Just Because They Put You 1st Doesn’t Mean They Respect You.......Why do You always feel the need to follow others schedules by rescheduling Yours? Why do You think that You can’t say no to someone if they need a favour as if You are obligated to give it? Are You though? Not sure about You but on this end You don’t, especially if that’s making You put yourself on hold for them. And You’re out here thinking they are asking for a favour because You’re the only one who can do it! You’re not. They put You 1st because they know You ain’t serious with what’s Yours. Those who are serious with what’s theirs they wouldn’t bother calling them because they respect their time. IF YOU DON’T RESPECT WHAT’S YOURS or YOUR TIME, WHY SHOULD THEY? Don’t reschedule. They want a favour from you then let them be the ones to reschedule not the other way around.

It’s so simple to give advices but it’s so hard to practice the same advices you offer. Stop trying to make people who genuinely seek for your advice an experiment 🧪 for you. Even to those who’ve experienced the advice they might be seeking, also try letting people have an option of what to take from your advice or not, don’t impose it on them. Just because you might have had a bad one doesn’t mean they will also have the same.....

BE YOU! But which me? The emotional me? The me that acts like I can’t talk back when I can? The me who allows you to say whatever about me and says nothing back? Or the me who can answer back. Which me exactly are you referring to because I have a lot of me within me that I am not aware of either. So please be more specific. Just because I am acting different doesn’t mean I am not the one you’ve always known. Your situation is making me act the way I am and that is me being Me. Maybe try being the you that I know and I will continue being the one you also know....stop changing yourself just because someone is not comfortable with the you, you are when your environment changes. AFTER ALL YOU HAVE TO ADAPT TO THE NEW ENVIRONMENT YOU’RE IN OTHERWISE.....

Who are you to determine that tomorrow won’t exist? What if it does exist? what are you going to do when you were so focused about the day you had yesterday that you forgot to reserve for it?. If we are going to focus more on negativity of what tomorrow will hold, we will never reserve anything positive for it. We should stop allowing our today to affect our tomorrow as if it does not exist because we have to live in possibilities of it might exist or not. And then the question becomes what if it exist and I did not reserve anything for it, what am I going to do?. Tomorrow won’t look for itself because you’re the one who has to provide for it.....YES YOU’RE IN A RIGHT PLACE TODAY BUT ALSO MAKE SURE THAT SAME PLACE FEELS RIGHT TOMORROW TOO.

It’s so hard to understand how we are told that the only way we can access happiness is by sacrificing something. And the question begs here on how can one be happy by giving up what makes them happy? HOW!?

Why are we filled with so much negativity within us? Why can’t we just look at things/life in a positive way? How can we keep pushing when we are just being negative about everything? Not quiet sure about some of you but for some I believe that the only way to keep you moving forward is when you are being positive with everything that life throws at you. Why can’t we just embrace it as it comes and as it goes because maybe that way life will be more beautiful to all of us and not just to some....

It’s important that we know the type of encouragement that can positively impact us and the type that can lead to our downfall. Why can’t we be honest with our encouragements to those we care about? Why do we always feel like we are in competition with them? If your encouragement is not coming truely within and somewhere within you you’re waiting for my downfall, then don’t give it.

Continued episode of episode 13. How do you exist if you’ve become who inspires You. Do you still exist and if so in which way? Does your existence and who God has made you even matter to you? You do realise we are all made different for a reason? Then why them and not You? Stop choosing others over yourself and be happy with “who your are” and what you have.

Let’s all be careful of whose life we wish for. It’s okay to be inspired of course, however, what baggage comes with those who inspire us is something that is less talked about. Of course those who inspire us have a positive impact of who we should be but it’s important to acknowledge that they also do impact us negatively on who we owe to be. What are we losing by focusing so much on those who inspire us? Have you ever wondered that? You’re losing something for sure if you didn’t know......

It is easy to project your change within others ignoring the fact that it is within you and not them. Just because someone who once gave you their time gets occupied with more things that sets them to reach their purpose does not really indicate they’ve changed. What that shows is that they now know what they want and how to go about in achieving it. Stop negatively impacting them by leading them to question or doubt their purpose. If you wish them well then acknowledge that the change can also be within you.