can do to protect the lives and dignity of LGBTQ+ youth today.

    • Learn why identity isn’t the problem, rejection is, and how that impacts LGBTQ+ mental health
    • Discover the daily actions parents and allies can take to become affirming, life-saving supports
    • Understand how simple shifts in language, access, and community can protect youth from isolation, depression, and despair

    Press play to unlearn the harmful myths and learn how to be the advocate your LGBTQ+ loved one needs. Affirmation isn’t a luxury, it’s protection.

    Resource Spotlight:

    • The Trevor Project — 24/7 crisis intervention and suicide prevention services for LGBTQ+ young people. thetrevorproject.org
    • Trans Lifeline — Peer support hotline run by and for trans people: 877-565-8860.
    • GLMA (Health Professionals Advancing LGBTQ+ Equality) — Directory to find LGBTQ+-affirming healthcare providers: glma.org
    • NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) — Mental health resources, education, and support groups: nami.org

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    24 min
  • One Conversation Can Lower Your LGBTQ Child's Suicide Risk by 40%: Here's Exactly What to Say

    What if the most life-saving thing you do this week isn’t a therapy appointment or medication, but a single, courageous conversation?

    For LGBTQ+ youth, suicide risk remains heartbreakingly high not because of who they are, but because of the rejection, fear, and silence they too often face. In this vital episode, Heather Hester cuts through the discomfort to teach parents and allies how to break that silence with compassion, clarity, and life-affirming guidance.

    • Learn the real reasons behind the suicide risk facing LGBTQ+ youth and what the data actually says
    • Recognize critical warning signs and how to respond without fear, judgment, or overwhelm
    • Discover the “index card” strategy and other proven tools that make hard conversations easier AND can literally save lives

    Press play to learn how your presence, your love, and your willingness to speak can become the most powerful allyship tool you have.

    Resource Spotlight

    • The Trevor Project – 24/7 crisis support for LGBTQ youth: Call 1-866-488-7386, Text “START” to 678-678, or use the chat at thetrevorproject.org
    • Trans Lifeline – 877-565-8860 (U.S.), 877-330-6366 (Canada)
    • Crisis Text Line - Text "HELLO" or "HOLA" to 741-741
    • TWLOHA Suicide Prevention Month Campaign
    • Mental Health Toolkit

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    27 min
  • Support Your Queer Child Without Family Drama

    Are you heading to a holiday weekend gathering with your LGBTQ child where not everyone is affirming and you're wondering how to protect their well-being without creating more tension?

    For many families, gatherings (family or otherwise) bring complicated emotions. When your child is LGBTQ+ and not everyone in the room is supportive, the stakes get higher. In this episode, Heather offers heartfelt, practical guidance to help you lead with courage, protect your peace, and prioritize what matters most: your child’s well-being and your own.

    1. Learn how to set compassionate, non-negotiable boundaries with extended family and friends
    2. Use simple scripts to respond to misgendering, microaggressions, or toxic conversations
    3. Explore ways to re-center your child and yourself before, during, and after family gatherings

    Press play to feel more grounded, prepared, and empowered to lead with kindness and courage this holiday season, for your LGBTQ child and your whole family.

    RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT

    Resource: PFLAG’s “When Someone You Love Is LGBTQ+” Guide

    Why it matters: This is a gentle, practical guide you can even share with family members who are trying, but struggling, to understand. It’s clear, respectful, and designed to build bridges.

    Other helpful resources:

    1. LGBTQ Family Acceptance Toolkit – The Trevor Project
    2. Family Acceptance Project – Research-based resources for families navigating identity and belonging
    3. Chrysalis Mama Articles – My own words and experience

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    16 min
  • Parenting a Gay Son When You Thought You Were Prepared: An Honest Conversation With Author Anna McArthur

    Do you think you're doing the right thing for your LGBTQ child, but still feel like you're fumbling through it alone?

    In this deeply honest and empowering episode, Heather Hester is joined by author Anna MacArthur to explore what happens when your child comes out before you’re ready and how to grow into the fierce, loving, and informed parent they need. Together, they unpack the emotional rollercoaster of learning, unlearning, and becoming an LGBTQ+ ally in real time.

    • Hear the real story behind Anna’s unexpected journey from confusion to courage after her son’s coming out
    • Learn how to handle grief, guilt, and vulnerability without letting fear take the lead
    • Discover what LGBTQ+ youth actually need from their parents and how to be that person, even when you don’t have all the answers

    Press play to feel seen, supported, and inspired as a parent, and walk away with new clarity, compassion, and courage on your LGBTQ+ parenting journey.

    Anna's book: Hope for Moms

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    37 min
  • The Difference Between Nice and Kind in Schools and Why It Matters for Your LGBTQ Child's Safety

    Is your school community confusing “nice” with “kind” and leaving LGBTQ students unsupported in the process?

    As a new school year begins, many of us want to build more inclusive classrooms and communities, but surface-level politeness won’t get us there. This episode challenges parents, educators, and allies to embrace kindness as a courageous, everyday act that builds true safety and connection.

    • Learn the key difference between being “nice” and practicing real kindness in school settings
    • Get ready-to-use scripts for handling misgendering, exclusion, and passive comments with compassion and clarity
    • Discover simple ways to raise children who lead with empathy and protect their peers with quiet courage

    Press play to learn how kindness can become a bold tool for change—and how you can model and teach it this school year.

    RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT

    Resource: Welcoming Schools – Back-to-School Kindness Resources

    Why it matters: This toolkit includes class posters, conversation starters, book lists, and sample lessons to help schools and families build inclusive environments from day one.

    Other resources to explore:

    • Teaching Tolerance (Learning for Justice) – Culturally responsive lesson plans and conversation starters
    • Kindness.org – Research-backed kindness practices for schools and communities
    • StoryCorps’ “Listen Closely” LGBTQ Archive – Stories that inspire empathy, connection, and action

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    14 min
  • How to Help Your LGBTQ Teen Thrive in College: What Parents Need to Know About Housing, Healthcare, and Letting Go

    Is your LGBTQ teen heading to college and you’re wondering how to support them without smothering their independence?

    The transition to college is a huge milestone. For LGBTQ students, it can bring both liberation and new layers of fear, risk, and identity exploration. This episode offers the tools and guidance parents and allies need to empower their teen while staying emotionally connected.

    • Help your LGBTQ+ teen prepare for affirming housing, healthcare, and mental health resources
    • Learn how to support their safety and autonomy with practical strategies
    • Discover how to stay lovingly connected without hovering and build trust in a new phase of parenting

    Press play to learn how courage, communication, and allyship can transform your LGBTQ teen’s college experience for both of you.

    RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT

    Resource: Campus Pride Index

    Why it matters: A searchable database of U.S. colleges rated on their LGBTQ+ friendliness, including housing, policies, and student life. Perfect for researching before and after enrollment.

    Other helpful resources:

    • OutCare Health – LGBTQ-affirming health providers nationwide
    • Trevor Project’s Coming Out Guide for College
    • Trans Lifeline – Especially helpful for students navigating gender identity support
    • The Jed Foundation – Mental health resources tailored for college students

    Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

    Feeling uncertain or overwhelmed? Stay informed - visit my website

    Join the Conversation on Substack

    Read my book, Parenting with Pride.

    Support the Show - Learn more here!

    Watch on YouTube

    Listen * Share * Review *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!

    This is a place to feel messy while you're figuring it out.

    At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.

    For parents, allies, and those pioneering a way to lead with love and kindness, I’m here with true, messy, and heartwarming stories, real tools, and grounding support to help you move from fear to fierce, informed action.

    Whether you’re listening in, working with me directly, or quietly taking it all in, I see you. And I’m so glad you’re on this journey with me.

    More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.

    15 min

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