Let’s all be careful of whose life we wish for. It’s okay to be inspired of course, however, what baggage comes with those who inspire us is something that is less talked about. Of course those who inspire us have a positive impact of who we should be but it’s important to acknowledge that they also do impact us negatively on who we owe to be. What are we losing by focusing so much on those who inspire us? Have you ever wondered that? You’re losing something for sure if you didn’t know......

It is easy to project your change within others ignoring the fact that it is within you and not them. Just because someone who once gave you their time gets occupied with more things that sets them to reach their purpose does not really indicate they’ve changed. What that shows is that they now know what they want and how to go about in achieving it. Stop negatively impacting them by leading them to question or doubt their purpose. If you wish them well then acknowledge that the change can also be within you.

We’ve all been disliked by so many along the way due to how we present ourself in daily lives and more importantly due to how people project us to be. Why does one feel the need to make people hate another person just because they happen to hate them. Aren’t you satisfied being the only hater out there?

So what if you are different from the rest of the world? What if you don’t want to be who your family wants you to be? What if....? What if.....?. Then be who you want to be but most importantly be who God has created you to be. Anyways remember we cannot all be the same. Be happy with yourself because God who made you is satisfied with you.

Do you take decisions for yourself or are they taken for you? What do you live by or stand for? How much do you know yourself and How easily are you influenced by other’s decisions?

Despite of how much or how long the spotlight has been shining on you just know that it will not last forever. However if you want it to stay forever consider sharing your spotlight with someone else. Double the success by sharing your talents with those who need them to also get a little bit of that spotlight while they can.

Nothing you ever do as a pay back ends up good because in the midst of it all your are only negatively ruining your life. You might do it thinking you’re hurting them but your are also destroying your life.

Do you ever wonder why someone is not as open to you as they should be? Why are you always compromising to speak your mind? Speak it because you don’t know the power your mind/voice holds. We need it!

Why are you waiting for someone else to give you a push when you can do it for yourself? Go on and pursue that dream.

They will listen totally different to how He will listen to you. With Him your are put on time limit of when he can hear you out. With Him you have all the focus and He is not here to judge you like they will. Why go to them when you know He is ready for you 24/7. He is on time for you and they are not.