Hey Mamas! We're just yapping today. got a lot of things on my mind so I hope y'all are cool with letting me hold space with you for a moment Amen?!

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction

05:10 Life Updates

10:34 Reflections on Motherhood and Growing Kids

15:46 Emotional Struggles and Coping Mechanisms

21:21 Prayer and Seeking Guidance

26:03 Navigating the Idea of Dating

34:18 Conclusion

Hey Mamas! This episode was especially requested by a listener! I'm sharing what I did to prepare to buy my house as a single mom. Not gonna lie, it was hard work, it took time, but it was well worth it. If I can do it, you can too Amen?!

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Budgeting Methods

Zero Based Budgeting

50/30/20 Rule

Envelope System

Pay Yourself First Method

Priority Based Budgeting

80/20 Rule

Line Item Budgeting

Reverse Budgeting

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

04:24 Decluttering and Mindset for Homeownership

09:15 Defining Your Home Preferences

14:42 Understanding and Improving Your Credit

23:43 Budgeting and Saving for Your Home

31:21 Final Tips and Encouragement for Homebuyers

Hey Mamas! Find a hobby, and do the hobby. Life can't be all about kids, work and doom scrolling. You need something that's just for you, that brings you happiness and joy outside of being a mom, wife or any other title you've picked up along the way. You'd be surprised what a simple hobby could do for your overall quality of life.

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Chapters

00:00 Welcome to Motherhood is Ghetto

01:37 The Importance of Hobbies for Moms

06:19 Discovering Joy in Podcasting

09:59 Rediscovering the Love for Reading

13:41 The Therapeutic Benefits of Journaling

14:39 Exploring Digital Planning

17:07 Hobbies to Try When Feeling Numb

19:39 Hobbies for Mental Exhaustion

21:25 Hobbies for Physical Tiredness

22:44 Hobbies for Emotional Drainage

23:54 Finding Hobbies for Personal Fulfillment

25:44 Hobbies for Low Attention Spans

26:54 Encouragement to Explore New Hobbies

Hey Mamas!! Whew... We made it through the year Amen?! Big thanks to everyone who has tuned in this year, it truly means a lot. In this episode, I'm sharing insights from our recent trip to Disneyland and some practical tips if you're planning a trip to Disney with the kids. I'm also sharing what I've learned during my 30+ days of LOA from my job, and how I'm moving forward going into 2026.

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Chapters

00:00 New Year Reflections and Hopes for 2026

00:54 Planning the Disneyland Trip

03:58 Travel Logistics and Accommodations

07:50 Essential Packing Tips for Disneyland

14:15 Merchandise and Budgeting at Disneyland

17:33 Comfort and Practicality: Shoes and Rest

20:14 Understanding Lightning Lane Passes

29:03 Lessons from 30 Days Off Work

37:13 Therapy and Personal Growth

45:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

Hey Mamas!! I'm answering some questions I got from some AMAZING listeners!! Thank you for the questions, and don't be shy! Send more please! My hope for this community is for it to be a safe space we can ask questions and discuss motherhood, widow life, single motherhood, kids and anything else as long as it adds value to the community amen?!

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Overview of Solomon's School Situation

04:54 The Decision to Change Schools

10:17 The Turning Point: Mental Health Concerns

14:49 Positive Changes at the New School

19:59 House Update and Homeownership Insights

28:58 The Joys of Homeownership

34:38 Supporting Mental Health in Children

44:12 Processing Grief and Loss

54:31 Finding Joy in Everyday Life

Hey Mamas! Today we are diving in to some fears us Autism parents have for our children. What life may look like when they'll eventually have to do life without us. Some of the fears we have are more common than you'd think, but just know that your best while you're here with them is all you can do.

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Chapters

00:00 The Joy of Christmas Celebrations

03:47 Unspoken Fears of Autism Parents

15:14 Common Fears Among Autism Parents

Hey Mamas! I've made mistakes throughout my motherhood journey... lots of them. Mistakes will always be a part of the journey, but the key is to learn and grow from them.

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Takeaways

We all make mistakes in motherhood.

Financial mismanagement can have long-term effects.

Assuming children know better can lead to misunderstandings.

Prioritizing work over family can lead to regret.

Setting boundaries is essential in gentle parenting.

Learning from past mistakes is crucial for growth.

Modeling behavior is important for children's development.

Open communication with children helps them navigate social situations.

It's never too late to change parenting approaches.

Being present for children is a priority.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Excitement for Son's Concert

01:44 Reflecting on Motherhood Mistakes

04:48 Financial Mismanagement as a Mother

09:43 Assuming Kids Know Better

18:41 Prioritizing Work Over Family

23:33 Setting Boundaries in Gentle Parenting

Hey Mamas! Even though it may not seem like it all the time, being single does have its perks! I'm sharing some of the good things about being a single mom that have had a meaningful impact in my journey as a single mom.

Don't forget to rewatch EP 81. Tis The Season -> https://open.spotify.com/episode/0d2OgD1bWMx8COuwxoRqLs?si=FutszR0nRr2dg5a5-RzOAA

Chapters

00:00 Thanksgiving Reflections and Family Connections

02:58 Embracing Single Motherhood

06:51 Perks of Being a Single Mom

15:48 Intentional Parenting and Personal Growth

Hey Mamas! I made a big decision to prioritize myself and my well-being. When our minds and bodies tell us that we need to stop and take a break, it's imperative that we listen and proceed accordingly. We are no longer running ourselves into the ground. We have kids to see into adulthood and beyond. You being well IS A PRIORITY.

Hey Mamas! I've been thinking about some of the core values that were instilled in me growing up, and how I'm modeling those same values for my kids. Patience, respect, work ethic and the value of a dollar. I thought it would be helpful to share how I am modeling these values for my children in hopes to help anyone who may need advice on how to model them for their kids too.