M’s Perspective

How can you be a show off and still expect to be respected or liked? Sorry to say but you know those peers who tolerate your attitude it’s not because they like you or respect you but rather because they have their own selfish insecurities leading to them tolerating you. How is it hard for some to just be satisfied by minding their own business and not feel the need to downgrade other to feel good about themselves. Are you that desperate to see yourself value/worth through the lens of downgrading someone else? Is that where it lies..by being mean disrespectful etc?

You do know there are different ways to enjoying life right? Then why do you always feel as if your ways are the main ways of how everyone defines “enjoying life”? Btw the same reason you give of why your way is the way to go about enjoying life, just a remind it’s the same way that someone can use to criticise you simply because they see it different. That’s why now this question comes out to you, WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF ENJOYING LIFE? WHAT DOES ENJOYING LIFE INVOLVE? I’ve said my part, listen to know...

How is your Image affecting where you wanna be now or what you want to do? Is this due to the fact that you’re scared to change people’s perspective of who you are or you’ve just gotten comfortable within that image of yours? You do realise you can reshape what people think of you since you’re the one who gave them what to think about you in the 1st place....? It’s On You To Get Where You Wanna Be Not On Anybody Else.

Do we not forgive because that’s who we are, or is that what the world has made us believe? Has the world made us so heartless and so egotistic that we are more likely to lose something good for ourselves just because we ain’t willing to forgive? Do you agree that the world has normalised some things to be forgiven and some others to not be? Yes/No!? But that’s the world’s, What is yours? Just because the world has normalised it-it doesn’t mean you also have to feel the same, what is worth forgiving from your end should come from you/within you not from the world’s point of view.

So what if you couldn’t make it into your chosen career, so what if you’ve invested so much time into it, what if...that’s just one career out of other thousand careers out there, why don’t you chose something from there. Success does not just end at your passionate career, success can still be achieved even in the career you hate, why don’t you give it a go and see...

You Set Those Goals By Yourself Then Be Responsible For Them. Don’t Burden others For Them. It not fair how we feel the need to burden others with our success as if they already don’t have so much going on in their lives. It’s like we are always needing them to remind us what we owe to do as if they were there the time we set our mind into achieving whatever we think they can motivate us with. Piece of reminder You set those goals without them and therefore it’s your responsibility to achieve them with or without them. Stop thinking that they always have to be there for you because they don’t, if you start something be confident enough that you will reach the end goal without anyone else. If you can start it alone you can also finish it alone. Be inspired by yourself 1st before you be inspired by someone else...

Everything that happens to us is unpredictable, of course some thing are the type that we might have seen coming but others we didn’t. Now when all that happens, what do you do about it, how do you go about it? Do you say life happens and you move on and try to make the experience worthwhile or do you say life happens and still go about it negatively by projecting bad things about yourself that you shouldn’t? What does “life happens” really mean to you?

If you stop loving because of them, you then become them. Don’t become heartless for someone else’s heartless. Their Betrayal shouldn’t change how you LOVE or CARE For People. Don’t take away One Gift that God has blessed you with For their lack of love or affection for others. Keep yours and maybe that will be something that would draw them closer to it again....

It’s about time we all take ownership for the scars our nationalities and ethnicities are enduring. We can’t be out here trying to find someone to blame for the hate they endure ignoring the fact that we are the cause of it. We portrayed that about ourselves and yet here we are asking questions like “why do they hate us”As if we Don’t know why. We are the reason, how about we now own up to it. We owe them an apology, we owe ourself an apology because if we are disliked as nationalities/ethnicities we are to blame for it, No one else but us.

My nationality and who I am are One, if I criticise them I criticise Myself.

I don’t know why we are so busy criticising our own nationalities thinking that other nationalities don’t have some major issues within them. Yes of course we can only speak for what we know and within that lies your misunderstanding of what you know nothing about. The Less you know the more you love and the more you know the more you Hate, so try knowing more about them and see how you will start embracing your own. If you can’t expose your family’s issues to the public, why expose your nationality’s issues to other nationalities you know nothing about? God placed you in that nationality because He knew that was what fit you better, otherwise.......IF YOU CAN’T EMBRACE THEM YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE PERSONALLY.