Mother Muse

Happy Halloween! Today was the perfect day to release this episode on grief, and how romanticizing it uplevels your feminine healing journey.

Most people will tell you to romanticize your life through buying fresh flowers or wearing a pretty dress, and while these are all aesthetically pleasing and soothing to our environment, a true, soft, romantic life requires romanticizing your grief.

This doesn’t mean having a victim mindset, or manifesting negative situations in order to grow, but becoming curious on the new relationship that you are meant to have with yourself on the other side of a challenge or intense situation in your life.

Feminine energy is a cyclical essence, and one that is constantly experiencing death and rebirth. Many of us are afraid to grieve an identity we’ve assumed, or a lifestyle that is no longer serving us, but the rupture is the key to becoming open for more.

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You or someone you know have probably experienced a “gut feeling” at least once in their life. Dreams and gut feelings are the most popular (and culturally accepted) forms of intuition, but there is an entire guidance system in our bodies that most of us aren’t taught to tap into!

Creatives are slowly moving away from the “starving artist” archetype with the access to online resources and opportunities for connection available, but what if the missing link has been within you all along? And you just need to work the muscle?

In this episode, Kate shares:

* What intuition is

* Her recent intuitive downloads around writing and publishing that have led to breakthroughs and ah-ha moments

* The difference between a psychic and an intuitive

* Why creatives (dancers, writers, healers, etc.) especially need to have intuition in their corner

* A short energy practice so you can start tapping into your intuition to make decisions that are aligned for you!

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I had the opportunity recently to partner with a book club who hosted my fantasy romance novel “Threads of Flames and Starlight” for the month of September (which was my birthday month!) I was invited to the meeting at the beginning of October, and had the most amazing time doing Q&A and chatting with everyone.

This episode is a recap of that night, and I’m manifesting doing this again soon!

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If the Mean Girls movie scene with the quote, “How many of you have ever felt personally victimized by Regina George?” where a real life scenario, we’d all be raising our hands if asked if we’ve been triggered.

It’s part of life. But what most don’t learn is how to use our triggers, otherwise known as reflections, to help us grow.

In this episode, we discuss the Mirror Theory aka the Law of Reflection, and Kate shares a recent personal experience where she recognized a reflection (after falling off her dance pole!) and how she’s begun to shift it.

(This is a process that you too can apply!)

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When you think of an independent woman, who comes to mind?

Is she someone who can hold her own, and is also a bright light in the world?

Or has she made a beautiful life for herself, while feeling anxious, unsafe, and unfulfilled?

In the debate of the “independent woman,” some claim that it is rooted in anger and unattractive, while others find a woman’s ambition a turn on.

This podcast is a reflection into deciphering what it means to be independent, or alternatively, soverign

The sovereign independent woman leads with her heart, not her competition

In this episode, we discuss:

* The Law of Polarity and how it applies to relationships

* What men truly mean when they find an independent woman to be attractive (or unattractive!)

* An explanation of the energy that inspires men to value your time, essence, and energy (no need to scroll on “how to make him obsessed with you” videos!

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Today is my 24th BIRTHDAY and I’m coming to you today with 24 things I’ve learned in 24 years. Each one is numbered below! Sending you so much love, and enjoy!

1.) let each chapter of your life be a puzzle piece, not a block

2.) romance is not hopeless

3.) don’t force something before it’s ready

4.) your mind is more malleable than you think

5.) you don’t have to stay the same person you were a year ago

6.) strive for balance, not excitement

7.) your intuition is your best friend

8.) fall in love with being a woman

9.) cherish your body, because it’s sacred

10.) notice how it’s all working out for you

11.) call in support when you need it

12.) don’t be afraid to try new things, especially in your early 20s

13.) if you feel the pull, do it! Don’t delay

14.) your potential scares you only because you haven’t seen how safe it is yet

15.) love for yourself is a necessity. Don’t deny it

16.) Nurture your inner teenager

17.) play with life instead of fighting it

18.) be grateful for the things that seem like they’re going wrong

19.) learn your personal style and how to glow!

20.) validation is overrated. Strive for fulfillment

21.) Creativity isn’t childish. It’s part of who you are

22.) Learn to feel safe embracing your femininity

23.) Stop shrinking yourself or pushing peoples compliments away

24.) Establish in your mind that you only get smarter, hotter, and richer every year

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You: “I am successful”

Your Brain: “You’re not the one who got the promotion.”

You: “I am financially abundant.”

Your Brain: “What about the $500 we just spent on car repairs? Or the 2k sitting on the credit card. Oh, and we need more groceries.”

Sound familiar?

Affirmations have been a gateway to allowing us to entertain the possiblity of a new life, identity, and environment.

However, our mind has a system called the “Reticular Activating System” that is screaming “objection!” when you are reciting affirmations.

It’s not trying to sabotage you, but keep you safe in the unconscious stories you’ve been building since your childhood.

In this episode, we discuss:

* The affirmation scene from a “Sex and the City” episode

* Why affirmations can cause frustration

* What the Reticular Activating System is and how to tweak your affirmations (and how you relate to them) to actually magnetize your manifestations in a fun way

So that way your mind is playing a role similar to a bubbly, curious Ariel from The Little Mermaid discovering a shipwreck, instead of a grumpy grandpa stuck in his ways!

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“The Universe is My Sugar Daddy” phrase in feminine-based businesses is slowly fading out, but for this reason:

We don’t receive by saying affirmations and meditating all day

This energy pulls us out of our healthy femininity, and into codependent energy that takes us away from recognizing our inner power.

Sure, it’s a fun and sexy affirmation

But do we misunderstand what actually goes into a Sugar dynamic?

Do men (and the universe) actually respond to entitlement, and constant lean-back energy, or do they require presence and growth in order to be willing to provide long term?

In manifestation, are we being irresponsible sugar babies?

In this episode:

* Kate shares the Instagram post that inspired this topic (and her findings on what sugar daddies actually want, and applying it to manifestation)

* How taking action and improving yourself makes you more open to sustainable manifestations

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It’s a myth that the masculine leads first.

It is the feminine.

She sets the example for how she craves to be adored, loved, and cherished.

Then the masculine follows suit.

Like romantic connections, the association we have with our desires are a relationship that desires to be nourished.

By acquainting ourselves with the sensations, and sensuality, of having our desires in the 3D reality, the universe can fill in the rest.

I recently experimented with the concept of using physical sensation, and scent in particualar, to manifest a financial goal in a recent book launch.

We tend to think we have a block when our manifestations feel far away...

But it is a matter of realignment, and familiarizing our body’s experience with the desired outcome now.

In this episode we explore:

* The concept of blocks vs. realignment

* How our brain associates scent with more than just a smell, but an experience

* How the lover archetype, and bringing sensuality into your life, draws in your manifestations

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Heretic Parfum

The story of Eros and Psyche is one that is beloved across generations.

The god of desire, and the goddess of soul, join together in partnership.

They face challenges that force Eros to be vulnerable, and Psyche to ascend from mortal to goddess.

There are a multitude of lessons we can learn from their journey, but today’s episode is focused on this:

The combination of desire, and soul, birthed pleasure. (In the story, their daughter Hedone, the goddess of joy and pleasure)

We often get too caught up in solely desire, and forget our spirit, in the pursuit of pleasure.

The story of Eros and Psyche show us how these two essences are not separate, but the ingredients to our ultimate joy.

In this episode we explore:

* How excitement and desire are not the driving factor of manifestation, but the byproduct

* Understanding what your desires are providing for you now, even if the 3D expression is not yet here

* A short retelling of Eros and Psyche, and what their journey teaches us about the manifestation journey

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